SENDING MONEY CREATES A MONSTER

[Gato4Astrid]

As Fathertime used to say that these ladies had survived before you came along!

This message is for everyone....

It isn't easy not to give money to your novias.  I was one of these victimns. 

[mambocowboy]

As Fathertime used to say that these ladies had survived before you came along!

This message is for everyone....

It isn't easy not to give money to your novias.  I was one of these victimns.

"victim" is a pretty strong word. None of these women are holding guns to these guys' heads to send money. And actually, breaking off with these ladies should be easier because you don't even have to do it in person; you simply break off all contact via phone or email...LS was lucky in the sense she showed who she was so early, before he brought her here....

[mambocowboy]

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I've sent money to my fiancé, but not like your situation. The most I've sent was $200 that covered a semester of english classes and 3 months cell phone service, and that was 2 months ago. You gottta get a woman that's dikwhipped and putty in your hands. I purposely act macho and give my novia every opportunity to back out, because as a man in my 40s, I have certain habits that I wont change, like I don't like talking on the phone or text messaging all day, and I don't like a woman looking for me all day and wondering what and where I am. Most guys will say a Colombiana doesn't have the capacity to not be jealous, and that's true, but she can definitely be trained to respect your wishes if she actually respects your place as a man and trusts you. Wait for it, here it comes....

absolutely. Some guys don't realize they need to lead and create the relationship they want, from the beginning. They  just let the woman lead and next thing they know they realize she has no respect for them and is leading them around by their pecker...

[buencamino]

Wow Latin Sharpei your girl for sounds pretty bad. Good thing you cut bait with that one when you did. Guys have to remember though it isn't always the girls who are guilty of low life behavior. I remember Pete E talked about a low life cad who stayed with him at his apartment who proposed to a girl there in front of her family then dropped her for another chica a few days later. It can be tough for us to find a decent latina with values but it can be tough for them too.

[bcc_1_2]

Wow Latin Sharpei your girl for sounds pretty bad. Good thing you cut bait with that one when you did. Guys have to remember though it isn't always the girls who are guilty of low life behavior. I remember Pete E talked about a low life cad who stayed with him at his apartment who proposed to a girl there in front of her family then dropped her for another chica a few days later. It can be tough for us to find a decent latina with values but it can be tough for them too.

Yes, can you imagine the red flag and horror stories the women have. Don't take on the "victim-hood" mentality. Don't just follow your dick. I would say if you are dead set on dating Colombianas you better sure as heck know when it is time to bounce. If a situation suddenly goes very south very fast then I will really understand where the guy is coming from. BUT most often it is something that happens over days, weeks, months, and they just keep putting up with it until they have to jump off the train before the crash.

[fathertime]

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Yes, do it. Post a picture of her too. You don't want anything to do with her anyway, and you'll be helping some other guy from winding up with her.
 

2 sources (Benjio and Latinsharpei) say this woman is trouble...any info about that helps others avoid her is probably good...she is probably very attractive which will keep sucking guys in...


Fathertime! 

[bcc_1_2]

2 sources (Benjio and Latinsharpei) say this woman is trouble...any info about that helps others avoid her is probably good...she is probably very attractive which will keep sucking guys in...


Fathertime!

The traffic and participation on this site is very low. I don't see the point in black-listing as the internet is already full of that. I could understand posting her agency profile page though. That way the men that do read here and use that agency will have advance warning. Then the agency owner can decide to take action if he wants. And if the girl disagrees with the assessment and wants her information gone she can ask the agency owner to remove her profile.

[Stevieboy]

absolutely. Some guys don't realize they need to lead and create the relationship they want, from the beginning. They  just let the woman lead and next thing they know they realize she has no respect for them and is leading them around by their pecker...

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I think one of the ingredients to having a stronger will and esteem, is to find a girl that's not overwhelmingly attractive so as to affect the big head's thought process. If she feels you could leave her for another woman, you've got control. It sounds mean, but there's only room for one alpha in the relationship. This BS about 50-50 is crap made up by bra burning 60s women, and we're not interested in them.

[JasonA]

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I think one of the ingredients to having a stronger will and esteem, is to find a girl that's not overwhelmingly attractive so as to affect the big head's thought process. If she feels you could leave her for another woman, you've got control. It sounds mean, but there's only room for one alpha in the relationship. This BS about 50-50 is crap made up by bra burning 60s women, and we're not interested in them.

I've heard this referred to as "the battle of who could care less".  It can be effective to a point.

[robert angel]

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 I have certain habits that I wont change, like I don't like talking on the phone or text messaging all day, and I don't like a woman looking for me all day and wondering what and where I am. Most guys will say a Colombiana doesn't have the capacity to not be jealous, and that's true, but she can definitely be trained to respect your wishes if she actually respects your place as a man and trusts you. Wait for it, here it comes....

