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14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« on: April 08, 2020, 08:47:57 PM »
In the last hours the Metropolitan Police of Valle de Aburrá fined 14 women who were caught in the El Poblado neighborhood of Medellín, violating the mandatory isolation decreed by the National Government.

As detailed by Colonel Oscar Santamaría, deputy commander of the MEVAL Police, the community denounced the fact through a call to 123, so the uniformed officers made a presence at the site and verified that it was a group of sex workers.

The women were allegedly hired by a group of foreigners who were waiting for them in an apartment located in this area of Medellín.
(best news ive heard all week lol  ;D ;D )


www.minuto30.com/el-poblado-multaron-a-14-trabajadoras-sexuales-por-violar-el-aislamiento-obligatorio/1005934/
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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #1 on: April 09, 2020, 09:12:03 AM »
So what happened to the stupid foreigners who hired them?

Did they get.fined?

Did they ship them.out of the country? (I doubt that..since there are no flights)

Sometimes I dont think minutos30 is a very reliable news source..




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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #2 on: April 09, 2020, 10:20:06 AM »
So what happened to the stupid foreigners who hired them?

Did they get.fined?

Did they ship them.out of the country? (I doubt that..since there are no flights)

Sometimes I dont think minutos30 is a very reliable news source..

"Allegedly there were Foreigners in an apartment near by waiting to hire them".

If there were foreigners near by waiting to hire them then the street walkers would have been with the foreigners and not on the street getting a ticket from the police jajaja

Fake news

I have no idea why Mudd reports stuff like this here....some times I think he gets his boards mixed up LOL
« Last Edit: April 09, 2020, 10:34:40 AM by Calipro »

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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #3 on: April 09, 2020, 10:39:03 AM »
"Allegedly there were Foreigners in an apartment near by waiting to hire them".

If there were foreigners near by waiting to hire them then the street walkers would have been with the foreigners and not on the street getting a ticket from the police jajaja

Fake news

I have no idea why Mudd reports stuff like this here....some times I think he gets his boards mixed up LOL
god your dense  lol , as you well know, and 100% sure you have done before,  the girls go to your apt, as in this case, would assume it was  3-4 gringos on a sex tour in medlelin, stuck in a apt and called a service, not hard to figure out  Einstein, :o :o

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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #4 on: April 09, 2020, 11:03:58 AM »
god your dense  lol , as you well know, and 100% sure you have done before,  the girls go to your apt, as in this case, would assume it was  3-4 gringos on a sex tour in medlelin, stuck in a apt and called a service, not hard to figure out  Einstein, :o :o

I'll defer to the expert on this one
Jajaja

But 14 hookers for 3 to 4 gringos seems like a lot.....can't imagine what that would cost.

Too bad the cops fined them as fleet of cabs showed up all at the same time

Hmmm maybe the came in a bus jajaja
Sounds fake to me
But what do I know...you are the expert

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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #5 on: April 09, 2020, 11:36:58 AM »
So what happened to the stupid foreigners who hired them?

Did they get.fined?

Did they ship them.out of the country? (I doubt that..since there are no flights)

Sometimes I dont think minutos30 is a very reliable news source..

I imagine like most places, the johns are viewed more along the lines of 'valued foreign tourist$' and in a number of ways, perhaps even whilst shopping and working out, are exempted from rules applicable to more 'locals.'
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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #6 on: April 09, 2020, 11:59:16 AM »
I imagine like most places, the johns are viewed more along the lines of 'valued foreign tourist$' and in a number of ways, perhaps even whilst shopping and working out, are exempted from rules applicable to more 'locals.'

Gringo johns have a target on their backs here.

The police here would love to find gringos that are doing anything even remotely improper just so they can try to shake them down

That's why the article makes no sense
If there were gringos to be found then they would have found them

I don't know any gringos here that are stupid enough to let 14 hookers in their apartment
Because the chances of something really horrible happening would be extremely high

When you think about it one of the best case scenarios  would be the police showing up to shake them down

But it is obviously fake news
« Last Edit: April 09, 2020, 12:07:21 PM by Calipro »

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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #7 on: April 09, 2020, 12:36:44 PM »
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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #8 on: April 09, 2020, 04:06:36 PM »

I don't know any gringos here that are stupid enough to let 14 hookers in their apartment


Gee wiz, you guys have NO sense of adventure--Gimme a weekend, 14 hotties, a nice hotel, along with a quart of viagra, and I'd have a GREAT time!
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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #9 on: April 09, 2020, 04:10:47 PM »
Gee wiz, you guys have NO sense of adventure--Gimme a weekend, 14 hotties, a nice hotel, along with a quart of viagra, and I'd have a GREAT time!

