Wow, my 1st trip report from Colombia, the good, the bad and the ugly, let's go!

[Researcher]

nothing they do is rational  as we know it.

KB

              Words to remember Calgando! Very true.


             Researcher

[Alabamaboy!]

Woody is right, if the workers in a personal intros agency do their jobs, the first time man will have an incredible high.

Just some thoughts. Im speaking as someone who has had Colombianas break up with him...and I ve broken up with more then a few.

As Americans, we want closure....and we think that we are entitled to an official breakup.We think that confrontation is a good thing, saves time and cuts to the chase. And this is what you wanted....Writing the email to get closure was the right idea...but the things you said about her will probably not get a response from her.

Colombian women do not do CONFRONTATION with men, as a general rule. If after being novios, you told her that you were going to go out with other women from the agency. she may well have thought you were the same as any Colombian man, a mujeriego (womanizer), and that may have been enough for her to take off.

How does a Colombian women break up...they avoid or ignore the man after he tries to contact her. It s the same as if a man wants to go out with her, and when a Colombian woman ignores you, it shouldnt take any more then 3 unanswered calls or an unasnwered emial or two to realize it. And from her point, its a polite way to terminate. And yes you ll say but I cared about her, I spent all this cash on her, but that is the way it is. Judge a Colombian woman not by what she says but by her actions, or inactions.

Its an important thing to understand aobut the culture here, some men never quite get it and the sonner you understnad it, the less time you ll waste on your next trip.

She may also not have told her family or her friends that she had joined am agency, whren things were good, she wanterd to be with you for the birthday...but she wasnt aobut to mix up the diffeent part oher life. Colombians do that their lives are fragmented with different parts...and different realities in each part. You will never know a Colombian woman UNLESS you are in her home, you see how she lives, and you meet her family.

OK the next time you go back...you ll be sharper.

 
Yes you seem to have had a great experience as a first trip. Each time you go down you will learn more and more of the "way" that these girls think and operate. And you will learn more about yourself too. But at first it is overwhelming and impossible to know for sure which road to head down. You gotta just pick one like you did and see where it leads. But at the same time avoid painting yourself into a corner.

The good news about the girl that flaked out on you, she will probably be willing to meet up with you again down the road. Or if you met her at the mall just by chance on your next visit, don't be surprised if she just acts like nothing ever happened and you just hit it off just as well or  better with the chemistry/fun departments. But keep in mind that she showed you something about how she is with how she treated you. But keep her number, just in case. You may want to look her up some day when you are down there again and have some extra time on your hands...to go catch a movie or something. That is one thing I learned about these women, it is never officially over.

And about the other girl who was a little reserved but had a killer body, looks....and that you did not have that "blow your mind" chemistry...she may be a great candidate. My wife right now was one of those kind of girls. The chemistry was not there at first so I ended up getting with another woman, similar to your #1. And although things worked out well for awhile, we eventually went our separate ways when I finally acknowledged that she was not wife material. And now I am with the more reserved, sweet girl...who is more and more beautiful every day. And the chemistry is perfect now that the initial timidness has dissipated.

But glad to hear you had fun. Thanks for the great reports.

[Alabamaboy!]

I know this may sound strange to you but in my experience with Latinas in general is that if you come off as too interested in her, it is almost a turnoff. They like to be chased but they respond better to being ignored some themselves and end of thinking that they are missing out on a great guy. Sounds like you were a bit too serious with her from the start. The translator thing does not help either and could have put added pressure on her. You sound like you Analyze a lot and that is never a good thing when it comes to Latinas because nothing they do is rational  as we know it.

KB

Exactly right. They are not rational at all (as a rule), especially Costenas.

One thing that you mentioned that is a pretty big red flag is when they start playing games with the cell phones. Because most likely she already had a boyfriend or even multiple guys. But it is a crazy thing, because of course you were down there dating other girls too. So it is kind of hard to dismiss someone because of that. Usually it seems like it is a back and forth thing that they will spar with you for awhile until they are ready to cut the ties to with the other guy(s).

And I would not be surprised if Jamie cut that girl from his site. I know he takes things like this seriously because he does not want the girls to be wasting the paying customers time. And if she shows herself to be disrespectful and not following the rules, he will take her off the site because she is more harm than good. I have seen him do it before.