As I just recently said (again) the hotter the girl, the higher the maintenance. You should expect it proportionately down the road. Be careful what you wish for. Don't sugar coat your, shall we call them 'idiosyncrasies'? If you smoke pot or surf porn, tell her about that and a whole lot of your other peccadillos now, rather than later.

She's gonna find out soon anyway, believe me. If I smoked weed (no big deal to me), my wife would've been gone in months--that's just how it is. I'm not into housekeeping. I might go fishing for 2 or 3 days--not sure of just how many. I collect old 'collectible' stuff, I dig for Indian artifacts--she doesn't like it and sees no real value in it (yet), but those things were stated by me and seen up front by her--it was 'part of the deal'.

Tell her what makes you lose your temper. For me, it's when I misplace stuff or when my sons get smart ass mouthed--there's more, but those stand out. I lose my cool in situations like that--I told her well beforehand.


If a woman's not at least a little jealous of you and what you could conceivably be doing behind her back, it's not good. My wife is curious as to how other women 'react' to me, not just in front of her, but when I'm out solo. That said, if I want to look at a pretty, hot young lady when we're out and about, even say/ask her something like "What's your nationality--your family's?", she lets it go. If she did it, I'd be royally pissed. She knows I've never gone behind her and jumped another woman's bones. She won't flirt--it's not her style and I'm glad. She doesn't threaten payback either.

It's a lot easier 'Being a Man' when the rules are set and clear ahead of time!

Under My Thumb

It's down to me
The difference in the clothes she wears
Down to me, the change has come,
She's under my thumb

Ain't it the truth, babe?

It's down to me, yes it is
The way she does just what she's told
Down to me, the change has come
She's under my thumb
Ah, ah, say it's alright

Under my thumb
A siamese cat of a girl
Under my thumb
She's the sweetest, hmmm, pet in the world

It's down to me
The way she talks when she's spoken to
Down to me, the change has come,
She's under my thumb
Ah, take it easy babe
Yeah


Under my thumb
Her eyes are just kept to herself
Under my thumb, well I
I can still look at someone else

It's down to me, oh that's what I said
The way she talks when she's spoken to
Down to me, the change has come,
She's under my thumb
Say, it's alright.

Say it's all...
Say it's all...

Take it easy babe
Take it easy babe
Feels alright
Take it, take it easy babe

Jagger/Richards (Partial Lyrics)

[Stevieboy]

I've heard this referred to as "the battle of who could care less".  It can be effective to a point.

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I'd say it's effective in the beginning to see what transpires. Once the ring finger has developed a tan line, after a while everyone relaxes and before you know it she's sitting on the toilet with the door open while you're brushing your teeth.

[bcc_1_2]

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I'd say it's effective in the beginning to see what transpires. Once the ring finger has developed a tan line, after a while everyone relaxes and before you know it she's sitting on the toilet with the door open while you're brushing her teeth.

If this happens to me I'd like to be put out of my misery.

[Awesome]

Why not just let Jamie handle it? Isn't that what you pay this guy for.

What exactly is Jamie supposed to do?  We're only hearing one side of the story.  No disrespect to ls but he basically did everything wrong he could've done.

And as much as I hate to admit I agree with skeevyboy he makes a good point.  When dealing with many Latinas you have to establish right away who wears the pants and who's in charge. 

[fathertime]

 

I've heard this referred to as "the battle of who could care less".  It can be effective to a point.

HI Jason,


yeah to a point...from what I've read you get your viewpoint across to your lady, and don't back off...of course every once in a while a man might figure he was mistaken and then concede a point...but at least for me, i don't concede just for the sake of peace...i'd rather have a dispute than have a phony peace where i'm slightly aggravated about something.  from my experience,  these relationships are a funny unique combination of push/pull....it takes a spell to get the hang of it...right around the time you do get rhythm, you don't give a fvuk...hahahah




hey stevieboy....yeah the brushing the teeth with the other on the crapper is something i've grown somewhat accustomed to...just make sure the fan is on, don't wanna melt the toothpaste right off the bristles..  i think you are 'spot on'    with your latina comments...






Fathertime! 



 

[mambocowboy]

What exactly is Jamie supposed to do?  We're only hearing one side of the story.  No disrespect to ls but he basically did everything wrong he could've done.

I agree. And if you go back and read his posts and reaction to feedback from the forum, he may have been making some big mistakes and in his rush, overlooking some serious red flags...


   

[bcc_1_2]

What exactly is Jamie supposed to do?  We're only hearing one side of the story.  No disrespect to ls but he basically did everything wrong he could've done.

And as much as I hate to admit I agree with skeevyboy he makes a good point.  When dealing with many Latinas you have to establish right away who wears the pants and who's in charge.