I take that back ...I know of one LOL

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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #10 on: April 09, 2020, 10:10:41 PM »
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=t9X4rNSR-d8

Here is a news clip taking about 8 prepagos and 6 guys that were fined inside an apartment in el poblado

The only way someone could be fined inside is if they didn't live there ....it was probably rented by the 8 prepagos so they would have a place to invite the johns and I guarantee you none of the guys fined were gringos or they would have explicitly said so instead of just saying that someone said the place had been frequented by foreigners

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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #11 on: April 10, 2020, 11:27:12 AM »
"Allegedly there were Foreigners in an apartment near by waiting to hire them".

If there were foreigners near by waiting to hire them then the street walkers would have been with the foreigners and not on the street getting a ticket from the police jajaja

Fake news

I have no idea why Mudd reports stuff like this here....some times I think he gets his boards mixed up LOL


I told him on another site  if he posted Minuto30 crap on this site , you would be on his A$$ and sure enough thats  exactly what happened. LOL


On another  Forum site , some other guy posted some dubious  30minuto crap, giving some crazy story about a gringo and a prepago (cant remember details ) quoting some aleged Medellin Cop (Seargent Diego Morales or some stupid made up name) with very scant and dubious details.


On the other site they post Minuto30 excerts all the time ..and I have only seen one article backed up by Caracol , RCN or El Tiempo.


The only worse Colombian news site is that Tabloid Q`Hubo..which all the Colombianas read to generate their chismes
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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #12 on: April 10, 2020, 11:37:50 AM »
I'll defer to the expert on this one
Jajaja

But 14 hookers for 3 to 4 gringos seems like a lot.....can't imagine what that would cost.

Too bad the cops fined them as fleet of cabs showed up all at the same time

Hmmm maybe the came in a bus jajaja
Sounds fake to me
But what do I know...you are the expert


I think they are all in Lock down mode as well. But if you could round up 14 it would be very cheap, I imagine. Lots of discounts.


Dont know, I certainly am no"expert" jajajaja just what I heard through the "grapevine".


I actually agree with you, very dubious tale coming from a dubious source (Not referring to MUDD - Referring to 30minutos).


People are stupid but not tHAT stupid..and not that many people at the same time. This is a particularally unbelievable news post at this time.


Funny how most people just lap this stuff up and believe it without asking logical common sense  questions.

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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #13 on: April 10, 2020, 11:46:15 AM »
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=t9X4rNSR-d8

Here is a news clip taking about 8 prepagos and 6 guys that were fined inside an apartment in el poblado

The only way someone could be fined inside is if they didn't live there ....it was probably rented by the 8 prepagos so they would have a place to invite the johns and I guarantee you none of the guys fined were gringos or they would have explicitly said so instead of just saying that someone said the place had been frequented by foreigners


Well something happened ..but they sure twisted things around, whatever happened

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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #14 on: April 10, 2020, 11:47:14 AM »

I told him on another site  if he posted Minuto30 crap on this site , you would be on his A$$ and sure enough thats  exactly what happened. LOL


On another  Forum site , some other guy posted some dubious  30minuto crap, giving some crazy story about a gringo and a prepago (cant remember details ) quoting some aleged Medellin Cop (Seargent Diego Morales or some stupid made up name) with very scant and dubious details.


On the other site they post Minuto30 excerts all the time ..and I have only seen one article backed up by Caracol , RCN or El Tiempo.


The only worse Colombian news site is that Tabloid Q`Hubo..which all the Colombianas read to generate their chismes


It's great stuff. If anything brings people in here to view, maybe even sign up, it's train wrecks and lurid stories involving sex and hot chicks. Add drugs, crime and scandal, and they eat at the trough even more.


The source --how 'legitimate' or not--fake news, reality--is increasingly moot. It's a bit like ancient Rome--bread and circuses---we just want tawdry free entertainment.


