Brasilian Women...an indepth review

[Rich]

... in response to Brasilian Women...an indepth review, posted by esjay on Apr 22, 2001

Emmm Well I was in brazil about 6 years ago travelling for six months and the people were very friendly and very happy to see me. Some of the girls I met were fantastic. The only problem I had was in receife because of the sex industry there and most women I met treated me with suspicion.

I would agree that most women I met had no desire to really leave Brasil and not many speak english(hence no marriage agencies) but many guys I met had married and stayed in brazil. One of my friends is married to a brazilian girl and has no problems other than the usual ups and downs

[Hoda]

... in response to Brasilian Women...an indepth review, posted by esjay on Apr 22, 2001

Interesting...

Nice to see conversation on a country other than Colombia (like that one, huh Malandro). Seriously gentlemen, Do Brazilians consider themselves Latin, even though spanish isn't the primary language? Estay, there's got to be good women in Brazil! There are good & bad EVERYWHERE! Everything you've said about Brazilian women, could be applied to women anywhere. There are racial issues that every Central & South American country tries to keep in the closet. Some more successful than others.

You are absolutely correct about the sex trade & social stigma's attached to those involved in it, directly or indirectly. I'm not gonna be the one to judge Brazil's social or civil morals. Rudeness to foreigners can be found all over. You'll also find those who'll do alittle more to help a foreigner in their country. I've never visited Brazil, however much of what you said, echo's what I've been told by friends who have spent considerable time there. Except for your blanket assesment of Brazilian women.

If you're going to Cali, don't let your guard down! My lady is Colombian & others on this board who have Colombian ladies will sing their praises (Sorry Malandro).
Just remember, you'll also find good & bad women, no matter where you travel.

Peace....Hoda

p.s. If you're serious about searching for a lifemate in Cali, or wherever in Colombia, I'll be glad to help.

[buzzy]

... in response to Brasilian Women...an indepth review, posted by esjay on Apr 22, 2001

Hey thanks for the report.  Personally I found alot of truth in what you said.  People create that crazy  environment and then the environment influences the people generation after generation.  I don't believe your characterization fits every lady in Brazil but there's probably many as you described. But do you hang out in the bars and the beach all the time there? Maybe you're running into more of the rascals than the good ones who are in church.  I often wondered why they spent so much darn time putting on that darn carnival with everybody acting so crazy and all.  Carnival and soccer and the beach...do they have anything else to live for?  But there must be good ladies there.  Finding a wife sounds like it would be a swim upstream all the way(past Ipanema and Copacabana).  I'd still like to visit though and raise some heell.  Sounds like a real fun-and-games type of place!

[Hamlet]

... in response to Brasilian Women...an indepth review, posted by esjay on Apr 22, 2001

Wow!  Thanks for that fascinating report.  I've always wondered why there are no agencies in Brazil and now I know some of the reasons.  

I note that several others in this forum expressed doubt that the conclusions you reached are valid but I also note that none of them reported having any of your experiences living in Brazil.

[Tai]

... in response to Brasilian Women...an indepth review, posted by esjay on Apr 22, 2001

Esjay,

You mean to say that in living 7-8 months in Brazil you've never come across any decent Brazilian women? It would have been interesting to know where and how you were spending/focusing your time.

In a country as large as Brazil, writing off all the millions of women as "nightmares", "gold-diggers", and "two timers" is at the least illogical..and at best...suspect.

.02

Tai

ps - There are millions of AW that "swear" they can't find a Good man.....attitude and perspective shapes one's reality.

[pack]

... in response to Holy "Sweeping Generalizations"..., posted by Tai on Apr 22, 2001

tai is right! esjay your statements are very generalized and somewhat suspect. the examples you are giving could be said about anywhere in the world. women who leave their country and come here get homesick its natural, some women adjust some dont and return to their homeland. to say younger girls are gold diggers again is unfair to say but this also could be any country...plenty of them right here in the good ole u s a .  your comment about the ladies over 30 and their screwed up faces from the sun, thats the first i have ever heard that, you paint a ugly picture but i find it hard to believe.you give the  impression that all these women are two timers , again you can find this happening all over the world its nothing new this has been happening since the beginning of time. you said the brazillians think they are the best at everything , i thought that was strictly an american way of thinking. the few brazillians i have met seem just the opposite of what you say , they seem very friendly and warm. you talk about big spenders hey what woman isnt, i have seen some of the most humble sweet little colombian women go wild in a store with some poor gringos credit card. i have a buddy who lives a few towns over from me married to a calena let me tell you she knows how to spend money,she has maxed out all his credit cards , they have only been married about 15 months. we all take chances where ever we go be it colombia , brazil , peru or right here in the u s a .