I agree that we are hearing this third hand. The agency owner has the option of either leaving her profile up or taking her down. That's why I was saying I think it is fair game to post her profile here. Then as long as she's with the agency the guys on here will know to avoid her if they wish. I don't think posting a profile goes as far as posting her full name, pics, and info to be eaten up by the internet.

[Elexpatriado]

Whether you  created the Monster in the First Place, or the Monster was already there- you are right- don't send her money. It's a recipe for disaster. I did it twice- really stupid. If you get in a serious relationship, you can do the maintenace and pay the bills after you live together.
 
If she demands the money- dump her. She's only gonna spend it on her "Mossas" (boyfreinds) anyway..

[Elexpatriado]

Ha..ha.ha..2 weeks..I have had much longer relations with women here in Colombia who said they loved me, wanted to spend more tme with me,introduced me to their family, then dumped me when another foreigner came along,
 
Listen to this guy. Don'be a "Rube"...
 
Better to die alone, childless but with "Honour" than to be a rube or "Cap'n salva Puta"..

[buencamino]

Somewhere above someone said iLS was unwise to divulge the domestic abuse thing to the crazy girl. While he may have done some unwise things I wonder if it wasn't in fact the agency that told her as part of IMBRA compliance and not LS.

[Fuzzyone]

  L.S.


    Thanks for the story you posted! I must say one thing at least you did not mess up like I did I brought the girl here and married the witch. Even after I saw all the red flags.

[bcc_1_2]

Somewhere above someone said iLS was unwise to divulge the domestic abuse thing to the crazy girl. While he may have done some unwise things I wonder if it wasn't in fact the agency that told her as part of IMBRA compliance and not LS.

Legally that would make sense. But the owner is not a USA citizen nor is he doing business in the United States. I must say it is very odd that the USA would try to make a law apply to a business run outside the USA by someone without citizenship or any ties to the States.

[LatinSharpei]

IMBRa law says I have to....  Guys Jamie did deal with it.  He actually did more than I ever expected.  Once again he showed why his agency comes with the recommendations of everyone.  He has my ringing endorsement.   No I did not per say win.  She will be dealt with when she comes back. If she  comes back.  I dont expect her to.  She said she is done with gringos.  She called me yesterday at 6 am to screw with my head and ask for 300 more dollars. Father times advice wasI in my head when she made her plea as far as she lived  all these years with out me... What was she gonna do with 300 more of my dollars.  Take out her novio buy a new dress.  I dont matter.  I am at a point where I think I just want to forget her ass.  She truly made me learn what hate is.  I dont hate the girl that got me my D.V.  this one pushed me to a place I have never been.  I told I am dead in her world and she should act as if I died.

[Stevieboy]

IMBRa law says I have to....  Guys Jamie did deal with it.  He actually did more than I ever expected.  Once again he showed why his agency comes with the recommendations of everyone.  He has my ringing endorsement.   No I did not per say win.  She will be dealt with when she comes back. If she  comes back.  I dont expect her to.  She said she is done with gringos.  She called me yesterday at 6 am to screw with my head and ask for 300 more dollars. Father times advice wasI in my head when she made her plea as far as she lived  all these years with out me... What was she gonna do with 300 more of my dollars.  Take out her novio buy a new dress.  I dont matter.  I am at a point where I think I just want to forget her ass.  She truly made me learn what hate is.  I dont hate the girl that got me my D.V.  this one pushed me to a place I have never been.  I told I am dead in her world and she should act as if I died.

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I thought you kicked her to the curb by now. Sounds like you're infatuated and can't cut loose. Move on LS, and do it quick. Go out and find some strange woman at a bar or club. Or maybe get an escort that's super hot and makes you feel like you're special to get over her. One night of ecstasy with a strange woman can do wonders to a man's esteem.
 

[LatinSharpei]

I am done... She is blocked on facebook.  I can not do anything about my house phone I wont change the number.  Am I sad yes.  Pissed off yes.  As all things it will pass.  I made my point quite rudely this morning.  I think she got the point that all benefits from gringo are passed.  Her [snip]ty behavior ruined any other girl getting any benefits till marriage.  But no she is done.  She ruined my family christmas she ruined many things for me and wasted six months of my life.  I do my best work in the gym pissed off.  Strange bookers dont provide the same benefits as going to the gym tossing weights around and looking so good you have girls tossing themselves and numbers at you.  However I am good for a while.  Taking this slow and trying another appoach.  I probably will return but it wont be announced to anyone but Jamie since that is where my money is going and known to be trusted...

[mambocowboy]

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I think one of the ingredients to having a stronger will and esteem, is to find a girl that's not overwhelmingly attractive so as to affect the big head's thought process. If she feels you could leave her for another woman, you've got control. It sounds mean, but there's only room for one alpha in the relationship. This BS about 50-50 is crap made up by bra burning 60s women, and we're not interested in them.

That's a very good attitude to have going in and that's where a lot of guys are lacking. If the man doesn't take the lead, the woman will, simple as that...