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Author Topic: I think I have a problem  (Read 11582 times)
terry
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« Reply #15 on: March 26, 2002, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: I think I have a problem, posted by Cordobes on Mar 25, 2002

Tim pal talk is about like yahoo messenger. I had never heard of it. mila ask me one day if i had it. she sent it to me adn for the past year or so that is where we would go to talk. I think you find a lot of RW on it for some reason.  I really never look to see much about it. you can set up private rooms to talk in. I am going to look at it more. may be a good place to find them. Only use dit to talk to mila.
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Michael B
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« Reply #16 on: March 26, 2002, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: I think I have a problem, posted by Cordobes on Mar 25, 2002

Text, voice, and pictures...assuming you have a keyboard, soundcard, microphone & speakers and a camera (if you don't have all that stuff, you can still use what you do have, i.e. you can still do voice and text and see the other people's pictures even if you don't have a camera). It has several hundred "rooms" devoted to various subjects from politics to music to looking for love to porn. You can communicate in a group or one-on-one. It's free if you can stand some pop-ups (not too many, actually) and still pictures. No pop-ups and real time full motions pictures you have to pay, but it's only about $3.00 per month. I'm not their shill, but it is a darn good product, I highly recomend it.

Go to www.paltalk.com and follow their instructions for downloading the pgm and signing up and (first time only) calbriating your speakers, microphone and camera.

I do consider this an "on topic" post, because they have several "romance" rooms, including Europe and Latin America (not sure about Asians, but probably they have them too).
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Quasimoto
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« Reply #17 on: March 25, 2002, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to I think I have a problem, posted by terry on Mar 25, 2002

A couple of thoughts!

First, if you have been communicating for two years, what is your relationship? If there is no formal commitment, then how can you say she is a scammer? Even if she says she loves you, how does she know you are ever going to follow through? Secondly, are you sending her money? If not, then how can you say she is a scammer? If not, then she is doing what I would do in her position - play her cards, and find a man that will follow through and commit to my future. Big scammer? I think not from what you have said. Little scammer, maybe! Maybe just smart!

Steve
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terry
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« Reply #18 on: March 26, 2002, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: I think I have a problem, posted by Quasimoto on Mar 25, 2002

No, there is no formal commitment yet on my part. Now she has made a lot, which really should  have been a flag for me. She is  smart.  I have told her that I do not care if she works with other girls to help them find someone or not. but she would keep telling that she was not doing it anymore and did not want to. this is what got me to looking when I found out she was. she was really upset when she knew that I knew, so I ask her, why she just could not tell me the truth. she wrote me back and told me there was somethings she could not tell me because of the KGB. that was really funny. I will keep writing her, she is a lot of fun to talk to. but only as a friend. told her it could be no more than that now.
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Quasimoto
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« Reply #19 on: March 26, 2002, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: Re: I think I have a problem, posted by terry on Mar 26, 2002

She may think she is smart, but the KGB? Get real! It does not preclude my point, but she is also being evasive, or desperate!

STeve
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DE
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« Reply #20 on: March 25, 2002, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: I think I have a problem, posted by Quasimoto on Mar 25, 2002

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Quasimoto
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« Reply #21 on: March 25, 2002, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Agree     n/t, posted by DE on Mar 25, 2002

I have a question for the contributors; Why is it OK for a guy to write to 100 women, but it is only acceptable for each lady in this guys harem to write to him? It would be different if there was a commitment, but some guys disappointments really take me back! SHE is more at risk and vulnerable than the guy, and yet she is always seems to be made out to be a scammer. I have never even asked a woman if she was writing to anyone else. And now that I am engaged, it is the only time it is properly relevant as far as I am concerned. Is is insecurity? Or MACHO?

Steve
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Ryan
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« Reply #22 on: March 26, 2002, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: I have a question for the board?, posted by Quasimoto on Mar 25, 2002

He just will not tell us so...  I don't have a problem with a woman writing to many others just like I do....  We are just friends nothing more, it is this that we all must keep our focus on... and believe me "MR. Givem the money himself" it is not easy sometimes....  Terry got sucked in but really if he just went to see her everything might still work out for the best.  YOU MUST GO AND MEET THEM! I myself am getting away from all the deep letter writing crap and it has taken me 2-1/2 years to get away from it...  Why do I learn everything the hard way.....  Oh well least I learn :-)

Ryan
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terry
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« Reply #23 on: March 26, 2002, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to I think ol Terry sent money....., posted by Ryan on Mar 26, 2002

Ryan
yes , I have sent her money, but it was more as a friend at the time.  really do not care about the money. if that is all i lose , hey great. I did start getting feeling for her.  I am a very hyper person. sometimes will not even stop to eat during the day. this is a lady that would write me every day from her own computer and tell she is worried about me because I do not take car of myself and she needs to be here to make sure I eat right. it is really funny now.

and I will still wirte to her, she is a lot of fun to talk to. but no relationship. told her that yesterday.
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Ryan
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« Reply #24 on: March 26, 2002, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: I think ol Terry sent money....., posted by terry on Mar 26, 2002

Yes I also send money as a friend "A whole bunch!"  As you it still does not bother me much...  I think you should just forget about her writing other guys, just be good with it and smile....  Blow it off..  Go and meet her in June... JUST DO IT!
Ryan
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terry
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« Reply #25 on: March 26, 2002, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: Re: I think ol Terry sent money....., posted by Ryan on Mar 26, 2002

I still want to go over there in june anyway. don't really know if I will meet her or not yet. ha , I did just get an e-mail from her telling me good morning. She may not hav ewent to work today. it is a little early for her
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Ryan
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« Reply #26 on: March 26, 2002, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: Re: Re: I think ol Terry sent money...., posted by terry on Mar 26, 2002

I have two real good women friends in the Ukraine that I write to all the time.. (We are not involved just talking.. We help each other and are just friends)  This one I am talking to is just finishing up from working for one of the local politicians in Kiev...  She calls it a carnival.. LOL  I told her welcome to democracy.. LOL  Anyway she write with all sincerity the following:

American gives the ad that he is searching the woman for marriage, 70% of all calls will be from women who want not love but money and good life. You should understand it and it is quite normal..

Keep all this in mind...
Ryan
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Ryan
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« Reply #27 on: March 26, 2002, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to I think ol Terry sent money....., posted by Ryan on Mar 26, 2002

Again I think the translation thing is silly...  Maybe the first couple letter but after that use an online translator..(It is good enough in my opinion) But yes I can understand spending all that money on letter writing can create an attachment..  It's like an investment...  It's tuff...
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tim360z
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« Reply #28 on: March 26, 2002, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: I have a question for the board?, posted by Quasimoto on Mar 25, 2002

and has more to do with some insecurity aspect.  Personally,  I do not have the time,  energy or desire to write anything to 100 women or 50 or 25 or 10 or even 3.  The couple I do communicate with---I expect that plenty of other guys have written to them.  And after awhile,  they loosen up and tell you about what they get in the mail.  Pretty incredible actually.  But,  there is no "relationship"  or "chemistry" or any of that stuff until you both spend some time together....anything else???  is just virtual.  Whats good for the goose is good for the gander.
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Stan B
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« Reply #29 on: March 25, 2002, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: I have a question for the board?, posted by Quasimoto on Mar 25, 2002

to say the least. Especially to expect someone to wait for over 2 years for someone that might never come to visit. Plus these women know that the odds are long even if the man does come, so...
Thus until your engaged it would be rather unfair to expect someone to be writing only you.
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