[raycjs]

Colgando,

Great report, when you have time and your mind is clear take a look at all of your dates and go back through them one at a time and see if there is anything about them that you missed and if you find you liked something about them then contact them and let them know if they are still single you would like to meet them again when you go back. the next trip will be a much better trip because you will have gotten all of the first time jitters out of your system. and all the things that seamed WOW to you will now seam normal to you do not let #1 get you down or keep you questioning yourself WHY.....where did i go wrong and so forth... you must move on and what ever happened with # 1 or whatever might happen will be for a reason... best of luck to you on your next trip......


Ray

[fathertime]

colgando, your report was stunningly honest and i liked how it was not self-serving at all! 

i agree with what you said about living in colombia and being faithful...i think it would be damn hard so i don't want to live in colombia as a married man,

I like how Jamie tried to refocus you early on when you were gabbbing with the translater about the group meeting...his attitude is most helpful when you are ready to accept it...slightly distant and focused.

Latina #2 (the coke bottle) sounded like the winner to me right from the start...it is too bad that you got yourself all wrapped up wtih Latina #1 so tightly...

The massage lady on the beach of cartagena did the same thing to me and it was also 80MIL, but i refused to pay that amount...I think I gave her 20 dollars or something like that...what a ripoff...i was also with a lady that i was utterly infatuated with on that trip but it didn't work out either, as a matter fact all i took home with me on that trip was was explosive diarrhea...
on another trip i stayed at an expensive hotel in cartagena it was called hotel americanos or something like that...it had a large private beach and there was nobody there to bother us!

i found that i turned into quite a wuss like you did  for a couple trips down there...you will learn soon how to mitigate your hormones and get over these women...you gotta adapt like that. jajaj

just forget about latina #1...very unliklely that she will ever pan out...she didn't do anything wrong....ultimately she was just not into you and the guys are saying they don't like confrontation so all of sudden 'the phones don't work'...maybe you fell to quickly for her, or who knows what doesn't matter....

i assume you are definately ready for a second trip down there! you did a damn good job all things considered...so don't feel bad or like you screwed up in any way..it is a process for most of us that are going for women as young as you are talking about...AB, has a good perspective on a lot of these younger gals...i think i went to colombia 9 times before everything aligned for me...you just gotta have fun along the way and keep learning...

thanks again for the report,

Fathertime!

[Colgando]

Congratulions, you ve pulled out all the stops and written a fablous sequence of`posts. it took me back to my first agency expereince in Bogota in 2008, all the excitment and antiicpation. ranking the girls and bonding with the men client. To this day, my best friends in Colombia are two American guys I met at the agency in 2008-

If I can. let me offer some thoughts and i realize Im a crapload of years older then you!
You made a mistake by telling number 1 that you were going to meet women after you had made the novios committment. it may have been the reason why she went south

Let me assure you, Jamie isnt going to pull her from the agency, not if she is the ball of fire yous ay she is.

Thanks for your honesty


Thanks DL. I agree, that was a mistake how I played the I have more citas lined up card, I will do a better job next time.

Well, right now, I think they are going to leave her on the site until they talk to her again. They mentioned that they may take her down from the site but they would need to talk to her first. They are constantly adding and removing women.

[Colgando]

I read your entire report tonight in one sitting.

Yea this kind of report both inspires and of course makes some of us guys wanting to do Jaimes have caution. Yes nothing is guaranteed but wow look at the time and effort you put in... the emotion you developed and BAM.... i dont know if i would like to to experience it in the way you did. Actually this is COMMON in reports here which is a bit well takes ya aback.

It sounded like the perfect situation with latina #1. Thats kinda what serious guys want. but the last part where she kinda just doesnt respond well i guess from 2 points in your report you could have guessed there were 2 red flags (the dissing her family for her Bday for you and not calling her friends when they didnt know where she was).

So maybe it iusnt such a surprise but doesnt hurt any less.

Well good luck!

good report tho lots of good info in it.

What up Col! Yeah, I think a man has to earn his battle scars in this endeavor, unless he is a one hit wonder. I had a fantastic learning experience with Latina #1, there are a few things I will do differently going forward.

[Colgando]

Nah, been there, done that. That is your emotions driving into high gear and you getting high on the endorphins. After a bit, once the high wears off, your mind starts working properly again.

Thanks Woody, I appreciate that. The high started wearing off today after a long day at the office.

[Colgando]

Woody is right, if the workers in a personal intros agency do their jobs, the first time man will have an incredible high.

Just some thoughts. Im speaking as someone who has had Colombianas break up with him...and I ve broken up with more then a few.

