Control or Compromise that is the question

[BruceS]

KingC,
   Well I've seen both and also in-between in the
FSUW; although I'd say since they have had to be the
strong one in the family and seem to be controlling. I think strong
willed and maybe some stubborness would be a better description.
   With my lady I found that if there was something
she had a strong opinion of and would stand her ground;
then there was a valid reason and was best to listen
to her idea. I also found that she would be very compromising
when you'd explain things to her and 90%+ of the
time we'd both compromise or both would end up in
agreement.
   Nicest thing for me was being able to talk
things over without all the triades and such I got
from my AW ladies and ex-wife.
   FWIW and they are only my thoughts.

Bruce

[thesearch]

... in response to Control or Compromise that is the questi..., posted by BruceS on Jul 31, 2002

What I mean by this is that we are told that a lot of loser men are going to the FSU are looking for a submissive woman - the houseslave that will not talk back. The media certainly portrays this.

All I have to say is RIGHT --- The one lady that I had a lot of experience with appeared to be submissive, shy but, underneath all of this was strong lady. No way would she tolerate a slob man.

[MarkInTx]

... in response to FSU women and losers do not mix, posted by thesearch on Aug 1, 2002


I would say that my anecdotal evidence would agree with this...

Maybe at one time it was true... but as the COld War ended, and the "Big Chill" eroded, the FSU women became more educated, and knows she has a better option than to grab the first American Loser who comes along...

[BruceS]

... in response to FSU women and losers do not mix, posted by thesearch on Aug 1, 2002

I whole heartedly agree. Mine is quite like the one you talk
about. I'd say she hasn't the experience of visiting much of
anything outside of Vitebsk, Belarus, except for relatives
that live near St. Pete.

So therefore she has different feelings on all the traveling
to Warsaw for interview and such, BUT she definitely has a
strong character and is a strong lady inside.

The worst part about the "losers" going over is they are just
as conniving, cunning, hiding and such as the scammers they
complain about or whine about why they can't send them home
once the lady finds out they've been scammed. As I've read
somewhere.

[Hell hath no fury as that of a scorned women]

Cheers,
Bruce