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Re: " Tampo"
« Reply #25 on: January 10, 2009, 06:25:25 PM »
Hello Mr. Bear

I m happy that your home now :) Take it easy !!!

Umm Wow i was surprise when Mr. Ray say that his first wife get tampo for one and half year i think that's different tampo lol..  :)
Usually Filipina Woman Get Tampo for like 2 to 3 days.

I do get tampo sometimes......if ever that happen for sure there big reason  :o but don't stay that long because my partner know how to "loving loving" me. everytime he did that umm make me smile... ;D

when i get tampo ...i realize sometimes that he don't deserve it at all and i feel guilty inside. at that moment i do communicate with him. i do the loving loving thing too. it's give and take..!

I'm sorry I didn't see this post before mine.

I can understand the desire for pampering (lambing lambing as you might call it) but not the pain and discomfort it causes to get it.  I give it to my wife willingly without request and often as a surprise which means it came from my heart not by deceit or manipulation.  If your man isn't caring for you then wap him upside the head and have him email me for the reason.

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« Reply #26 on: January 11, 2009, 06:28:11 PM »
When a woman is angry with a man, she gives him the silent treatment and refuses to speak or even look it him for a long period of time.

Two weeks, A year and a half? Wow. I thought we were talking about a couple of hours here. 


hi Jeff,

two weeks is quite a long period... when im angry, i'll leave the place and drive for about 1-2hours and come back home like nothing happen... i'll try to find a right time to talk about the problem...

i have to admit that i can be a bit violence only when i cant control my anger but it only happens once in a while... like what u see in Mr & Mrs Smith... :P


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« Reply #27 on: January 11, 2009, 09:10:30 PM »
Hey Bear,

I am happy that you are out of the hospital and it wasn't serious! The headache from that damn nitro drip will drive you out of your mind!

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« Reply #27 on: January 11, 2009, 09:10:30 PM »

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« Reply #28 on: January 11, 2009, 09:13:01 PM »
1 of the ladies that i am chating with told me that she hopes she does not have to go to work in a bar.
                                                         RED FLAG ???


Hey piglett,

I agree with Ray! She is probably already working in  a bar.

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« Reply #29 on: January 11, 2009, 09:19:00 PM »
My wife is not a filipina, but is Asian and she, like most Asians, gets quiet when she gets angry. I never thought of it as an evil, manipulative technique, just a response to anger. It's a lot better than screaming and throwing dishes. (I'm sure Dave will have something to say about that one.) I get quiet and withdrawn when I get angry too, but sometimes after one outburst. It's a social response in Asia IMO, where people are taught that emotions are not to be displayed in public, neither good ones (PDAs) or bad ones.



Hey Jeff,

I agree! Sure it can be annoying, but is much better than what I've experienced from my ex and many others of her ethnicity!!! A short tampo is much more civil and classy!

Dave
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« Reply #30 on: January 12, 2009, 05:20:27 PM »
HE HE HE now she says she is in Manila
I thought she was from a province
good thing she was only plan B
they are eazy to find
plan A is still looking really good


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Re: " Tampo"
« Reply #31 on: January 12, 2009, 05:54:23 PM »

hi Jeff,

two weeks is quite a long period... when im angry, i'll leave the place and drive for about 1-2hours and come back home like nothing happen... i'll try to find a right time to talk about the problem...

i have to admit that i can be a bit violence only when i cant control my anger but it only happens once in a while... like what u see in Mr & Mrs Smith... :P


regards,
Dinda


Uhhh didn't they try to kill each other in that movie? Maybe you'd better warn off any potential suitors:

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« Reply #32 on: January 12, 2009, 06:29:19 PM »
hi Jeff,

in my case, i dun really use all that guns and bombs... ;D i just started my Aikido Shudokan class (its amazing, i love the uniform), and i already quit my kickboxing class... so, i might use all those techniques i learned on my opponent... LOL!!