As Americans, we want closure....and we think that we are entitled to an official breakup.We think that confrontation is a good thing, saves time and cuts to the chase. And this is what you wanted....Writing the email to get closure was the right idea...but the things you said about her will probably not get a response from her.

Colombian women do not do CONFRONTATION with men, as a general rule. If after being novios, you told her that you were going to go out with other women from the agency. she may well have thought you were the same as any Colombian man, a mujeriego (womanizer), and that may have been enough for her to take off.

How does a Colombian women break up?...they avoid or ignore the man after he tries to contact her. It s the same as if a man wants to go out with her, and when a Colombian woman ignores you, it shouldnt take any more then 3 unanswered calls or an unasnwered email or two to realize it. And from her point, its a polite way to terminate. And yes you ll say but I cared about her, I spent all this cash on her, but that is the way it is. Judge a Colombian woman not by what she says but by her actions, or inactions.

Its an important thing to understand about the culture here, some men never quite get it and the sooner you understamd it, the less time you ll waste on your next trip.

She may also not have told her family or her friends that she had joined am agency, whren things were good, she wanted to be with you for the birthday...but she wasnt about to mix up the different part oher life. Colombians do that, their lives are fragmented in different parts...and different realities in each part. You will never know a Colombian woman UNLESS you are in her home, you see how she lives, and you meet her family.

OK the next time you go back...you ll be sharper.

Thanks DL, I am not interested in hearing back from her, I wrote the email more for my personal benefit, get what I was feeling off my chest.

Her friends and mom new she was with the agency. One of her friends is going to sign up.

You are right, I will be sharper the next time I go down, for sure, learned some valuable lessons.

[Colgando]

Good for you for SELF CORRECTING -

"yeah, I know, pretty pathetic, I cannot really know a person in such a short amount of time. She was just very open, honest and outgoing and we covered a lot of ground in our conversations and I enjoyed every moment we spent together. I got all caught up in the moment with her, live and you learn, I will be a better man for my next trip down south"

Take a deep breath ... what is a miracle back home is normal here. Adjust

Thanks Zon, def adjust and adapt, that is something I am good at fortunately. I am ready to get back into the saddle, just need a little time to relax, do some things here in the US, then I am going back, I am hooked.

[Colgando]

I know this may sound strange to you but in my experience with Latinas in general is that if you come off as too interested in her, it is almost a turnoff. They like to be chased but they respond better to being ignored some themselves and end of thinking that they are missing out on a great guy. Sounds like you were a bit too serious with her from the start. The translator thing does not help either and could have put added pressure on her. You sound like you Analyze a lot and that is never a good thing when it comes to Latinas because nothing they do is rational  as we know it.

KB

I agree KB, I was too into her too quick, I need to correct that behavior, learn to control my emotions better. It is hard, I will really need to make a conscious effort to do this, but I can do it, it will be necessary for me to be successful at this.

I do analyze a lot, makes me good at my job. Latina #1 had rational moments I thought, but I was only with her for a short time in ideal situations. But I see what you are saying, I will bear that in mind. I need more experience in dealing with them over longer periods of time to fully appreciate what you are saying.

[euforia51]

I know this may sound strange to you but in my experience with Latinas in general is that if you come off as too interested in her, it is almost a turnoff.They like to be chased but they respond better to being ignored some themselves and end of thinking that they are missing out on a great guy. Sounds like you were a bit too serious with her from the start. The translator thing does not help either and could have put added pressure on her. You sound like you Analyze a lot and that is never a good thing when it comes to Latinas [insert] women because nothing they do is rational  as we know it.

Colgando, after also thinking about Latina 1, and only going on what you told us here, what KB is saying makes the most sense to me. Either something was dreadfully wrong with this girl (highly unlikely), or she got a case of cold feet and buyer's remorse; most likely because things were moving way too fast for her. Regardless, at some point during your interactions with her is where things began to go south. And unfortunately, you may never know what it was. And it could have been something you'd never even dream of in her mind.

I strike through KBs statement of Latinas and insert women because what this girl did to you, flake and disappear, is not uncommon with even American women who get cold feet, for example. Would Russian women flake and disappear? I don't know for sure, but probably. Would Asian (using the term Asian very loosely) women do it? Ask some of the guys on the Asian side. Again, I'd wager probably so.

[Colgando]

    Great report Colgando. Better luck next time.It's good you have that under your belt now when you return you will probably do better. Sounds like you met plenty of women and had several to choose from.

