Frank O, una pregunta...

[thundernco]

I'm just curious, I have a good friend who married a Ukranian gal, hot as can be, well educated BUT his main complaint is that she is cold.  When we speak he often compares his wife to mine as polar oppsites.  My Calena being very affectionate, touchy, loving, doting on me, teasing and playful with me etc., and his rather aloof anf reserved.  He knows she loves him and they have an otherwise good marriage.  This leads me to ask, has this been your observation with FSR women as well? -TNC

[Frank O]

... in response to Frank O, una pregunta..., posted by thundernco on Jul 27, 2005

SI!!! HUGE FREAKING DIFFERENCE!!!! I had been dating mostly (ALL) Mexican ladies. They are VERY afectionate, loving, warm etc whatever adjectives you want for that. Te acarician mucho. I'm big on hugs & cuddling etc. My ex was VERY cold. Sure in bed she was hot. NO complains there at all, especially on the oral sex. I think they have doctorates in that in Ukraine... anyways sometimes I would tell my wife "cmon over here & give me a hug" & she'd reply with "why are you a child? Only little boys need a hug. Ukrainian men have HONOR they don't need to be hugged". Yeah, well whatever como m1erda!!
That IS/WAS a HUGE turnoff of me. I can't see myself living long term with that. I loved brushing her hair giving her massages etc sometimes she was just COLD. NEVER had that problem with the Mexicans. From what I can discern with Colombians, Peruvians etc all they are NOT cold. Don't know but when it comes to that the Ukes fare VERY badly & the Latinas stand head & shoulder above them. one thing My Uke wife LOOKED like a Latina. Jet black black, morenita (from the sun), same body/physique etc so physically I got what I wanted but just to dang cold. I'll take a Latina ANY day.

[tnolan1]

... in response to Re: Frank O, una pregunta...una gran .., posted by Frank O on Jul 27, 2005

I must agree with the comments  on Latin being much more affectionate.  Peruvian women (I'm married to one) Love to hold hands and Kiss and Hug in public.  When I brought my wife to the U.S., I was a little shocked at firstabout how openly she displayed her affection.  In the Grocery store she would lunge at me and starting kissing me  and always wants to hold hands or have my arm around her.  We laugh about it now and sometimes I tell her to hold my belt loop while we walk through the store and walk behind me.  We both laugh at the looks we get from  all of the NAB's.
Viva Peru!
Terry
www.mylatinrose.com

[tbirdjoy]

... in response to Re: Frank O, una pregunta...una gran .., posted by Frank O on Jul 27, 2005

Frank you just went though a painful divorce and wasn't your wife something like 20, and didn't you admit you ignored a lot of red flags prior to marring her.  Dude I've been with many Russian/Ukrainian women and I found each and everyone one of them to be very affectionate and passionate.  So #1 it depends on the woman and #2 it depends on the man to be able to generate passion from his woman.  I think anyone that reads your posts right now needs to remember that you're hurting and full of pain.  I would submit that your obejectivity could be a little warped right now. Take some time and heal thyself.

[Frank O]

... in response to Re: Re: Frank O, una pregunta...una gran..., posted by tbirdjoy on Jul 28, 2005

But just wondering have ever been with a Latina? I'm NOT saying to offend or nothing but your married to a Ukrainian & you have a good marriage great. But I was previously married to a Mexican & it was heaven on earth for 6 years. We split due to professional differences (we are BOTH musicians she started to do opera in Italy so obviously...). Anyways I have been married to a Latina AND a Ukrainian. Just VERY different. I do NOT like to compare but I'm just wondering was MY Uke an anomaly? Most the Latinas as very similar, everyone is an individual but very similar however Diana the Uke was just totally different. She's the ONLY Ukrainian I've ever LIVED with though.

[tbirdjoy]

... in response to Thanks Tbirdjoy, posted by Frank O on Jul 28, 2005

Well this is my second marriage to a Russain and you've had one of each so I guess it comes down to the individual woman and not necessarily what part of the world they come from.  I think though we all agree on these three boards is that we'd rather take our chances with foreign women then the domestic brand.  I agree with everyone else get back out there and have some fun but watch for those landmines.  Best of luck to ya!

[papi]

... in response to Re: Thanks Tbirdjoy, posted by tbirdjoy on Jul 29, 2005

landmines...muy apropos

[papi]

... in response to Re: Re: Frank O, una pregunta...una gran..., posted by tbirdjoy on Jul 28, 2005

the best cure is to get back in the saddle

[Dolfi]

... in response to Re: Frank O, una pregunta...una gran .., posted by Frank O on Jul 27, 2005

That´s the most beautiful thing about latin women in my opinion, they are so affectionate! My girlfriend from Medellín just went home yesterday and allready I miss her very much. The look into your eyes with a wonderful smile, walk down the street hand in hand with you and enjoy the admiring looks of the people. When I made my bed this morning I found a paper under the pillow saying: "No me olvides, te quiero".

Wonderful

[Frank O]

... in response to Re: Re: Frank O, una pregunta...una gran..., posted by Dolfi on Jul 27, 2005

You mentioned about the holding hands or walking down the street. I remember in Ukraine trying to hug my wife or hold her hand in public & always being told some crap about how it's not "appropriate" or "proper" to display affection in private. Once your behind doors it's no hold barred but NOT in public. Sorry I got tired of that krap! It's MY wife. If I want to hold her hand or hug her in public I will everyone else de danmed. With my Mexican ladies usually THEY would hold me & hold me CLOSE to let all OTHER ladies KNOW 'he's mine!'. I LOVED that about them. Even my friend Eva who is JUST a friend many times walks with me arm in arm in public & hugs me & she's JUST A FRIEND!!! Anyways I guess you guys can tell I'm a little ornery today. But this thread DID strike a nerve with me. In all honesty it makes ME wonder why I even want to go BACK to Ukraine?!

[papi]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Frank O, una pregunta...una ..., posted by Frank O on Jul 27, 2005

i will refresh your memory on why you want to go back:

1. Gorgeous looking women
2. Hot in bed

2 out of 3 is not bad but try Colombia before you get on that plane for 20 hrs

[Frank O]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Frank O, una pregunta......, posted by papi on Jul 27, 2005

PLus yes I guess that COULD have SOMETHING to do with why I want to go back.

[papi]

... in response to will do..., posted by Frank O on Jul 27, 2005

yes, cause i dont think yu want to go back to Kiev until the spring so yu have time to take a shot at LA. Go in with some good planning. Your buddy Jack sends guys to something like 12 cities! Imagine LA guys hitting 12 cities over 1 trip! sheesh! most go to one destination. yu can get lucky in LA. I would bet 6-7 nights and 2-3 cities and you would have your hands full with or without your newspaper ad

[Frank O]

... in response to Re: will do..., posted by papi on Jul 27, 2005

That's EXACTLY what I'm thinking. I'll hit Colombia sometime within the next 3 months then if I think it's for me I'll follow up. If NOT then I'll go back to Ukraine but like you said next year. I AM thinking & planning this out carefully. That's why I'm NOT jumping on a plane in 2 weeks.

[CelticUrge]

... in response to Re: Re: will do..., posted by Frank O on Jul 27, 2005

What other thoughts and issues do you need to clarify? Perhaps throwing them out there to the wolves will get you some useful discussion.