Her name is Basil, 39, never married, no kids, sweet, smart, nice looking, no agenda beyond love and marriage- my girlfriend’s best friend (they are already plotting my brother’s fate). She has been to Planet-Love forum but wasn’t able to join because she has no ISP- can only chat online from work at lunch time, but has a phone at home. eMail her @Yahoo.com if you like, but BE NICE. If you gotta have a picture first, I can send one. I’ll let her Yahoo words speak for themselves:
HaroldC (12:19:54 AM): I have not mentioned you on Planet-Love yet. I am still thinking how to do it.
des382002 (12:20:15 AM): okay,
des382002 (12:21:05 AM): I would like Imee and you find a man for me
HaroldC (12:21:28 AM): Well, I think you deserve a good man and I would be honored to help you find one!
des382002 (12:21:42 AM): I tell Imee when she live there she find a man for me
des382002 (12:21:58 AM): thank you Harold
HaroldC (12:22:03 AM): Ha. I hope you do not have to wait that long, could be a year.
des382002 (12:22:14 AM): I am very appreciate
des382002 (12:22:24 AM): sort off
HaroldC (12:22:31 AM): Sort of??
des382002 (12:22:47 AM): not wait to long hehehehe
HaroldC (12:23:05 AM): Do you have a telephone at home?
HaroldC (12:23:27 AM): I don't want the number, I just want to be able to say if you do or not.
des382002 (12:23:27 AM): yes
des382002 (12:23:29 AM): I have
HaroldC (12:23:48 AM): Good! Because I know you can only chat a short time at work.
HaroldC (12:24:40 AM): Any man who is serious will call you on the telephone- it does not cost that much.
HaroldC (12:25:07 AM): OK?
HaroldC (12:25:38 AM): Not OK?
des382002 (12:26:10 AM): yes I agree with you
des382002 (12:26:23 AM): like you
HaroldC (12:26:40 AM): Good! Thank you.
des382002 (12:27:03 AM): yes and I hope you could find a man for me smile
des382002 (12:27:23 AM): just serious and sincere
HaroldC (12:28:03 AM): I will try. I will tell them you are a sincere lady. Many men are afraid foreign girls just want to fool them to get to America and get their money.
des382002 (12:28:49 AM): yes that's true
des382002 (12:29:09 AM): and lot f ladies looking a rich man
des382002 (12:29:37 AM): and they love the money not a person
HaroldC (12:29:40 AM): Imee says that many men did not want to know her because she supports her family- they did not understand that is what Filipinas do. They have heard about families who were very demanding.
des382002 (12:30:16 AM): yes, that's true
des382002 (12:30:58 AM): like filipinos men are not like a woman who help to the family
des382002 (12:31:27 AM): that's why we are looking a man very understanding
des382002 (12:31:35 AM): and loving
HaroldC (12:33:03 AM): Well, I think a man would be lucky to have a woman who helps the family- that means she is dedicated and unselfish- so she will be dedicated and unselfish to him too.
des382002 (12:33:32 AM): yes both sides
des382002 (12:33:54 AM): if you are married you should there to support both families
des382002 (12:34:21 AM): the best is always honest to each other
HaroldC (12:34:32 AM): And the money is so little to an American man- a Filipina can earn here in two days what she gives her family in a month in the Philippines.
des382002 (12:35:05 AM): yes, we are a filipina are very hardworking
des382002 (12:35:23 AM): we are willing to help our husband to be
HaroldC (12:35:57 AM): Yes. Very hard working. And proud. I think Imee will not want to spend my money even if we are married!
des382002 (12:36:30 AM): yes, she wants to work there for her family
des382002 (12:36:40 AM): and I know you could understand her
des382002 (12:38:06 AM): that's why she likes you because you are very understanding and nice to her
HaroldC (12:38:10 AM): Well, I would like her to work- it will be good for her. Except if she has a baby to take care of.
des382002 (12:39:02 AM): yes, if she has a baby she should stop her work and take care of her baby and you
HaroldC (12:39:21 AM): Then I would have to work very hard to support my wife and child.
des382002 (12:39:34 AM): yes that's great
des382002 (12:39:46 AM): I know that, you will
des382002 (12:39:56 AM): and you know why we like American men
HaroldC (12:40:02 AM): Why!
des382002 (12:40:23 AM): because they are understanding and faithful
HaroldC (12:40:32 AM): Hmmm. Some are not.
des382002 (12:40:41 AM): why?
des382002 (12:40:49 AM): but you are one I mentioned
HaroldC (12:41:02 AM): Well thank you very much.
des382002 (12:41:26 AM): you know we are a filipina are very caring and loving and honest
des382002 (12:41:37 AM): I know not of all
des382002 (12:41:40 AM): but most
HaroldC (12:42:09 AM): Filipinas are understanding and faithful, too. There are many American men who should find a Filipina, but they do not know it!
des382002 (12:42:10 AM): ly
des382002 (12:42:35 AM): really?
HaroldC (12:42:35 AM): But more and more are finding out. Like me.
des382002 (12:43:09 AM): yes that't why I would like to have a man came from you or from Imee one day
des382002 (12:43:29 AM): because you know the person that will you give to me
des382002 (12:43:58 AM): I know being a wife and a mother is not easy
des382002 (12:44:26 AM): but I know I could do my duties as a good wife and a good mother to my children to be
HaroldC (12:44:57 AM): Yes, I know you are a fine lady. But I don't know if I can find someone I know for you. I do not know many single men.
des382002 (12:45:16 AM): its okay
des382002 (12:45:26 AM): if your not finding for me
des382002 (12:45:40 AM): but I always best all the best you and Imee
HaroldC (12:46:00 AM): My brother Carl has heard the stories about women who just want to come to America. So he will be sceptical. But I will tell him about you.