We're hitting on it right now, as the '# times read' add up...
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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #15 on: April 10, 2020, 11:53:30 AM »

I told him on another site  if he posted Minuto30 crap on this site , you would be on his A$$ and sure enough thats  exactly what happened. LOL


On another  Forum site , some other guy posted some dubious  30minuto crap, giving some crazy story about a gringo and a prepago (cant remember details ) quoting some aleged Medellin Cop (Seargent Diego Morales or some stupid made up name) with very scant and dubious details.


On the other site they post Minuto30 excerts all the time ..and I have only seen one article backed up by Caracol , RCN or El Tiempo.


The only worse Colombian news site is that Tabloid Q`Hubo..which all the Colombianas read to generate their chismes

Maybe the tabloids in Colombia get away with printing crazy BS the same way the American tabloids do.

According to the the American tabloids....they are exempt from lawsuits because no reasonable person would believe them jajaja

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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #16 on: April 10, 2020, 11:59:06 AM »

I think they are all in Lock down mode as well. But if you could round up 14 it would be very cheap, I imagine. Lots of discounts.


Dont know, I certainly am no"expert" jajajaja just what I heard through the "grapevine".



So howz it really work? Are they 'cheaper by the dozen '?  Can ya send me any coupons??
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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #17 on: April 10, 2020, 02:54:29 PM »
So howz it really work? Are they 'cheaper by the dozen '?  Can ya send me any coupons??

Dont know..just supply and demand..my friend said a taxi driver told him.

On the other hand maybe the price eent up.because too few Are available because of lockdownn
 and the risk of a 900000 cop is too much to risk for them.

Which brings up another topic for discussion..it will be a.lot harder for guys to travel here or anywhere to.pickup a " bride" or whatever for quite a while because of flight restrictions..and even after that because he gals will be extremely timid of getting close to foreigners from virus hotspots like the US.

But that would apply to dating and romance in general.

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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #18 on: April 10, 2020, 03:08:38 PM »
Dont know..just supply and demand..my friend said a taxi driver told him.

On the other hand maybe the price eent up.because too few Are available because of lockdownn
 and the risk of a 900000 cop is too much to risk for them.

Which brings up another topic for discussion..it will be a.lot harder for guys to travel here or anywhere to.pickup a " bride" or whatever for quite a while because of flight restrictions..and even after that because he gals will be extremely timid of getting close to foreigners from virus hotspots like the US.

But that would apply to dating and romance in general.


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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #19 on: April 12, 2020, 10:05:57 AM »
from my friend who deals with a lot of dumb gringos in medellin and also my  lawyer. contact them directly if you want.their wahtsapp conversions are pretty clear.
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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #20 on: April 12, 2020, 12:48:18 PM »
from my friend who deals with a lot of dumb gringos in medellin and also my  lawyer. contact them directly if you want.their wahtsapp conversions are pretty clear.
https://lawyerscolombia.com/es/esteban-rada/

https://www.elcolombiano.com/antioquia/seguridad/policia-sanciona-a-14-personas-que-estaban-de-rumba-en-una-casa-hotel-de-el-poblado-durante-cuarentena-por-coronavirus-AM12781177

“Todos los infractores eran colombianos, solo el dueño del hostal era de nacionalidad americana, pero no se encontraba allí”, precisó Duarte."

I think I'll take the newspapers account

Done of the quarantine violators were foreigners

"El oficial aclaró que no es verdad que la fiesta se realizaba con extranjeros"


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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #21 on: April 13, 2020, 09:03:15 AM »
Since the news --- the drivel the media sends out is mono subject--even sports news is kaput, this is interesting entertainment and hundreds of views support that.


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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #22 on: April 13, 2020, 08:16:35 PM »
Who cares if they were locals or foreigners...


I guy could be with just  one and say it was his "girlfriend"..
You are allowed to have immediate family to visit you


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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #23 on: April 14, 2020, 10:41:13 AM »
Who cares if they were locals or foreigners...


I guy could be with just  one and say it was his "girlfriend"..
You are allowed to have immediate family to visit you

Mudd cares
When he thought it was gringos that were fined...he said it was the best news he heard all week

No wonder anything he posts here is questionable .....he certainly isn't of a mind to actually help any gringo with good advice that is for sure .....Mudd is the embodiment of fake news or rather news with an agenda....which can be summed up as ..."Gringos stay out of Colombia" and leave it for me LOL

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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #24 on: April 14, 2020, 12:12:40 PM »
Mudd cares
When he thought it was gringos that were fined...he said it was the best news he heard all week

No wonder anything he posts here is questionable .....he certainly isn't of a mind to actually help any gringo with good advice that is for sure .....Mudd is the embodiment of fake news or rather news with an agenda....which can be summed up as ..."Gringos stay out of Colombia" and leave it for me LOL

Who cares who cares? If it's kind of wishing there weren't so many gringos around, 'muddying' up the water, I can relate.

