... in response to Zdravey Aron, posted by BarryM on Mar 3, 2002I got lucky in the language department...My wife's got a masters in English:-) Cyrillic was no problem, but as for actually learning the language? Sigh...gimme a bit more time before I can start structuring sentences.
IMHO, Bulgarian women are more selective for two big reasons. First, the economy is much better than Russia. Iliana is a 26 yr old teacher and does live with her parents, but has already accumulated a pc newer than mine, a cell phone(it seem like they're EVERYWHERE!), and two color tv's. Before I proposed, she was also thinking about buying a new japanese car too. Show me a teacher in Russia that get's paid like that.
Second, the people have more faith in the government and police. In Moscow I was searched twice and paid a bribe once(the price I paid for hanging out with a guy who looked vaguely Chechyn) In St Pete, my then girlfriend was just as afraid of the police as she was of the criminals. By contrast, the police are very well regarded in Bulgaria and I asked them for directions on a fairly regular basis. Not a single attitude problem.
Personally, I was more confident about the motives of the Bulgarian women. Of the two Russian and Ukrainian women I got to know very well there was always that shadow of...desperation(?) well, maybe that's too strong a word, but you get my point. I haven't felt that with Iliana at all(though, she may be the exception) Try taking a look at dreamates dot com. There were at least 30 bulgarian women and a surprising number from surrounding countries like Hungary, Moldava, and Romania, and of course Russia and Ukraine:-)