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Offline jm21-2

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Re: Choosing between two decent girls.
« Reply #50 on: December 06, 2009, 02:44:27 PM »
Ray,

You're probably right. I have a feeling she'll be the one dragging me along if anything.

I think somehow I'll manage sleeping in the same room as a cute girl. I was originally concerned it might damage her reputation or something but she seems more comfortable with the idea than I do.

Bcc,

I'm guessing that she makes about the same or more than I do and she's pretty good with money. I do not see her wanting to be a house-wife.  I imagine as a programmer who graduated from a good university and is fluent in Taiwanese, Mandarin, and English, that she is pretty well set as far as jobs go. Microsoft is based near where I live and there are a lot of ads looking for programmers who can speak mandarin. But anyways, that's a long ways in the future if at all.

Her dad died when she was young and her mom seems OK with the situation. The only thing she mentioned about her mom was basically I was being too indecisive on where to visit and HK is pretty boring.

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Re: Choosing between two decent girls.
« Reply #51 on: December 06, 2009, 07:23:03 PM »
From everything you have written about her, that certainly should not be a concern.



Oh, you  poor little thing! How dare her suggest such a terrifying thing! You better dump her right now…   

U had better watch out she mite try to get you drunk & take advantage of you.....he he he
just messin with ya
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Re: Choosing between two decent girls.
« Reply #52 on: December 07, 2009, 11:37:37 PM »
My style was meet many but don't jump any of them on your first trip with them. Hell if I did I might still be with the hottie in Cali. Each of us do it our own way, but jumping the girl would have made it one hell of a confusing situation and challenging situation to figure out how you really felt about her.

Anyways she sounds real nice. The only thing she's mentioned about her mother is that you are indecisive. Ya never know mom could be an interesting character (aka pain in the ass).
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Re: Choosing between two decent girls.
« Reply #52 on: December 07, 2009, 11:37:37 PM »

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Re: Choosing between two decent girls.
« Reply #53 on: December 08, 2009, 12:21:40 AM »
Haha, as can be seen from this thread, I was rather indecisive in choosing when and where to meet up and she left it all up to me with very little input. I'm not used to that really.

I agree, jumping her bones on the first trip is not a very good idea from the wife-finding standpoint.

 

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