Opinion on visiting with a purpose

[Frank O]

I'm having to postpone my trip this Thursday for several weeks. I was wondering if a person is going for say 7 days. Would it better to hit 1 city for the whole 7 days or split it up & hit 2 cities say 1 for 3 & another for 4?
I was planning on being in Bogot with latin intro for say 3 days or 4 then moving to Cali with Amparo & Latin Best for another 3 or 4.
ANy opinions on this?

[CelticUrge]

... in response to Opinion on visiting with a purpose, posted by Frank O on Aug 6, 2005

I agree with several others who simply state that you need to devote at least several days to the city of your choice and most likely a week or more. Don't go for the option of flitting around from one place to another because "the grass is greener" somewhere else. Focus,focus,focus,focus. Make a choice and stick to that choice, ignore the stupid advice of those who flitter and fly from one place to another, get to know where you are, what you can learn, who you meet, where you can go, who you meet and what you can learn and use for your next visit/vacation.

[wizard]

... in response to Opinion on visiting with a purpose, posted by Frank O on Aug 6, 2005

One week is barely enough time to get your feet on the ground in one city, much less 2 or more...

Pick a city and spend a week there... If you don't like the service(s) you are getting or the city, then plan another later trip to a different destination...

[papi]

... in response to Opinion on visiting with a purpose, posted by Frank O on Aug 6, 2005

Hey Frank, enjoying the spoils of all the beauties in BQ. I tried Luz A a couple years ago and thought she was incredibly disorganized. Another gringo i was friends with thought her outfit was a complete joke. But some guys have had success with her like Heat. i would however suggest exploring some other options we have discussed. 10 days would be a good run - 2 cities/agencies and then work the internet cafes, grocery stores, etc. lots of low hanging fruit. when are yu thinking about going?

[Frank O]

... in response to Re: Opinion on visiting with a purpose, posted by papi on Aug 6, 2005

Looks like end of Sept? My birthday is October 1st thinking of celebrating out of the country. I don't know I might just do a 5 day trip Papi style to Bogota for now. If I see it's not happening then plan another for another city. I"ll Nelsons first. When you get back give me more feedback on your experience with Latin Best.
PS hey my ex wife called me YESTERDAY!! Freaked me out. Didn't ask for $$ either. Not good man.

[papi]

... in response to Re: Re: Opinion on visiting with a purpo..., posted by Frank O on Aug 6, 2005

Frank, Bog might be a mistake unless you find at least 12 or more chicas in his agency attractive. better looking women in BQ and Cali. but doing 2 cities including Bog is ok

[Fuzzyone]

... in response to Opinion on visiting with a purpose, posted by Frank O on Aug 6, 2005

Frank don´t ask us just do it!!!! one thing I want to remind you don´t eat food from those little shacks on the sidewalk... the crap will kill you.... anyway you should pick one city and leave it at that... Try Barranquilla I was running around today and there is plenty of woman for you here.. you would not believe how nice a woman in a white T shirt look when you have a nice rain.....

[oakham]

... in response to Re: Opinion on visiting with a purpose, posted by Fuzzyone on Aug 6, 2005

I know that Pope Benedict would frown on a catholic male with sensual priorities.   Colombia is Catholic Church jurisdiction and focuses on male quality.

[Frank O]

... in response to Re: Opinion on visiting with a purpose, posted by Fuzzyone on Aug 6, 2005

That's MY same sentiment. I just think it's better to hit one city & stick to that. I mean be it Baranquilla, Bogota, Medellin, Cali etc if you can't find ONE lady there then perhaps the problem is you. It's just I guess I'm still thinking "Ukrainian" in terms of looking for a wife. Over there MOST of the tours involve hitting several cities for say 3 days each. Meet as many ladies then on you NEXT trip you narrow those down. I can't seem to work that way & thought perhaps it was just ME. Glad to see most here on THIS board agree on this.

[Looking4Wife]

... in response to Opinion on visiting with a purpose, posted by Frank O on Aug 6, 2005

My opinion is... FOCUS.

There seem to be enough beautiful women in EVERY city that people frequent on this board.

To each his own... some guys are into the hunt and the chase, I'm just into the capture and the enjoyment of the spoils of war...

So for me, it seems very inefficient to spend time and money hopping from city to city, when each city contains a treasure trove of gorgeous women that may fit my profile for a potential wife...

How MANY treasure troves does ONE man need :-)

You could literally go crazy, broke, overwhelmed, or disenchanted with the whole wife search (if you are looking for a wife), by diluting your resources going city to city...

If you're just looking for exotic vactions with multiple exotic women, however, then that's another game plan that I can't comment on...

[oakham]

... in response to Re: Opinion on visiting with a purpose, posted by Looking4Wife on Aug 6, 2005

Don't look for the spoils of war.   Be courageous and be a man..select a wife and be commited, God has a plan and you should not fight it.  Follow it!

[Looking4Wife]

... in response to Re: Re: Opinion on visiting with a purpo..., posted by oakham on Aug 6, 2005

Oakham:

Apparently you did not understand the point of my post.

Both from the context of the entire post, and the following exerpted statement:

"To each his own... some guys are into the hunt and the chase, I'm just into the CAPTURE and the enjoyment of the spoils of war..."

I thought it was clear that by "spoils of war" I meant the actual procurement of the desired wife with which to live happily ever after.

As you may know, "spoils of war" refers to the REWARDS of victory.  My point was that I am much more interested in the REWARD (i.e. the wife), so I want to get to my reward (i.e. my wife) as efficiently as possible.

I'm not sure how that message could have been misunderstood, especially in the overall context of my post, but I am open to suggestions on how I could have articulated more clearly.

As far as your comments:

"Be courageous and be a man..select a wife and be commited, God has a plan and you should not fight it. Follow it!"

I would encourage you to read my posts below concerning "Devout Christian Latinas", and for that matter, you can do an archive search on the word "devout" or "preacher", or "minister", or "celibate" to get a better feel for where I am coming from concerning my personal wife search.

Hope this clarifies things :-)

[Frank O]

... in response to Re: Opinion on visiting with a purpose, posted by Looking4Wife on Aug 6, 2005

I agree with this. That's my whole point. I would just rather focus on ONE place. I was contemplating a trip to Ukraine but man the tour they had there had us hitting like 4 or 5 cities in 3 weeks man. Sorry but I'm just not up to that man. I like to get confy & concentrate on what I'm looking for. Also I AM looking for a wife. NOt into pleasure trips.

[papi]

... in response to Re: Re: Opinion on visiting with a purpo..., posted by Frank O on Aug 6, 2005

2 cities is still not a bad call. i may be help to show you around depending on when u want to go. i can hook u up in BQ and there are lots of options in Cali. If yu stay at Petes place you can negotiate some citas. For example, i think u can get 12 citas from Calivip for $200 and there are some other options for less. as mentioned, i have some good agency contacts and friends for yu in BQ and might have a couple hotties to toss in your direction only because i am a nice guy

[Frank O]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Opinion on visiting with a p..., posted by papi on Aug 6, 2005

Thanks 10 days sounds cool. I for sure will hit Bogota. Trying to decide between Cali & Baranquilla. In Bogota I'll stay at Nelsons place. Thanks for the feedback. So you've got 2 days left eh? Still with Penelope?