Flights allowing, I'll be staying for close to a month in Davao City, Philippines at our house this summer.

There's a lot more new malls and cool places, places where the locals go, than before. Better beaches, pools....but thereabouts, compared to Manila, it still has that simpler, easier to work 'provincial' vibe going on.

Can't last forever...

But I am told there's already more white guys than ever before and before there were almost none.

It's like the bloom's off the rose a bit.

Same, only different, in remote Key West, Florida.  I recall forty+ years in funky Old Town Key West, life wayyy before any mainstream food or grocery chains opened.

When we sold the house, KW was a homogenized swarm of cruise shippers and other tacky tourists and Duvall St was a sorry sea of selfie sticks and T shirt shops.

Yeah, sometimes I wish they'd keep it 'just that way' for me, myself and I.

And I especially get a kick out of being such a 'novelty' --a walking, talking blue eyed "Kano catch" to the women in my wife's country. Maybe that's why she always has her brothers going along with me wherever I go!!
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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #25 on: April 14, 2020, 12:20:47 PM »
Who cares who cares? If it's kind of wishing there weren't so many gringos around, 'muddying' up the water, I can relate.

Flights allowing, I'll be staying for close to a month in Davao City, Philippines at our house this summer.

There's a lot more new malls and cool places, places where the locals go, than before. Better beaches, pools....but thereabouts, compared to Manila, it still has that simpler, easier to work 'provincial' vibe going on.

Can't last forever...

But I am told there's already more white guys than ever before and before there were almost none.

It's like the bloom's off the rose a bit.

Same, only different, in remote Key West, Florida.  I recall forty+ years in funky Old Town Key West, life wayyy before any mainstream food or grocery chains opened.

When we sold the house, KW was a homogenized swarm of cruise shippers and other tacky tourists and Duvall St was a sorry sea of selfie sticks and T shirt shops.

Yeah, sometimes I wish they'd keep it 'just that way' for me, myself and I.

And I especially get a kick out of being such a 'novelty' --a walking, talking blue eyed "Kano catch" to the women in my wife's country. Maybe that's why she always has her brothers going along with me wherever I go!!

Mudd cares obviously.

But aside from that ...Do you think maybe you could talk Mudd in to moving  to the Philippines.....I think Angeles City might be up his alley jajaja



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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #26 on: April 14, 2020, 03:23:46 PM »
Mudd cares obviously.

But aside from that ...Do you think maybe you could talk Mudd in to moving  to the Philippines.....I think Angeles City might be up his alley jajaja


A LOT of guys find Angeles, on the biggest of the 7100+ islands, 'up their alley' alright--it's jaded--'sin city' and gets a lot of 'talent' from nearby Manila. Even the province girls learn real fast once they move to Angeles. I think the days where if you paid for a woman's company there and weren't happy, -- she didn't charge you, those days are gone. But I'm pretty sure their 'work ethic' is still pretty good.


Davao's on the 2nd largest island and the one that's farthest away from Angeles. Doesn't even have a proper red light district. But yet it paradoxically at least doubles in population size everyday with work and what not influxing in, becoming the second largest city in the 105 million person nation, by day. A lotta eye candy like honey bees in a hive.


And there's a lot raven haired morenas--lithe, nubile and curious ---and not nearly as jaded as Angeles, there. If you're halfway nice and not a perv, almost any American has half a chance thereabouts--without p4p even being necessary. Like I've said before, it's hunting for a particular sort of game, requiring certain skill sets and equipment.


But if you like Angeles, humpity hump and have the money, Makati--the financial, shopping and sexual center of Manila--really for the Philippines, is what most guys in a hurry go for. So many hot women, it'll burn your eyes. And even a native born and raised there will tell you how hard it is to tell the Ladyboys, TGs etc from the 'normal' working gals.
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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #27 on: April 14, 2020, 06:22:13 PM »

A LOT of guys find Angeles, on the biggest of the 7100+ islands, 'up their alley' alright--it's jaded--'sin city' and gets a lot of 'talent' from nearby Manila. Even the province girls learn real fast once they move to Angeles. I think the days where if you paid for a woman's company there and weren't happy, -- she didn't charge you, those days are gone. But I'm pretty sure their 'work ethic' is still pretty good.


