Guys, I know many of you with Russian brides know what true happiness is. And I think it would be interesting to hear from some of you as to what your single "true happiness" event or feeling is. I had another "true happiness" event this past weekend which I will close with.
The P-L board can be many things, mostly what each of you want to make of it. But one thing no one can deny is the amount of wisdom that can be learned. And let me say this, we only read from a small number of guys and gals who post here. I know for a fact that there are MANY guys who read this board who have never posted! I know of one guy who has read P-L everyday for about three years, and he has never posted! On average two or three times a month I will get an e-mail from someone who says he reads the P-L board, but does not post. To each his own, some guys just don't want to post, but yet they still read the P-L almost daily, and why? To learn.
Over the past few years I am seeing a much higher percentage of good, happy marriages. I am seeing fewer scam, or un-happy marriages. Oh they are still there, and you certaintly have a LOT of scammers out there today. Guys are still getting scammed as they are learning and usually not getting scammed after marriage. Most the scammers out there today are scamming for the quick buck and are not scamming for the "green card". The green card scammers are out there, don't get me wrong, but they are a much smaller percentage that the "get what we can from you guys now" scammers.
So I feel good in seeing, knowing and feeling that there are more happy, good marriages out there today and a lot of this comes from guys being educated and 'hopefully' meeting at least a few women.
Now getting back to true happiness. I swear to each of you out there, if you will choose wisely, a good Russian woman will change your life for the better. You will live and appreciate each day of your new life. This is why it is so important to find a woman with whom there is true, real chemistry with. Most of you will be able to marry the first, second or third Russian woman you meet. Finding a Russian woman, a beautiful Russian woman, to marry you is not a problem. It will take a strong, dedicated man who will continue to look until he finds the woman who is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside. Unless you are one extremely lucky guy, you will usually have to meet several ladies in trying to find that one that has the perfect chemistry with you, but she is out there, I promise you. I looked for 5 years before I found my dreambride. I could have married many Russian women, and although there were many ladies who I felt were close to what I wanted, I kept talking myself in to waiting until the next trip, maybe I will find her on the next trip.
I do not mind telling you guys it was difficult and lonely the four to seven-months between visits and you are always questioning yourself as to should I have married Veronica or Tataina, maybe she was the one, darn did I screw up. And I will tell you after about 4 years I had almost convienced myself to marrying the next Russian lady who was close to what I was seeking, if she was close to my dreambride, go ahead and take her. But as I wanted this to be a one time life choice, I convienced myself to hold out, to keep looking. And fellas, when you find her, you will know it. If you go about this thinking and saying to yourself that you will find your dreambride on this trip, or the next trip for sure, I think you are flirting with disaster. Maybe you will meet her in the upcoming, or next trip, but what if you don't? So your going to pick the one who was closest to what you were looking for and marry her!
I met my Russian bride for the first time 33 months ago. The amount of joy and happiness she has brought me is something that is hard to describe without bringing a tear to my eye but always a small to my face. The class, culture, humour, elegance, charm and that oh so sensual accent is why I tell all guys that if you ever go to the FSU one time and meet a few nice Russian women, you will never have anything to do with an American woman the rest of your life. (not AW bashing, just stating a fact)
With the smile that my Natalia brings to my face every day I realize how lucky of a man I am. There are several things in which I could say, "True happiness is,......." and here is where I would like to see what some of you other guys might write about what you consider "True happiness is.........."
Let me start by my most recent experince, and ohhh, what an experince!
True happiness is taking your beautiful, sensual Russian bride to your 30 year class reunion!! Can you imagine?