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« Reply #33 on: January 12, 2009, 10:33:31 PM »
Tampo is all about wanting attention. I admit I had major tampo once when I'm pregnant must be hormonal change.When I was 5 months pregnant with my son now 6 years old one night I had tampo just decided I wanna be in Tampo mood.I get up in bed and sleep on living room floor hoping my husband would notice I was gone.I wait and wait and he never wake up.I was so mad lol so I went outside and decided I will sleep on the car.I know for sure in the middle of the night he will use the bathroom and he will surely notice I'm not in bed with him.Wrong!It was fall and weather is cold.Good thing I had big blanket in there and pillow.I am not worry about the cold but worry about the aswang hahahah.I keep thingkin I bet the aswang is watching me and maybe start eating my baby.I wish I am more prefer for this I forgot the garlic.I was to afraid to get out of the car so I stay there.Finally I fall asleep and wake up the next morning refresh.Talk about my body was cold.Guess what I even lock the door when I went outside good thing I found the key.When I open the door my husband is in the kitchen dringking coffee and I walked in and greet him good morning and he said Oh you went for early walk.Would you beleive he never even know I'm having tampo and he sleep through it.Never even notice I was gone.After that I bow myself not to have tampo again since its so useless.
He was laughing so hard when I tell him not long ago about that tampo episode.
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Re: " Tampo"
« Reply #34 on: January 13, 2009, 02:30:45 AM »

Hey Raquel, that's funny!  ;D

I don't think you have to worry too much about the aswang here in the States. They don't issue visas to aswangs and they never pass the medical exam anyway. It must be that green blood that gives them away every time.

Did you know that Capiz has an annual aswang festival now?

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« Reply #35 on: January 13, 2009, 03:56:35 AM »
Guys, Raqual just gave us amunition to fight tampo...reverse psychology!  Her husband must be smart guy!

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Re: " Tampo"
« Reply #36 on: January 13, 2009, 08:36:56 AM »
Ahhhhhhhh Yessssssss... The dreaded and feared "Tampo" :P

All I know is that when it comes to Tampo at my house, it usually means I did something dumb and deserve it :P

It's rare, but Gerlie will occasionally clam up and then I get Leather Necks list in order, ver batim :P

The biggest thing with her is when I yell.  I don't think I'm yelling, but if she thinks I am yelling at her WATCH OUT!  I try to explain that I come from a loud family and that yelling was just communication with my mother and I, but she's not a huge fan of it.  She has so few rules, I try to accommodate.  Sometimes it just happens though :-[  I'm getting better.

With Gerlie any Tampo, justified or not - usually justified :P - is followed by guilt and some quality makeup snuggling.  I guess you only need to worry about Tampo if it seems your lady enjoys being mad at you.  Luckily for me, mine doesn't :D

Bear... glad to hear they sprung ya brother!  You better take care of yourself, we need you too!

Keep the faith!

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Re: " Tampo"
« Reply #37 on: January 14, 2009, 09:31:43 AM »
I don't think you have to worry too much about the aswang here in the States. They don't issue visas to aswangs and they never pass the medical exam anyway. It must be that green blood that gives them away every time.
What with chupacabras, Big Foots, and assorted giant wild animal monsters, why would we need to import any more foreign monsters?
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« Reply #38 on: January 14, 2009, 06:02:17 PM »
 :Dwtf they are importing chupacabras now!!!!  now i need to lojack my goat
I drank what!!!!!!

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« Reply #39 on: January 15, 2009, 04:17:30 PM »
:Dwtf they are importing chupacabras now!!!!  now i need to lojack my goat

Hey evoltnvii,

Very true! There are many chupacabras in my area! I hope we don't run out of goats!

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« Reply #40 on: January 15, 2009, 04:21:05 PM »
The biggest thing with her is when I yell.  I don't think I'm yelling, but if she thinks I am yelling at her WATCH OUT!  I try to explain that I come from a loud family and that yelling was just communication with my mother and I, but she's not a huge fan of it.  She has so few rules, I try to accommodate.  Sometimes it just happens though :-[  I'm getting better.

Keep the faith!

H

Hi H,

We must be related!  ;D

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« Reply #41 on: January 15, 2009, 05:42:25 PM »
Hi H,

We must be related!  ;D

D

you must be my brother from another mother :)
i am always told that i am loud ;D
but i don't think i am loud at all
« Last Edit: January 15, 2009, 05:44:48 PM by piglett »
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« Reply #42 on: January 15, 2009, 06:52:34 PM »
you must be my brother from another mother :)
i am always told that i am loud ;D
but i don't think i am loud at all

Hey piglett,

Maybe!  ;D I walk into an Asian restaurant and hear myself talking and no one else. I go into a Spanish restaurant and  can't hear my own thoughts!  ;D

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« Reply #43 on: January 15, 2009, 07:16:09 PM »
It must be a common characteristic of 'we' who become AW haters.  To be loud.  Probably because it was the only way we could hear ourselves in 'discussions' with the 'ex'.

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