Davao's on the 2nd largest island and the one that's farthest away from Angeles. Doesn't even have a proper red light district. But yet it paradoxically at least doubles in population size everyday with work and what not influxing in, becoming the second largest city in the 105 million person nation, by day. A lotta eye candy like honey bees in a hive.


And there's a lot raven haired morenas--lithe, nubile and curious ---and not nearly as jaded as Angeles, there. If you're halfway nice and not a perv, almost any American has half a chance thereabouts--without p4p even being necessary. Like I've said before, it's hunting for a particular sort of game, requiring certain skill sets and equipment.


But if you like Angeles, humpity hump and have the money, Makati--the financial, shopping and sexual center of Manila--really for the Philippines, is what most guys in a hurry go for. So many hot women, it'll burn your eyes. And even a native born and raised there will tell you how hard it is to tell the Ladyboys, TGs etc from the 'normal' working gals.
Yeah I caught on to the PI too late. When a filipina coworker a few years ago told me she liked my big Italian nose,  I realized I would have done pretty well as a single guy over there...

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« Reply #28 on: April 14, 2020, 06:53:34 PM »
Yeah I caught on to the PI too late. When a filipina coworker a few years ago told me she liked my big Italian nose,  I realized I would have done pretty well as a single guy over there...

Mambo every guy does well in the Philippines.

If you are really attracted to Filipinas then going to the Philippines is  no brainer..

I know a guy like me that said he wasn't overly attracted to Filipinas but he still had a good time in the Philippines

I said I thought you didn't really get in to Filipinas and he told me he didn't but that there are so many single women out in the clubs that it would be impossible not to find at least one that you liked

He told me that if you go out in Medellin you might see a few hundred single women out on a Friday or Saturday night

In the Philippines he said you will see thousands of single women out.

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« Reply #29 on: April 14, 2020, 07:06:31 PM »
Mambo every guy does well in the Philippines.

If you are really attracted to Filipinas then going to the Philippines is  no brainer..
Yeah I'm married to a Colombiana but what I mean is I didn't realize the PI was a goldmine until fairly recently...  If I were ever single again,  a dark skinned filipina would float my boat...

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« Reply #30 on: April 14, 2020, 08:38:12 PM »
Yeah I'm married to a Colombiana but what I mean is I didn't realize the PI was a goldmine until fairly recently...  If I were ever single again,  a dark skinned filipina would float my boat...

I think I was in my early 20"s when I first saw a cherry blossoms catalog in the mail

And wasn't hard to hook up with them even before the internet took over
I was my understanding that Filipinas would write hundreds of guys at a time to increase the odds of at least one guy showing up


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« Reply #31 on: April 14, 2020, 10:08:03 PM »
I think I was in my early 20"s when I first saw a cherry blossoms catalog in the mail

And wasn't hard to hook up with them even before the internet took over
I was my understanding that Filipinas would write hundreds of guys at a time to increase the odds of at least one guy showing up




It's not as opportune as it once was. I was on the what's now a Cupid site, (was Filipina Heart previously), as well as on Cherry Blossoms. One time, I foolishly mentioned online when I was coming and where I was staying,


The hotel lobby was full of young women, some with their Mothers, all trying to get my attention, I felt like a rock star.


My wife was a virgin when I met her and she was raised by educated parents. They looked at sexuality in an open minded, humorous way, but from where my wife came from, virginity was serious. Not as much anymore, much less so in the cities...


Even though they grew up on a farm, they were exposed to American TV and culture, at least USA culture from a TV perspective.


That made a big impression on her, and much of what she expected turned out to be untrue. ("I thought everything was bigger") A big impression came from the Beverly Hills 90120 TV series. She loved that show!


But I'll forever be thankful for those wholesome white Mormon missionary boys, They--mostly 18 to young 20's in age, would ride into the small, remote barangay village from many, many miles away, trying to win converts. I still marvel at the distance. They were so different---handsome, polite, so neatly dressed, in their black pants, white shirt and neck ties. My wife, rather uncharacteristically for her, decided at an early age that her dream guy--I guess the 'Ken' Barbie doll guy many USA girls grow up dreaming to marry, would be a white, blue eyed dream boat of a guy, like those American Mormon missionary fellows.