[Esjay]

... in response to Holy "Sweeping Generalizations"..., posted by Tai on Apr 22, 2001

I was at a Brasilian university for a time...the middle classes have a big inferiority complex with regard to gringo's, this is a significant barrier to cross as any prospective 'mate' will get considerable ''flak'' from her friends (probably fuelled by jealousy).

Esjay

[Doug Y.]

... in response to Brasilian Women...an indepth review, posted by esjay on Apr 22, 2001

 Every mistake I'VE ever learned from, I'VE found my part of the blame.  That goes double-ditto for my bros and everyone else I look up to.

 Beyond that a brief (or extensive) self-analysis to avoid repeating those mistakes could also be helpful (mandatory).  A good start could be: does THIS euro make a good husband?  and if not why not.  Of course, if you're not looking for wife material say so.

 If you are, where would you look?  At a night club or party zone or in the front row at mass?  Somewhere in between?  Where?

 a hint:  My fiancee doesn't drink "energy drinks or whiskey".............unfrrrrrrickeeeeeenbelievable!!

 Malandro.........er Traveller is correct with a qualification.  "The same could be said about women from Colombia, DR,"  don't forget USA, Myanmar, Russia, Botswana etc, etc.......Especially if one doesn't change the attributes of their (woman) picker.

 OR......all brazilian women are worthless, and all euros are incredible catches.

 this is sounding all too familiar!  Do Richard Wooldernink and John De Vries have a British cousin?

 Inquiring minds want to know!

 Regards,
 Doug Y.

 

[Esjay]

... in response to do euros make good husbands?, posted by Doug Y. on Apr 22, 2001

Sadly decent women in Brasil are very hard to find, the main reason is this 'gringo-sex tourist association. I'll give you some more background so you can understand. Cali has no SEX TRADE, no SEX TOURISTS ETC. However on Copacabana, RJ, there are quite a number of clubs which provide professional women. A good number of single male tourists visit Rio specifically to frequent these said clubs. This makes it very easy for the Brasilian man to perpetuate the 'only whores hang with gringos story'.

As for my account and looking at my inner self? if you had read my article correctly you would have realised that it is a summary of both mine and my friends experiences in Brasil. A couple of quotes for you,

firstly a friend who is soon to  marry a Colombiana, i asked him to compare Brasil and Colombia. he said Colombian girls were intelligent and thought before they acted, however he considered brasilian women to be stupid and only living each day as it comes and not thinking of tomorrow. (this guy had visited many central and south american countries.)

Another friend who know the DR etc well described brasilian as a quote ''unfriendly bunch of mother f****rs''.

Read the whole article again and consider it as one, rather than picked and one sentence and arguing with that alone.

The language barrier is enough to put Brasil to the back of the line.

Esjay

[goog]

... in response to Re:Read it ALL...don't just argue with o..., posted by Esjay on Apr 22, 2001

'gringo-sex tourist association'

Now you're talking Doug Y's thing.  Ask him about the Hooker's he's visited in LA - he's posted on this board about his experiences.

[Doug Y.]

... in response to Re: Re:Read it ALL...don't just argue wi..., posted by goog on Apr 23, 2001

 Is that all you've learned after one year of archive surfing???

 We reeeeeeeally need to put together a foundation to provide some scholarships to Norm's or LL!!!!!  

 Competition will be fiiiierce. You better get to work on that application goog.  You've already failed at two semesters of archive surfing.

 I got the first $100,  what do you say fellaz?

Regards,
Doug Y.

[Hodajr]

... in response to daaaaaaaaang!, posted by Doug Y. on Apr 23, 2001

My Man.....

I pay enough in "Taxes" for corporate & social WELFARE!!!!

Boooyaah....Hoda

[Houndog]

... in response to Not a penny from me......, posted by Hodajr on Apr 23, 2001

Ahhhh Man have pity..Not to Cali...but we could all chip in for Bus Fare to his local news stand for a Girlie Mag...and a bottle of hand lotion....

Houndog

[Hoda]

... in response to Re: Not a penny from me......, posted by Houndog on Apr 23, 2001

n/t

[Houndog]

... in response to daaaaaaaaang!, posted by Doug Y. on Apr 23, 2001

ROTFLMAO....I know the feeling Doug...I told a Troll on LWL to get a life....he thought I meant carreer....so he developed a carreer archive surfing himself...ROTFLMAO...we have to be careful what we tell some of these morons...they still can't get a date with a girl but the can recite chorus and verse what we did 2 years ago from the archives...LOL...LOL....I'm laughing to hard to type just thinking about it...LOLLOLLOLLOL

Houndog