Hey Hockeybrain

[thesearch]

First of all I enjoyed your trip reports. It seems not many here lately.

However, I have two questions for you. First of all at you being 40 and your lady being 33 you certainly will not attract any attention from the age police. So, my question is to you, what did you find in Russia that you could not find in the USA?

I mean me, at age 50  I know that I can find younger and prettier in the FSU.  My only issue is being reasonable relative to age. You said that you recommended Sochi to guys 35 to 40. I have found that so many of the women at all sites are younger which posses a problem for men of my age. So, you would not recommend Sochi for me.

Right now, I am not making plans to return - may be like LP and let the idea drop. At least that is what I think that he did. Right now, I am just too busy  taking care of business issues.  Next time I go, I very well might go with Jack of FirstDreams as I think for a guy my age, I might be able to find more women of quality in the age range that I prefer of which I am not even sure what that is. It depends when you talk to me .

[Bobby Orr]

... in response to Hey Hockeybrain, posted by thesearch on May 6, 2002

When I went over to Sochi there were two other guys, one 51 and one 58.  The 58 year old guy was divorced twice with five grandchildren and had previously done two fiance visas with RW and sent both of them back within three weeks.  He was a big burly man, very bright and actually very nice from Georgia.  He met alot of very attractive older women (30 - 45) but anything he liked did not like him.  He was disappointed.  I felt sorry for him.  He did not feel the agency we used had enough of a selection of pretty older women.  Alot of older women were coming to the agency off the street when they heard about him, but most of them were old dogs.  After a while he was tired of meeting ugly women, so he pretty much gave up.  

The 51 year old guy has a grown 31 year old son and naturally was divorced once.  He hooked up with a 28 year old girl with a six year old kid - he fell head over heels for her and vice-versa.  It is funny because he is worried she thinks he is too old and she is worried he thinks she is too young.  The father may prove to be a big problem in this case because from what I understand he wants to see his kid (I think son).  The American man is going back to see his girl in three weeks to sort things out.  

I think if you are willing to put up with a kid Sochi is good.  However, I really think L@fetimeP@rtners has a better selection of older women with kids on their books. Just make sure they are real.  I think Jack & Firstdream is likewise a good way to go.  If cost is a factor the agency I used in Sochi is a really good deal.  They are just starting and are practically giving away the girls on their website plus offering their services, which are darn good.  

What I found in Russia were women serious about a relationship with me, who had alot of class, style, grace and intelligence.  Natalie really made me feel special around her.  It was an interesting area, with really friendly down to earth girls.  I was relaxed and happy.  I think the bottom line is that I honestly feel we could attract a higher quality girl in Russia than we can here in the US.

[BrianN]

... in response to Attempt to answer, posted by Bobby Orr on May 6, 2002

The question!

"So, my question is to you, what did you find in Russia that you could not find in the USA?"

lol... would probably be a long answer eh?

[Bobby Orr]

... in response to hockey man... you didn't answer!, posted by BrianN on May 7, 2002

IT really would be a long answer which I tried to answer in the last paragraph of my last response.  Anyway, where else can you go and in a short period of time and find alot of beautiful women who are seriously interested in finding a good husband?  I have tried to find these kind of women in the United States.  They are here.  I have dated them, but they are few and far between the usual waste of my time.  In Russia they have style, grace, intelligence, class and beauty in abundance.  Most importantly many seem to like me for me and want to take a chance with me here in the USA.  What more can I ask for.  Russia is a target rich environment for a guy seriously looking for a high quality wife - period.  So, best to increase your chances of getting a hit.  Look at it this way - if you are thirsty do you want to look for your water in a desert or a lush green region with plenty of springs.  When it comes to dating / meeting Russia is the lush green region with plenty of springs.  Time and the INS are the only problems with dating Russian women - problems worth overcoming.  I hope this helps.

[thesearch]

... in response to It would be, posted by Bobby Orr on May 7, 2002

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