Finding the One

[Jack]

... in response to True Colors, posted by Ryan on Dec 25, 2002

There is an old saying that applies here, Stupid is as Stupid does!

Reverend Ryan I am glad to have proved your point, and all I ask you is to prove your accusations?  

Do people who run agencies all have the same character? Interesting, Rebellious Ryan, can you tell me more about my character and those of agency owners? Would be very interesting hearing your thoughts on this.

Ruckster Ryan I really am not hiding behind anything. You, everyone knows where I am. My address, phone number and e-mail are published to the world. I have met a great many people and would have NO problem meeting you. Again, your implications I hide from my insults and attacks are unfounded. Your announcement that I have some type of shield to protect shady business practices comes as a great shock to me!  I certainly hope you will be able to prove such a libel statement. I hope you have proof of just ONE client who was raped with unnecessary services. Such a slanderous statement would certainly warrant some proof, wouldn't you think Judge Ryan?

Yes, Rugly Ryan, I have to admit I did lie to you when I told you were a handsome man. This is not the first time, nor will it be the last time I will tell what I consider a little white lie to not hurt someone's feeling. But I figure now that your making all these accusations about me and a shady business, I don't need to worry about your feelings anymore!! The truth of the matter is Ryan, you are one ugly dude. I'm sorry to be so blunt about it but you really should know this. And I'm not sure, unless you continue the practice of trying to buy her, that you will get a Russian woman.

Today you did not chose to cross my views, not at all, today you made SEVERAL erroneous and slanderous statements about me and my business. I, in defense of my honor and ethics, question you as to your defamatory statements. Yea, gotta tell you this dumb @ss Ryan, I certainly do disagree with several of your views come to think about it!

You think you are smart enough to go about this pursuit with no ones help and you are the best example of why many people seek the help of others. I got news for you Private Ryan, you'se in trouble boy!  Most people will gladly pay $50 just to guarantee themselves they will never have a trip like yours!

Try to remember those immortal words, directed to you, spoken by Moe, or maybe it was Larry,  Stupid is as Stupid does!

[Ryan]

... in response to Immortal words of....Larry,... or was it..., posted by Jack on Dec 25, 2002

Jack reminds me of an old signfield episode where the character Elaine was going out with this man that did T.V. commercials for some product where he wore this kings crown and walked around calling himself the Whiz..  If you have not seen the show picture a Majorette with that tall hat leading a marching band onto the football field at halftime.  The man is marching all leaned back keeping the rhythm with a baton.  Now picture him saying..  "I am the Whizzzz,"  "I'm the Whiz..  I'm the Whizzzzz…. (With a goofy voice).  He comes over as quite the egotistical man.  Well Jack emulates this man exactly with his ego.  Jack…  "I am the whizzz.."  LOL   Jack has once again taught me a lesson this one if more of an answer to why men go to the FSU to find a women.  Well in Jacks case he uses it to feed his ego.  He has more than likely been a one probably two time looser in marriage so he went over to the FSU to get himself a bride that simply wanted a better life; she's not necessarily in love with Jack.   Just wanted a better life.  She probably deals with his ego quite well by feeding it then leaving the room to chuckle to herself on the way out.

So I get this E-mail yesterday from this Jack A..  he once again has to defend his huge ego by telling me what a big man he is.   You know trying to convince me that he is just helping everyone because he just has this big heart or something.  LOL  He writes; "I make my living, by receiving my paycheck from "my" telephone company in Dallas.  Then his ego just carries him into the next paragraph "Ryan you can't go toe to toe with me, very few people can in this industry."  This mans character is textbook.

"He is the Whizzzz….."

[LP]

... in response to More Proof...., posted by Ryan on Dec 26, 2002

...with being proud of your accomplishments? Espeacily if it took lots of hard work? Success breeds self confidence, and self confidence is a good thing, me boy. Sure, one should temper it somewhat, but there is nothing wrong with it otherwise.

I dunno how Jack "acts" in person, but my experience with him is that he's always been willing to help and has never asked a dime from me.

When I circumvented his agency and worked directly with one of his representatives in Russia, it was no problem for him. I got the impression his only concern was that I had a good trip, not picking my pocket in any way.

Give it up Sport, you lost.

[KenC]

... in response to True Colors, posted by Ryan on Dec 25, 2002

Ryan,
you say, "In past posts I never knocked you and your business".  Are you too stoned or just too stupid to remember when you called all agency owners pimps?  Or called Jack an old man or when you called him a liar.  A guy that has done as dismal as you have in the FSU, should shut his mouth and listen.  You are in no position to guide anyone any where.
KenC

[Ryan]

... in response to are you on crack?, posted by KenC on Dec 25, 2002

Look Medicare Men, aka part of Jacks Gerital crew. Just take your Viagra and shut up... Get your nose out of Jack's A..  

