Ray,
You're probably right. I have a feeling she'll be the one dragging me along if anything.
I think somehow I'll manage sleeping in the same room as a cute girl. I was originally concerned it might damage her reputation or something but she seems more comfortable with the idea than I do.
Bcc,
I'm guessing that she makes about the same or more than I do and she's pretty good with money. I do not see her wanting to be a house-wife. I imagine as a programmer who graduated from a good university and is fluent in Taiwanese, Mandarin, and English, that she is pretty well set as far as jobs go. Microsoft is based near where I live and there are a lot of ads looking for programmers who can speak mandarin. But anyways, that's a long ways in the future if at all.
Her dad died when she was young and her mom seems OK with the situation. The only thing she mentioned about her mom was basically I was being too indecisive on where to visit and HK is pretty boring.