    I had a similar experience in Bogota. I was really into this teacher and we were novios.One day I couldn't get in touch with her. Just like Dennis mentioned I knew how Colombian women avoided confrontation so I moved on. I ended up with another novia that was awesome. About a month after I stopped hearing from the teacher she contacted me and said she had been in the hospital.She  wanted to resume our relationship but I had already found someone else. I told her the truth.I wanted to continue with the woman I was with, so I did.I married her.She is my wife now.So, the teacher losing contact with was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was too bad that the teacher was "in the hospital".I don't know if that was true or not.Anyway, it worked out for the best which will probably be the case for you. Don't let Latina#1 get you down.


         Researcher

Thanks Researcher. That is a very good lesson on how they avoid confrontation. That is very annoying but I will learn to cope with it.

Latina #1 does not have me down anymore, I got back home yesterday, pulled up to the crib and I was thinking to myself how good of a life I have here in the US. I went to my job today and thought, how good of a job I have. I am very blessed.

Funny thing today, I was chatting with one of my business partners over lunch who is an AW, I told her all about the trip, she was digging it, me dating all those women, she wants to see the pictures. We ate lunch today and we talked about relationships. She is 30, I asked her how old of a guy she would date, I said 50, she had a look of disgust on her face, I said 40, same look of disgust, I said 35, she said she could do 35.

[Colgando]

 
Yes you seem to have had a great experience as a first trip. Each time you go down you will learn more and more of the "way" that these girls think and operate. And you will learn more about yourself too. But at first it is overwhelming and impossible to know for sure which road to head down. You gotta just pick one like you did and see where it leads. But at the same time avoid painting yourself into a corner.

The good news about the girl that flaked out on you, she will probably be willing to meet up with you again down the road. Or if you met her at the mall just by chance on your next visit, don't be surprised if she just acts like nothing ever happened and you just hit it off just as well or  better with the chemistry/fun departments. But keep in mind that she showed you something about how she is with how she treated you. But keep her number, just in case. You may want to look her up some day when you are down there again and have some extra time on your hands...to go catch a movie or something. That is one thing I learned about these women, it is never officially over.

And about the other girl who was a little reserved but had a killer body, looks....and that you did not have that "blow your mind" chemistry...she may be a great candidate. My wife right now was one of those kind of girls. The chemistry was not there at first so I ended up getting with another woman, similar to your #1. And although things worked out well for awhile, we eventually went our separate ways when I finally acknowledged that she was not wife material. And now I am with the more reserved, sweet girl...who is more and more beautiful every day. And the chemistry is perfect now that the initial timidness has dissipated.

But glad to hear you had fun. Thanks for the great reports.

Thanks AB, at this point, I would not take Latina #1 very seriously, so we would probably work out better if we saw each other again, I would not be as interested in her. I hope my experience with her will teach me to control my emotions better and not get so caught up, so quick, one of my flaws as a hopeless romantic type, I always do better with the women that I am not intensely interested in, they are the ones I had the longest, most successful relationships with. I hope the memory of Latina #1 comes to the front of my mind with the next Latina I am digging, take it easy Colgando, relax, let her come to you.

Latina #2, I am going to keep in touch with her, see what happens, she is a keeper for sure.

[Colgando]

Exactly right. They are not rational at all (as a rule), especially Costenas.

One thing that you mentioned that is a pretty big red flag is when they start playing games with the cell phones. Because most likely she already had a boyfriend or even multiple guys. But it is a crazy thing, because of course you were down there dating other girls too. So it is kind of hard to dismiss someone because of that. Usually it seems like it is a back and forth thing that they will spar with you for awhile until they are ready to cut the ties to with the other guy(s).

And I would not be surprised if Jamie cut that girl from his site. I know he takes things like this seriously because he does not want the girls to be wasting the paying customers time. And if she shows herself to be disrespectful and not following the rules, he will take her off the site because she is more harm than good. I have seen him do it before.

Not rational is something I am going to have to learn to cope with, but I just need to learn how to deal with that.

She does have guy friends she says that are always trying to get with her. She said she has not had a boyfriend for over a year now, but sure she has some some boys she is fooling around with, a woman like her does not sit idle without a love interest of some kind.

I will be interested to see if he takes her down from the site, he is not ready to do that yet.

