One of my good friend is marrying a "BRIDEZILLA".

[kojak]

 I have friend that's engaged to one of the biggest bi*** (female dog) I've ever met in my life.  She's a real flesh and blood BRIDEZILLA, everything about her bothers me, From the irrational behaviour, constantly berating him in from of everybody, pushing my buttons because I don't take sh**t from her. She is also a control freak, thinks she know everything just because she graduated from college, hell I graduated from the same college.

 At first when I met her I was very supportive of my friend new relationship, hell I even let her come to my house several times but of course she never had anything nice to say about me or my place. She is the type of person that would smile at you while telling you to eat sh**t, I really can't stand this girl. We've been friends for over 15 years. Thing is that I was not the only one who has reservations regarding the girl, though his parents and other friends have the same opinion about this girl....he kind of got pissed at me the other when I told him "I pity the poor Schlep who is getting stuck with this one".

Oh well sometimes you learn the hard way, like my granpapa said,  "Then there was a man who said, "I never knew what real
 happiness was until I got married; then it was too late."

[robert angel]

He's probably been with this broad so long he doesn't know anything else and feels he 'has to settle down'.  I was sort of that way around age 30--very dumb mindset that fogs out logic sometimes.

It will probably eventually get intolerable and go the sad way most marriages do....

[Gato4Astrid]

Female dog or not, your friend is already attracted to her!

I was attracted to my ex-girlfriend (I was engaged to her) from Bogota whom I knew she had told many lies during our relationships, and it took long time to get out of this relationships because, simply I was very attracted to her! 

Physical attraction is very powerful thing.   

How did the relationships end?  It wasn't until I caught her in 'Badoo' advertising that she was looking for a boyfriend.  She accidently invited to my 'work' e-mail  (did not invite to my personal e-mail). 

STILL ....It couldn't end the relationship! 

LATER ON .....  A friend of her friend wrote me a letter in the Facebook telling me all about her and what kind of person she really is.   I had told to her best friend all about it.  Apparently, she had told her what I have told her.   

FINALLY …  She was really upset about it, and had ended the relationships with me .. Deleted everything. 
GUESS WHAT?  I felt better !!!  Maybe, deep down inside me, I was waiting for her to end the relationship !!!

To get to the point, you cannot break the relationship up, but your friend must 'wake up' from physical attraction thing.     I am sure that deep down, your friend knows that she is a female dog, but it will take time before he starts looking for a female cat.

[kojak]

He's probably been with this broad so long he doesn't know anything else and feels he 'has to settle down'.  I was sort of that way around age 30--very dumb mindset that fogs out logic sometimes.

It will probably eventually get intolerable and go the sad way most marriages do....

Tell you the truth Robert, if it wasn't for the fact that he's like a brother to me I wouldn't care, I feel a moral obligation to speak the truth because if I was in his place, I would want my friends to speak the truth regardless of what happens. We call my friend the gentle giant he's 6 ft 5 in and weight about 250-260 he played college ball until he blew his knee out. My friend has always been kind of shy around females, always the gentlemen, never heard him say a bad word about any females around me anyway. I think his fiancee take this as a weakness to exploit any mistreat him.

Also she's such a dam hypocrite,  many of times we've been watching a game or just hanging out and she's bitching like crazy calling, leaving text, all sort of stuff, even drove down to the sports bar one day just to bitch him out for not answering his phone.... But try to tell her something when she's with her girlfriends that's sacrilege. She can have guy friends (gay or not) no problems but he can't even talk to another girl without she flipping out, I truly believe that she has some kind of Emotional and behavioral disorders, maybe even borderline personality disorder. A women can not act the way she acts and be normal, I can't believe that.

Quote,
 "Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman (wife) who'll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you're in the wrong house, that's what it means."
George Burns.

Quote,
"We sleep in separate rooms. We have dinner apart. We take separate vacations. We’re doing everything we can to keep our marriage together."
Rodney Dangerfield

[Woody]

So tell him.

I know you don't want to ruin the friendship but if you care enough about him, it would be worth it.

Hell, open with a statement to that effect just so he knows how serious you are. Re-enforce how you are his friend, etc, etc. AFTER you do all that, lay out the bridezilla facts.

Yeah it is hard, yeah it might be painful and kill your friendship, but is it worth the risk? If so, do it.


Personally, I have already told my family to tell me if I fall for bridezilla, and I think they will.

[kojak]

Thanks for your advise Woody and gato, the wedding its coming up in august so I got sometime, plus his family is putting a lot of pressure on him also. It might back fire, he can be as stubborn as a mule. I don't know what kind of santeria she put on him, she's Cuban but was born and raised here in the states.

The thing that really worries me is that he might loose it one of these days and hurt that gurl. He's never done anything like that but I know we all have a breaking point, you can only take so much crap. Sometimes I tell myself that he's a grown man and he has to live with the consequences of his actions, is just part of life.