Reasons for RW

[thesearch]

... in response to I disagree!, posted by Zink on Dec 14, 2001

Zink,

I place this under your post as it got me to think about something. So, the Russian guys are the bad boys so to speak. Thus, this is what they are used to right?

Here in the USA there are women who are attracted to the "bad boy" if you know what I mean. I have not seen this with my limited experience with  RW - they just want a strong male that seems to be all.

So, what is everyone else's experience. Some time ago, one guy said that if his RW got out of line - trying to be too pushy that she only respected him if he had some form of force in getting her to know that he was the boss and such behavior just would not fly.

Now the word force does not mean that it had to be hitting but it would be something inbetween this extreme and the opposite of "Oh honey please don't do that" - said in a none assertive tone.

[Bob S.]

... in response to Re: Reasons for RW, posted by phillipb. on Dec 14, 2001

Russian men are gods!

They live in a land where sobriety is a sin and vodka flows free from the taps.

They are free to indulge in all the sex they want from willing lucious lovely Russkaya babes without having to marry any of them.  A new flavor every week!  And if they do decide to marry, there is no societal pressure to stop them from gettin' a little on the side.  If the woman complains, you can kick her out and not worry about alimony.  If any of your sweeties on the side get knocked up, no problem.  The courts won't bother to enforce any paternal responsibilities.  It's like Vegas, Baby!!!  All the fun and no responsibility.  And if some Yank or Brit comes along and tries to woo any of your harem, you can charge him up the whahzoo to sign away your paternity rights so they can take her kids out of the country.  Then go find another one!

But to have the right to enjoy this paradise, Russian men must first endure the Draft into the Russian Army, where hazing, unsanitary living conditions, near starvation, and unsafe working conditions that would give an OSHA rep a heart attack likely mean you won't make it to age 21.

[LP]

... in response to Or look at it another way..., posted by Bob S. on Dec 14, 2001

[pat]

... in response to Re: Reasons for RW, posted by phillipb. on Dec 14, 2001

and u say RM are idiots? LOL and re-LOL

[phillip b.]

... in response to Re: Re: Reasons for RW, posted by pat on Dec 14, 2001

Hey Pat, who you choose to write to is your business. I know alot of people would give their right arm to marry a doctor. Have you ever seen Shania Twain? Her russian look a-like is on the web and shes a doctor too. You'll have to search hard if you want to find her because I'll never tell. If I want the best in life I deserve it and more. Dont worry, I'm not just marrying her because of what she would make as a doctor. Maybe I should keep my bank account to myself until I'm certain shes here to stay. I'm truly a rags to riches story. Too bad the ladies around here still play hard to get. Some people are having trouble getting their wives certified as practicing doctors here. If you have the right connections, anythings possible. Good luck to everyone on their searches.

[juio99]

... in response to Reasons for RW, posted by Rickster on Dec 14, 2001

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[BarryM]

... in response to BarryM where are you;  Here is another T..., posted by juio99 on Dec 14, 2001

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[Rickster]

... in response to BarryM where are you;  Here is another T..., posted by juio99 on Dec 14, 2001

Not sure what a Troll is, but how about constructive criticism instead of name calling.  I thought this forum was all about helping each other.  Thanks for all your help!

[yoe]

... in response to Reasons for RW, posted by Rickster on Dec 14, 2001

congrats and good luck!
But you do know the down side, HUH? These Russian women expect you to be a GOOD man. It is funny hearing these girls talk. I am amazed on how some fo these chicks rise to the occassion. I am doing more than any man we know around us-including and of her friends and her response is-I do not care about other people-just us. Thus she expects much out of me-----------------and she does her part too.
One thing I have seen in 4 or 5 RW AM relationships is that these girls haev lit a fire of inspiration under there man's butt.God forbid that you wife inspire you!
anyway-it aint't always easy but my life is more organized and focused that it ever has been. It helps to have a partner and not a liability.
Joe

[thesearch]

... in response to Rick, have you been copying my post?, posted by yoe on Dec 14, 2001

For me, you hit the nail on the head when you

said having a partner versus a liability

or more catagories such as  not so bad being dead weight and less terrible being a lesser partner. So many AW are not team players.

Yet, there are many
AW who say the same about AM and I have seen many cases where the wife is doing far more than her share. So there are all kinds. Balance can be hard to find.

[yoe]

... in response to Re: Rick, have you been copying my post?, posted by thesearch on Dec 14, 2001

Maybe we should not be so hard on AW and just say many AP(American People). I know that the AM can be a bunch of freaks in themselves.
Joe
but great perspective-