dysfunctional dudes

[Martin T]

So, you've got the fiancee on the way, you're a happy man, and you can afford to vent your dysfunctional personality on all that you encounter on this board. Sure, there are misfits, retards and wise guys here. That's a cross section of humanity. If you are so infuriated by those you encounter here, why do you persist? I know why, the denegration of your fellow man is your enjoyment and satisfaction. What you should really reflect upon, is how you will be treating your lovely Latina wife. She may not be so clever, she may not always understand, she may just get it wrong, time after time. Will you have the heart and the patience to keep that smile on your face every time you look into her eyes? All indications of your personality here, bode for a brief marriage. I find a very unsettling atmosphere on this board. Not a brotherhood, more like a war zone. Maybe it's because I'm foreign, some have been confirming that recently, which is ironic, because that is the nature of who you seek. I've gained some help from the genuine people on the board, and I appreciate it greatly. I would have hoped to remain for the pleasure of being present, but it is no pleasure for me, the goodwill is outweighed by the bad. No need to attack, I'm gone.

[Doug Y.]

... in response to dysfunctional dudes, posted by Martin T on Apr 28, 2001

 You sound like a guy asking to be talked back from the ledge.  If any part of that pep talk requires the censorship of ANY board member, I say JUUUUUUUUUUUMP!!!!

 Happy Landing
 Doug Y.

[Fulanos]

... in response to dysfunctional dudes, posted by Martin T on Apr 28, 2001

Martin,unfortunately I think you may have misinterpreted or missed some of the recent posts or responses. The 'Cali List'posters ,user names and I.P. adds. are definitely
'sus'and written with doubtful motives . With regard to being Australian posters,the syntax in their messages is definitely not Australian, as you would be well aware. It's a shame we can't identity a poster's nationality from their !!ACCENT!!! in a written word ,as can that widely travelled semi-literate murderer of the English language and 'wanna be'Hipanic linguist - " El perrito pequeno".
           Martin you've got to accept your place in the 'pecking order' and behave accordingly ,realising that your dealing with a man?? (and I use the word loosely)so consumed by self doubt,insecurity and feelings of alienation with the human race(especially women) that his only means of boosting his flaccid ego is to attack,demean,ridicule and 'put down'any opinions or views outside his limited cerebral capacity in his comfort zone and safety cocoon of cyberspace. How very,very sad.
                            Don't leave the PL board because of one misfit,rather stay and contribute and benefit from the experiences  and wise counsel of the informed and genuine men and women here.Without a shadow of a doubt it'll be worth it in your quest for your Latina lover.                                                      Who knows,one day "El perrito pequeno" might grow up enough to play with and be accepted by the pack. His lifelong fantasy come true .If it's only for the sake of his novia.  
Chao chao Australiano gringo.                      

[Houndog]

... in response to Re: dysfunctional dudes, posted by Fulanos on Apr 28, 2001

Well, Well, Well, aren't we lucky to be graced by the presence of the spirit of Frued and Einstien combined. So why have you never bestowed such omnipitant wisdom on us mere mortals before Under this name I mean...JaJa.

But thank goddness you chose this opurtunity to descend from your throne on high to impart such devine wisdom upon us....how can we mere humans ever repay you my lord ??

However, before you desend from thither you came, with head swelled and ego appeased if I may call your attention to certian realities, lest you take you own BS to seriously.

Certian Trolls of questionable location and dubious credetials have entered our forum. Slinging arrows of with less than noble intentions. They were questioned about there heritage and intent, only to refuse a reply. Yet one felt compelled to come to there defense, to stroke his own ego and defend the honor of those that didn't pay him the time of day. When questioned as to his seeming knowledge of the character of said trolls..one certian bloke became defensive and beligerent....but alas...beligerence is not an acceptable reply...it causes curiosity to be arroused. And when followed by even more beligerence it causes the return of same. This is an easy game to play...and we all are free to chose the path the game will take.

The rules are so simple...it astonishes me when I see self proclaimed geniues act so ignorant. However I find it quite amusing at the same time. If you choose not to recieve, or lack the character to play the game then don't start something you not capable of finishing. Yes this is just like life, however, just because some have always gotten their way before, like life, doesn't mean they will Always get their way. It is the wise agressor that knows his limits and when he is out of his mental league. But if some insist on carring it to the bitter end, so be it.

Houndog

[NK]

... in response to Re: Re: dysfunctional dudes, posted by Houndog on Apr 28, 2001

nt

[Wasp]

... in response to dysfunctional dudes, posted by Martin T on Apr 28, 2001

The aggro is just part of internet culture.
Don't let it bother you.

[Doug Y.]

... in response to Re: dysfunctional dudes, posted by Wasp on Apr 28, 2001

You're right Wasp, it is aggro.  I wouldn't have it any other way.  I've had my share of guys trying to break me off.
 Many of our (future) Latina GFs, Fiancees, wives are extremely passionate people, (that includes negative) and desire the positive aspects of the Alpha Male, not introspective Alan Alda types.
 
 Martin, you ever seen a T-ed off Latina?  Makes H-dog look like a koala bear....LOL  

 diplomatic incidents? dysfunctional dudes???  This isn't the UN or cognitive therapy.  It's probably more like Anarchy on Wheels..............and that ain't necessarily bad        

 Martin......don't know what city you're from in OZ, but I've met many of your countrymen over the years in the surf and on the beaches of Cal, Mex, Haw...and to a man each and every one of them was a fricken Tasmanian Devil on Crystal Meth.

 I saw two Aussies fightin' for waves in Cabo SL Mex about ten years ago.  One guy cut his friend off one time too many.  On the next (8ft) wave Aussie #1 goes nuts, flying through the air to land (in a headlock) on Aussie #2.  Both were severely pummeled by the wave and came up come for air together howling like a bunch of drunkin' dingoes.

 Aussies have always seemed to me to be good-natured bad-a**es.

 Sack up dawg!!

Doug

[Houndog]

... in response to dysfunctional dudes, posted by Martin T on Apr 28, 2001

Go ahead get it off your chest....it won't make your issue's disappear...but you'll feel some temporary relief.

Houndog