[Lynn]

... in response to Re: are you on crack?, posted by Ryan on Dec 26, 2002

"It's just not fair, all the grown-ups are picking me"

An adjustment of attitude on your part would render more positive response to your posts, that is if you loose the schnot-nose know-it-all posture and realize you can learn more by paying attention that gurgling out your professed expertise that you possess after one trip and having played financier to people who were obviously using you after they realized that you were just a "baby in the woods" without a clue. The sad part is that I don't think you have realized yet that you have been "had".

[LP]

... in response to hummphh, should I stop, or continue, posted by Jack on Dec 24, 2002

...I was kidding Jack, I was implying that you were *not* holding back before. Let'im go, he's lost already.

As you said, it's Christmas Eve. lol.."Private Ryan", thats a panic.

Btw, Yoey is a one hand behind my back affair. :-)

[Ryan]

... in response to Yep, you can say some BULL SH!T Ryan!, posted by Jack on Dec 24, 2002

Shouldn't you be with you lovely wife or something Jack?  Now lets everyone look at his writing and see his true colors as man that is going to show everyone the way…  It is obvious to me that you have something to hide with all your adamant desire to defend your vast experience and with your personal attacks.  Jack you are a child in an old mans body.  I feel this is more in line with why you had to run to another country to find a woman.  I feel sorry for anyone that does business with a man of your character.  Give Jack money just don't get on the wrong side of him, don't have any views that cross his.
Grow up Jack…  Or well you're probably past that by now.  

Lies "admit that you are seeing another lady" but yes you know the answer but you say she is the one you really want to be with …  It is all a big game to you Jack… A game where you use woman to your advantage to make your living

[DE]

... in response to Your a Joke Jack, posted by Ryan on Dec 24, 2002

I'm sorry dude, but I don't see your beef here.  What do you do for a living?  I'm sure it's providing a service (whether labor or knowledge) to your employer or someone.  Does that make you using them?  Or them using you?  I mean after all, aren't you recieving compensation?  I gues I could sit here and say how you use them only for compensation.  Geez, take Lynn's advice below.

[Lynn]

... in response to Your a Joke Jack, posted by Ryan on Dec 24, 2002

Nothing worse than a know-it-all that isn't even dry behind the ears spouting off gibberish. Get a grip, shut up while most everyone just thinks ................Oh, what the heck, go ahead and remove all doubt.

[DE]

... in response to Just take your spanking and be quiet., posted by Lynn on Dec 24, 2002

the entertainment value of this board!  Or maybe I need to make another trip soon!  LOL

[Lynn]

... in response to Ya really got to love, posted by DE on Dec 24, 2002

Agreed. It's been a whole year nearly for me and looks like late April before I'll have the time to go back. Too many irons in the fire. New Years "01" in Ukraine was a blast.

[Jack]

... in response to Finding the One, posted by ChipShot on Dec 23, 2002

Thanks for the kind words DE and Rags. Chipshot, what Rags said is very true, you can't put a time limit deadline on this or you are headed for disaster. You take your time and choose wisely. Maybe you will met your dream bride quickly and there are many things you can do to help improve your chances.

And as LP mentioned, when you run a personal ad, you will be surprised to see that it produces results for years as many agency owners in Russia and Ukraine take your information and add it to there agency.

There are many different ways to promote yourself and to find good ladies. And there are some things you can do to that will enhance your chances of being scammed. I know that my thoughts differ from others on here but in my opinion you should be very weary of such sites as Absolute Agency, Kiss.com and American Singles as they have probably more scammers than sincere women BUT they will have some sincere women, you just have to figure out who is good and who is bad. Many of these women are placed on these site's by scam agency's.

And you might want to check with Ryan, he has some unique perspectives.

[ChipShot]

... in response to Re: Finding the One, posted by Jack on Dec 23, 2002

Thanks, Jack. It is good of you to take the time to respond.

I should mention that my situation might be a little different. I'm divorced, and raising my two young children on my own. My kids live with me 100 percent of the time. So, my focus has been on women of Russia and Ukraine who might be in the same boat as me: a good loving parent, looking to partner with the same. I'm looking for a true partnership, and not in a rush to find a Mom for my kids. So, while there are many single young hotties out there [], I'm really looking for a woman with a young child, too, so we can raise our kids happily together. There seems to be a few in the FSU. She can be a hottie, too, by the way.

[MarkInTx]

... in response to Re: Re: Finding the One, by Jack, posted by ChipShot on Dec 23, 2002

Chip,

Just to add my thoughts.

I was in a very similar situation to you. I was a recently divorced single dad, who felt I needed a woman in my daughter's life.

Let me tell you from experience, there is one thing worse than no mother for your children... and that is the wrong mother.

My insecurities and "timeline" led me to marry a woman I shouldn't have. (An AW, btw...) Of all of the regrets in my life, that is one of the greatest because I put my daughter through a second divorce needlessly.

Finding the right one is a schedule that you cannot control.

Take your time.

Enjoy the journey.

No timetable...

Or you may regret it...

FWIW