For all of you worrying about green card scams-it is much easier. Many people from the middle east are coming over now. Many on studend visas, work visas or visitors visas. They stay past their legal time, have a child-voila they are parants of an American Citizen. Now some of the PHD student I know who would like to stay here and be an asset to our county have signed paper claiming that if they have a child-they must still go.
Plus if your woman comes over, gets her green card and bolts-what does that say about you! If my wife can find a better man for her, I told her to go. I would never keep someone from bettering their lives. She is still here.

Maybe she is braiwashed.
Most of these Green card strories and scam stories the RW ask for no alimony, support or anything. They just ask for the man to leave them alone. I think these women are a little more clever that that. Now if she comes over, takes you for a couple hundered thou, takes your Jag and you favorite cat. Then you may have something. But she probably learned it from an American Girlfriend.
So if you guys are worried about getting scammed -just rememeber to find a woman in your class. Don't be a fool.
Joe