[Colgando]

Colgando,

Great report, when you have time and your mind is clear take a look at all of your dates and go back through them one at a time and see if there is anything about them that you missed and if you find you liked something about them then contact them and let them know if they are still single you would like to meet them again when you go back. the next trip will be a much better trip because you will have gotten all of the first time jitters out of your system. and all the things that seamed WOW to you will now seam normal to you do not let #1 get you down or keep you questioning yourself WHY.....where did i go wrong and so forth... you must move on and what ever happened with # 1 or whatever might happen will be for a reason... best of luck to you on your next trip......


Ray

Good advice Raycjs, all you guys are a great support group right now! After reading everyone's feedback, everything that happened is making more sense to me now.

[Colgando]

colgando, your report was stunningly honest and i liked how it was not self-serving at all! 

i agree with what you said about living in colombia and being faithful...i think it would be damn hard so i don't want to live in colombia as a married man,

I like how Jamie tried to refocus you early on when you were gabbbing with the translater about the group meeting...his attitude is most helpful when you are ready to accept it...slightly distant and focused.

Latina #2 (the coke bottle) sounded like the winner to me right from the start...it is too bad that you got yourself all wrapped up wtih Latina #1 so tightly...

The massage lady on the beach of cartagena did the same thing to me and it was also 80MIL, but i refused to pay that amount...I think I gave her 20 dollars or something like that...what a ripoff...i was also with a lady that i was utterly infatuated with on that trip but it didn't work out either, as a matter fact all i took home with me on that trip was was explosive diarrhea...
on another trip i stayed at an expensive hotel in cartagena it was called hotel americanos or something like that...it had a large private beach and there was nobody there to bother us!

i found that i turned into quite a wuss like you did  for a couple trips down there...you will learn soon how to mitigate your hormones and get over these women...you gotta adapt like that. jajaj

just forget about latina #1...very unliklely that she will ever pan out...she didn't do anything wrong....ultimately she was just not into you and the guys are saying they don't like confrontation so all of sudden 'the phones don't work'...maybe you fell to quickly for her, or who knows what doesn't matter....

i assume you are definately ready for a second trip down there! you did a damn good job all things considered...so don't feel bad or like you screwed up in any way..it is a process for most of us that are going for women as young as you are talking about...AB, has a good perspective on a lot of these younger gals...i think i went to colombia 9 times before everything aligned for me...you just gotta have fun along the way and keep learning...

thanks again for the report,

Fathertime!
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You're welcome FT, I really want to learn and be successful so I put everything out there so I can get feedback and advice and maybe others can get some encouragement or learn from my mistakes. I am getting great feedback and advice from everyone.

I have forgotten about Latina #1 now, after reading all this good feedback, I am ready to jump in for round 2. Truth be told, you guys are so supportive, I could go back next month, I am getting my mojo back, yeaaahhhh, let's go!

I agree, she was not into me anymore, whatever, I am settled with that now after reading everything you guys posted. I think I will be a better man from my experience with her. I def had a lot of fun, Latina #1 got me down which kinda of tinted everything, but I am back, looking forward to the next trip, starting the prep work now.

I looked in the 18 to 29 year old range. All the women I dated were between 23 and 27.

[Colgando]

Colgando, after also thinking about Latina 1, and only going on what you told us here, what KB is saying makes the most sense to me. Either something was dreadfully wrong with this girl (highly unlikely), or she got a case of cold feet and buyer's remorse; most likely because things were moving way too fast for her. Regardless, at some point during your interactions with her is where things began to go south. And unfortunately, you may never know what it was. And it could have been something you'd never even dream of in her mind.

I strike through KBs statement of Latinas and insert women because what this girl did to you, flake and disappear, is not uncommon with even American women who get cold feet, for example. Would Russian women flake and disappear? I don't know for sure, but probably. Would Asian (using the term Asian very loosely) women do it? Ask some of the guys on the Asian side. Again, I'd wager probably so.

Yes, one of my flaws as a hopeless romantic, way too interested, too fast, bit me again, I gotta get that under control. I think what KB said is true for women in general based on my experience, thinking back, all of my girlfriends are the ones that I was not hopelessly in love with, all the ones I was hopelessly in love with, no cigar. I gotta do better at this if I am going to capture the woman my heart desires.

All of my past girlfriends who broke-up with me told me to my face, none just fell off the grid, often times we had goodbye sex, which was fine by me at the time, hit it one last good time. This is the 1st time in my life that a woman just fell off the grid, never to be heard off or seen again, it was so unbelievable to me, but I understand now why she did that based on the feedback from everyone.

I may never know what went on in her head, whatever, you guys have filled in the blanks for me, that's good looking out, I am straight now, I feel a lot better. I was longing for understanding, I understand better now.

