... in response to anybody ever read any books on the subje..., posted by deatchef on Jan 17, 2002I wouldn't order these books if someone paid me too. But that's just me. Everyone is different.
Go to the local appliance store, one guy's ready to walk out with the first dishwasher that he sees, and is perfectly happy with it. Then there's the pinhead on the stool evaluating warranties between different manufacturers and considering price, options, delivery, etc. All the while, he's worrying about whether to spend 50.00 on a warranty, while his 10 hours of nightmarish thoughts are worth about 400.00 in business time. In the end, he lost money because he was too picky.
Read these threads, maybe exchange some emails with ladies, get on a plane and go. Researching FSU ladies and the process may need some prior education, but it ain't rocket science. After all, you could find yourself well educated on it all, go over there and find what you think is the perfect match, then discover later, that you're living the dog house.
duhhh what did I do wrong? This wasn't in the book was it?
American women are no different, you just don't have to go so far.
If you want to pay for something, ie, advice, then send patrick 20 bucks for the website and read it. I'll guarantee you that you'll learn more here from REAL time experience, than someone elses time late thoughts from a book. But what the heck, go both routes, book and pl thread. Just pay attention and use your best judgement for what suits you.
(This was not intended to be a hostile post, but rather a realistic one... sorry if I offended anyone -there ain't no book in print that could equal what's here).