HaroldC (12:47:29 AM): I will tell my brother Dave about you too. He may have an idea of someone.
des382002 (12:48:01 AM): okay we will not blame Carl if he is sceptical
des382002 (12:48:15 AM): that's his point
HaroldC (12:48:48 AM): Well, he had always been a sceptical person. And he has had two wives divorce him.
des382002 (12:49:06 AM): thank you you tell them about me
des382002 (12:49:29 AM): yes that's why he is sceptical person
des382002 (12:49:42 AM): been married of 2 times
des382002 (12:49:54 AM): I think they are American
HaroldC (12:50:19 AM): Ha. Yes. American. And he had his daughter taken away when she was 2.
des382002 (12:50:41 AM): I see
des382002 (12:50:50 AM): how he is now?
HaroldC (12:51:20 AM): He is OK. That was 16 years ago.
{I skipped some personal stuff.}
des382002 (12:54:40 AM): but your brother want to get married for the 3rd time?
des382002 (12:55:00 AM): okay
HaroldC (12:55:02 AM): He says no, but then, he has never met a Filipina!
des382002 (12:55:41 AM): I see
des382002 (12:55:56 AM): some of my friends living there in USa
HaroldC (12:56:41 AM): What about your friends in USA?
des382002 (12:57:22 AM): they told me he like to marry a filipina
des382002 (12:58:04 AM): but he don't like to marry a filipina already living there already
des382002 (12:58:11 AM): because they are so crazy
des382002 (12:58:33 AM): and marry because of the money
des382002 (12:58:46 AM): for example a rich man
HaroldC (12:59:20 AM): Yes, many women become very American. Especially the young ones. That is why I wanted a mature woman- still very young to me!
des382002 (12:59:43 AM): that's why they finding a filipna not been in USA
des382002 (1:00:07 AM): yes, that's true
HaroldC (1:00:10 AM): Yes. Men see these crazy Filipinas and think they are all like that.
des382002 (1:00:48 AM): perhaps
HaroldC (1:01:35 AM): Well, I hope I can get Carl to come with me on my second trip, if Imee and I get married
HaroldC (1:03:09 AM): I told Imee that we cannot know if we really love each other until we get to know each other in person. What do you think of that?
des382002 (1:04:04 AM): I am very sure you lov each other
des382002 (1:04:27 AM): and I told Imee to marry you for the first trip
des382002 (1:04:43 AM): I just hope you let Carl to come with you
des382002 (1:04:48 AM): for the first trip
des382002 (1:05:35 AM): and Imee decided to get marry with you if you want to do in the first trip
des382002 (1:06:18 AM): she is willing and I see Imee very happy now
des382002 (1:06:20 AM): to have you
HaroldC (1:06:22 AM): We cannot marry the first trip- not enough time. I may ask her though And I am sure Carl will not come the first time- he will wait to see what happens to me. But after I can tell him what it is like, he may want to.
des382002 (1:06:55 AM): and she said to me she want me also to have a man from there
HaroldC (1:07:01 AM): Well, I do not understand why she is willing to marry a man she has never met, but I am not a Filipina
des382002 (1:07:49 AM): as a woman instinct we feel taht even were not see in person
HaroldC (1:07:54 AM): I would be very happy for Imee to have you here. She will be very lonely with no family or friends. I worry about that.
HaroldC (1:08:14 AM): Woman's instinct, is it!
des382002 (1:08:20 AM): I know for the first day seems to shy but in the next day you would find it
des382002 (1:08:33 AM): yes woman instinct
des382002 (1:08:50 AM): Harold try to let Carl to come with you
des382002 (1:08:56 AM): for a vacation
des382002 (1:09:05 AM): we will take care of you here
HaroldC (1:09:28 AM): I will try to get him to come- but I know him and I think he will not come the first time.
HaroldC (1:09:38 AM): Will you be chaparone for Imee and me?
des382002 (1:10:30 AM): no, I trust you a lot for my friend
des382002 (1:10:43 AM): but it is nice you bring Carl with here
des382002 (1:11:09 AM): so We go together to the place we want to spend
des382002 (1:11:14 AM): like beach
des382002 (1:11:17 AM): smile
des382002 (1:11:49 AM): so yor brother don't feel boring
des382002 (1:12:38 AM): I have to go now
des382002 (1:15:47 AM): I am will tell imee we have a nice chat
HaroldC (1:15:53 AM): I know.
des382002 (1:15:58 AM): and I know she will happy we chat now
HaroldC (1:16:09 AM): Yes, it was a nice chat. Tell her I miss her.
des382002 (1:16:37 AM): yes I will tell her
des382002 (1:16:59 AM): and she told me always to chat you and talke you if she is not online
HaroldC (1:17:06 AM): Bye!
des382002 (1:17:12 AM): good night
des382002 (1:17:15 AM): bye
des382002 (1:17:22 AM):
HaroldC (1:17:28 AM): Good night, Basil.
des382002 (1:17:42 AM): nite nite
