Sex: To report or not to report - vote on it

[Bob S.]

... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

Guys of course like to brag about their chicks, but a gentleman will always try to protect the dignity of a lady.  Just something you might want to keep in mind as you write up your adventure stories.  It's fairly clear where you're going, but does it show post-coital respect to her if you go into graphic details about wild drug-induced monkey sex with some chick you just met and banged like a drum?

Besides, anything more than PG-13 is subject to censorship by the forum god anyway (i.e. Patrick).  This is a free public forum afterall.  I would advise you keep it tasteful (but entertaining!).

[Go2Rus]

... in response to Guys and Gentlemen, posted by Bob S. on Nov 8, 2001

protected?

[Bob S.]

... in response to Bob, I am confused.  How is the dignity ..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 9, 2001

If you use an intimate moment with her for _our_ voyeuristic entertainment, it strips her of her privacy and dignity.  Not everyone wants their private life spread all over the media.  If she's a stripper or prostitute who uses her sexuality for entertainment and commerce, she might appreciate the publicity. ;-)  But if she is a lady you have any respect for, the gentlemanly thing to do would be to NOT drag her before an audience and boast "Look at this hot piece of tail I just banged!"  How do you think she would feel if she knew you took what she thought was an intimate expression of affection for you and turned it into a story for exhibition and our amusement?

Of course I am making the assumption you are a gentleman and not some nekulturny dewd that sends in letters to Penthouse boasting about what a screamer his last girlfriend was.

[Ryan]

... in response to Guys and Gentlemen, posted by Bob S. on Nov 8, 2001

drug-induced monkey sex........Way Funny.....

Pissing in the streets?  The poor guy has some real issues....  Must be the big "V" god I just am not ready for getting old...

[Go2Rus]

... in response to Re: Guys and Gentlemen, posted by Ryan on Nov 8, 2001

pee in street one time in my life lead you to determine that I had 'real issues.'  What would you have done if you were in the EXACT same circumstances as I described?

Rex

[Ryan]

... in response to Ryan, could you please explain how the f..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 9, 2001

It is my feeling that we should all be on our best manors.  There was a post someplace on this board talking about how we are all in a way ambassadors, and I agree with this.  Why would you even tell us about this little happening?  I myself would be embarrasses to tell people that I was pissing on the streets in Russia.  Yes I understand that when you have to go you have to go.  You didn’t talk about going in to the store and asking if they had a facility, if they said no I bet if you handed them one dollar you would find a bathroom.  Did you tell your girlfriend you were with what you did?  Did you not feel that you had to go before you friend went into the grocery, or is it like your mom has to ask you if you need to go like when you were a child?  Plain and simple it is not right and you should act in a much more mature manor.   At the least I would leave stuff like that out of your story.

[thesearch]

... in response to Re: Guys and Gentlemen, posted by Ryan on Nov 8, 2001

Now I certainly do not condone urinating  in public and would personally avoid it.

But let me ask you this. If you had a weak bladder, had to urinate and there simply was not a bathroom that you could use period - you would urinate on yourself in this situation?

I do not think that it is possible to judge someone relative to this issue unless you were in his shoes and thus have total perspective on the situation.

[Ryan]

... in response to Question for you Ryan, posted by thesearch on Nov 8, 2001

Yes I understand that when you have to go you have to go.  There are other options to pissing in the streets.  Ask someone in the grocery or talk with your girlfriend, slip someone some change etc.  It is not really that he did it, but why would he write about it here I feel that it is just indicative of the guys’ persona talking about scoring, pissing in the streets, needing to take a pill to boost his masculinity, issues about being on time or else like it is all just me, me, me…

[Dan]

... in response to Guys and Gentlemen, posted by Bob S. on Nov 8, 2001

some crazy imagery, I cannot imagine what would!! LOL

Cheers,

- Dan

[thesearch]

... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

It looks like many do not want to know. So, here is an idea - just post if you think you found her or not and about meeting her etc. --- then  finish your report as you wish and do not post it but make it available for those interested at another site to e-mailed to those interested.

[BubbaGump]

... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

Just don't get explicit in front of the children.

[thesearch]

... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

Rex, here is how I view it. I did not put myself under either category as I am in between these and not at either extreme.

To me, it is not appropriate to describe sexual acts relative to specifics. However, as long as you leave the ladies anonymous you can discuss what you discover about these ladies. What are their views on sex, do these ladies in your experience hop in the sack easily, in other words how  promiscuous are they, are they different sexually than AW you have been with etc., how often was sex involved etc. These are important things to know I think if we are trying to understand these ladies and what to expect. Of course all women are going to be different.

If you were promiscuous, there will be those that will accuse you of going on a sex tour. Some men, if they find a woman they are interested in will want to know if they are compatible sexually others will not. If you do want to find this out, if you can not afford a second trip this would be your only time to discover your capability in this area.

If there are guys who do not want to know about these things then you have done the correct thing with instructing them to not read your subsequent posts.

Do not worry about what anyone says as long as you speak in generalities.

[micha1]

... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

sure why not,  you say it is very graphic,  you mean that you will make it graphic, right

[Go2Rus]

... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

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[Benjamin]

... in response to No Rex, please tell no more., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

No more please