... in response to Visa Scam at US Embassy in Moscow, posted by ChuckRM on Apr 20, 2002If you're a RM wanting to come here he might as well forget it unless he is educated in a needed occupation here, and even then it's a long procedure and a lot of luck, and he had better be able to prove that he really doesn't need to be here, as if he's doing the states a favor. I really wish there was a system in place that allowed RM to come here for 6 month work visa's as they would be able to aid in the need for GOOD employees in some of the lower paying jobs.
As for women they have it even harder. The ones that are educated typically are educated in fields of study that aren't in high demand, or are not at U.S. standards. These women have no options other then to find an American man to use and most will not even consider using this route through agencies as it is viewed ( at least among the educated class in Moscow) as degrading,humiliating, and face the ridicule of their friends if they take this route.
Agencies there are viewed as a place where the women who use them are pathetic and pride stops most of them. Those women that do use agencies either have no more hope and are desperate, or are the dregs of society.( not all but enough to make most of this true)
My wife was telling me just last night that there are thousands of good women in Moscow but none of them will use an agency because of pride, or other reasons,and the majority have no easy access to the internet as some people think, ( at least nothing that is even close to as easy as we have it) but many of these high quality ladies at one time or another have wished they could better their life standards by coming here and have no options. The State department knows once they come here for a visit an American man will swoop them up quickly and they are more likely then not to end up immigrating.
For you men who are searching for a good lady I suggest highly to seek out a girl by going there and just be yourself. Meeting ladies on your own is no problem in Moscow as most speak English anyway or at least understand it. There was something about my wife that separated her from the many ladies I met by myself, but I swear all of them blew AW out of the water as far as what a man looks for in a good women, and none have or would ever consider an agency. If a man can't meet a nice girl in Moscow on his own then I pity the one that takes him through an agency because chances are there is something very wrong with him. ( actually I pity them both)
Mike