They are not perfect.
We are in a very strange, hynotic, dillema here. We have a princess and a prince (or frog) that enter into a storybook romance. We lift these women to such high reverence-we sould say Saint (input fiance name). Unfortunately, my little woman fell way off that pedestal. In the same respect, we pff ourselves so full of 'untruths' these women are sometimes highly disappointed when they come. My wife was very aware of what she was getting into-serves her right!

So, IMHO, if you find that you woman is not perfect-THAT IS OK. God knows we are not-look at guys like me and lp.
If you want to venture into this guys, remember, these girls are from a different culture, with different values and diffuerent situations. Many have had to be unscrupulous to surive. Many are fabulous women with great family values and more love than you could imagine. But do to social situations-they have different ideas sometimes ie government, relationships, not telling the truth. I have seen many of these girls married 2 or 3 times. Many had married men as their lovers. It is the same here in the US.
What I am trying to say is, who we are is not always what we have been vistim to...........if it was true-you would see me on CNN weekly..................

So good luck and lover your woman
Joe