Hello All
It's been a little while since I posted anything here at least  coherently  ha ha ha.
Well, I have still been writing, instant messaging, or calling with KAT almost daily since we met only 3 months ago.  We've hit a couple of minor bumps along the way (to be expected I think) but things  still are going very well between us. She caught this big Trout --- hook, line, and sinker. 
So I have decided to experience the time traveling phenomenon once  again in order to visit KAT, to make sure it is meant to be between us.  I  have  booked  a  flight  from  LA leaving Friday the 13 th of  February at  11:20 PM  (superstitious -- naw  not in the least).  I will arrive in Guangzhou at 6:20 AM on the 15 th of February.  So  in essence Valentines day February 14 th  will not  exist for me too  much. Kat told me she would make this up to me, and the next 2 weeks  would be Valentines Day for us together. As it is a leap year, I get  that bonus extra day in February the 29 th.  But I don't think it  would make any difference in  my time off from work if it existed or not.  
I'm flying China Southern Airlines (Delta partner  airlines, I think) directly there and back.  I read somewhere else from someone that their service was actually very good.  I bought my ticket through a discount broker for $ 705 and they are UPS ing the ticket to me in the next few days.  They were selling the exact same flight as Travelocity, Expedia, and Orbitz for about $ 80 cheaper.
We are still ironing out our itinerary together.  But we want to fly to Shanghai together for 5 nights.  My company has a hotel there and  we can stay there for free as long as we don't touch the Mini Bar or  order room service ha ha ha.   We also will spend 3 - 4 nights somewhere in Hong Kong / Macao.  The rest of the time I just want to  hang out with her in Guangzhou and meet her family and friends and get to know KAT better in a relaxed setting.
Someone asked me recently if I was nervous about taking this trip  and meeting KAT.  The funny thing is that I am totally at ease about meeting her.  Fortunately I gained alot of experieince about traveling abroad on my trip to Japan last year so that will help me  out alot.   I  am  a little  concerned  about the  language  barrier however, her English is  excellent contrary to what she thinks,  but  without her I am  totally  lost.  I  know  almost  no  Mandarin  or  Cantonese  and I  am  so  busy I  have  not  had the  time  to  study  any  either, though I am very willing to learn.  
I am so very confident that our union to meet together is meant to be and that she is the one for me.  I knew  by  the  3- 4 th  letter  that  she was  a  good  match for  me  and I  have  not  had  any serious second thoughts about her and  my  interest  in  looking for other women is nonexistant.  I've canceled or let run out my dating service memberships and I don't even bother to look at the profiles of women that I am sent almost daily from them still.
We will see how this trip progreses, but I am looking forward to  sharing a great begining of our lives together with her on this  trip. Hopefully by the end of this trip I will officialy be able to  post our picture together for Jeff's website.  
First things first though,  I will instant message with KAT for 3 - 4 hours in a couple of hours and then I will take a nap and drive down to LA to visit the Chinese Consulate and apply for a visa for my trip.   I don't think I  need a Visa to visit Hong Kong / Macao though.  Of course China Town is on the agenda too ha ha ha  --I hear that Hot and sour soup calling  me.
WINDY