[kemper42]

Day 5
She told me that all she cares is that we are together on her birthday. I told her I wanted to go to Cartegena, at first she was not sure because she already had plans with her mom and family. But she blew off her friends and family to spend the day with me. Day 6 is her only day off of work, come to find out that the way she handled her friends and family in this situation is a major character flaw of hers.

Are you kidding me?  You wonder why you were dumped by #1 with this kind of self-absorbed behaviour!  She has plans for her birthday with her mom and friends but it's all about what YOU want to do.  After her friends/family evidently identify you as a selfish deadbeat, you describe her handling of the situation as "a major character flaw of hers"!

Good grief.  I think she made a great call!

[Colgando]

Are you kidding me?  You wonder why you were dumped by #1 with this kind of self-absorbed behaviour!  She has plans for her birthday with her mom and friends but it's all about what YOU want to do.  After her friends/family evidently identify you as a selfish deadbeat, you describe her handling of the situation as "a major character flaw of hers"!

Good grief.  I think she made a great call!

Wow, Kemper, your first post and you come out swinging at me. You are going to need to get your post count up and show your strips before I agree to get in the ring with you!

I advise you to start off by introducing yourself in the Intro section before you try to get in the ring?

[Kiltboy1]

Bottom Line is
You have support and help here in the forum from lots of guys that made the same mistakes. I made many but with time learned how the :Latina thinks to some extent. We are here and just ask questions

KB

[OrlandoGringo]

Colgando, do know the approximate ages of these ladies?  My guess is that a number of women in their early 20's can be a little flakey, as perhaps a number of us might have been at that age.  I hope you don't mind me asking this, how old are you? 

[Colgando]

Bottom Line is
You have support and help here in the forum from lots of guys that made the same mistakes. I made many but with time learned how the :Latina thinks to some extent. We are here and just ask questions

KB

Thanks KB, I really appreciate it. I understand clearly my mistakes of moving too fast, too serious, too quick, if I played my hand differently in this regard, I may have achieved different results, looking back, I am recalling certain things she said and did that I could have handled differently, I question them below. I will continue to adjust for that and I hope to get it right one day in the future.

Questions for the forum on best practices when dealing with latinas:

How do you deal with the irrationality of these latinas?

How do you deal with them not liking confrontation when you are in a relationship with them? Are they more confrontational in a longer, committed relationship? I am so accustomed to AW who will confront me, no problem.

Were you talking to multiple women when you were talking to either of your wives, if so, how did you deal with that with your wives?  How long did you date multiple women before you became exclusive with your wife?

How do you deal with their seemingly low self-esteem regarding their beauty? Latina #1 did not think she was all that beautiful, she commented/questioned me that there are a lot of beautiful women here in BAQ? I acknowledge her and just said yes, there are. Can I handle this differently?  

She commented to me that she did not think I would want to see her again, how best could I respond to the question? I told her that I liked spending time with her and that I thought about her, is there a better answer?

She was obsessed with her mirror, looking in it every hour or so, she would only want to take pictures when she was looking her best, what should I make of this? How should I address her regarding her beauty?

[Colgando]

Colgando, do know the approximate ages of these ladies?  My guess is that a number of women in their early 20's can be a little flakey, as perhaps a number of us might have been at that age.  I hope you don't mind me asking this, how old are you? 

It's cool Orlando, I am 29, a young buck, I have plenty of time to make this adventure work. All the women were 23 to 27 that I dated. I accepted that I am taking a risk looking in this age range, but being 29, I would be fine locking something down in the 23 to 27 age range if it was a good fit.

I am not in a rush at all. I had planned for making multiple trips, I did not think I would be a one hit wonder.

[OrlandoGringo]

Colgando, I was remiss not to tell you that your report is just awesome.  You're going to do really well at finding a good lady! 

If I was your age I too would have been seeking a lady in that age range.  I don't know that I would have been wise enough to realize that, not only would I not know what I wanted but that neither would they.     In other words, you're dealing with a flakey and flighty age group.  But what else can you do, right?  Just keep at it and weed out the bad ones.  Maybe you'll hit the bonanza on your next trip.

Until then, you might consider opening a couple of accounts with Colombian Cupid and Latin American Cupid and just see how it goes.  There are plenty of lovely ladies there too.  Who knows, maybe next time you won't need the agency. 

A little Spanish, street smarts and some carnal lust will take you far!     Good luck bro!