a little poll

[BrianN]

... in response to I think I have found her, posted by thesearch on Oct 25, 2001

yup... in this category.

But there's "a backup system".

Prefer the primary, would regret to go to the secondary, but you only live once.

Go for it.

Looking forward to a decent xmas this year.

[Bob S.]

... in response to Re: I guess this makes me troll bait., posted by BrianN on Oct 26, 2001

If things don't work out with #1, and #2 simply does not have the qualities that would make her a good match over the long haul, forget them both and keep looking for #3.  Don't think you HAVE to settle for your back-up.  You're right.  You only live once.  Why back out of one mistake only to plow head-long into another?

[Philb]

... in response to I think I have found her, posted by thesearch on Oct 25, 2001

nt

[thesearch]

... in response to a little poll, posted by thesearch on Oct 25, 2001

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[DE]

... in response to I am actively looking for someone - have..., posted by thesearch on Oct 25, 2001

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[thesearch]

... in response to a little poll, posted by thesearch on Oct 25, 2001

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