How she--a very cute, level headed, well educated girl; ended up with me--and she was just under half my age when we finally married, I'm not fully certain, but I thank my lucky stars!!!


Having been raised with Latina family members and dated my fair share as teen and into my twenties, I still think the biggest difference is temperment. Latinas are just generally more hot tempered. Filipinas--a lot of them are superstitious and a lot have an awful problem with jealousy, but I think overall, they're just easier to get along with long term. I think with both, when things get rough, (and with almost anyone worth having, they occasionally will) great sex makes things better in a hurry. I bet during these quarantine times, sex is one of few things keeping us from totally losing it.


As with so many things in life and love, "Your mileage may vary" But personally-- I just can't deal with a whole lot of drama.
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« Reply #32 on: April 15, 2020, 03:09:02 PM »



It's not as opportune as it once was. I was on the what's now a Cupid site, (was Filipina Heart previously), as well as on Cherry Blossoms. One time, I foolishly mentioned online when I was coming and where I was staying,


The hotel lobby was full of young women, some with their Mothers, all trying to get my attention, I felt like a rock star.


My wife was a virgin when I met her and she was raised by educated parents. They looked at sexuality in an open minded, humorous way, but from where my wife came from, virginity was serious. Not as much anymore, much less so in the cities...


Even though they grew up on a farm, they were exposed to American TV and culture, at least USA culture from a TV perspective.


That made a big impression on her, and much of what she expected turned out to be untrue. ("I thought everything was bigger") A big impression came from the Beverly Hills 90120 TV series. She loved that show!


But I'll forever be thankful for those wholesome white Mormon missionary boys, They--mostly 18 to young 20's in age, would ride into the small, remote barangay village from many, many miles away, trying to win converts. I still marvel at the distance. They were so different---handsome, polite, so neatly dressed, in their black pants, white shirt and neck ties. My wife, rather uncharacteristically for her, decided at an early age that her dream guy--I guess the 'Ken' Barbie doll guy many USA girls grow up dreaming to marry, would be a white, blue eyed dream boat of a guy, like those American Mormon missionary fellows.


How she--a very cute, level headed, well educated girl; ended up with me--and she was just under half my age when we finally married, I'm not fully certain, but I thank my lucky stars!!!


Having been raised with Latina family members and dated my fair share as teen and into my twenties, I still think the biggest difference is temperment. Latinas are just generally more hot tempered. Filipinas--a lot of them are superstitious and a lot have an awful problem with jealousy, but I think overall, they're just easier to get along with long term. I think with both, when things get rough, (and with almost anyone worth having, they occasionally will) great sex makes things better in a hurry. I bet during these quarantine times, sex is one of few things keeping us from totally losing it.


As with so many things in life and love, "Your mileage may vary" But personally-- I just can't deal with a whole lot of drama.

I don't think many guys here can relate to meeting a 20 something year old virgin and becoming their wife's first and  only sex partner.

Was marring a virgin a goal of yours  or was it just a coincidence that she happened to be a virgin?


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« Reply #33 on: April 15, 2020, 04:49:02 PM »
I don't think many guys here can relate to meeting a 20 something year old virgin and becoming their wife's first and  only sex partner.

Was marring a virgin a goal of yours  or was it just a coincidence that she happened to be a virgin?

Total, lucky coincidence. I highly recommend the experience, including the lack of experience on the lady's part.

I'd rather be 1st.
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« Reply #34 on: April 15, 2020, 05:00:54 PM »
Total, lucky coincidence. I highly recommend the experience, including the lack of experience on the lady's part.

I'd rather be 1st.

What experience...The experience of .....living with a woman that only knows what sex is like with you?

What is it like?

I was only with one virgin in my life and it was an experience I would have rather forgot.

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« Reply #35 on: April 15, 2020, 05:50:49 PM »

Cuba seems to be like the Philipines..vis-a-vis the number of desperate women looking for foreigners


Havent been there for years, but since Castro let them have access to the internet, they seem to have suddenly  taken over the Latin dating sites.




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« Reply #36 on: April 15, 2020, 07:11:07 PM »
Cuba seems to be like the Philipines..vis-a-vis the number of desperate women looking for foreigners


Havent been there for years, but since Castro let them have access to the internet, they seem to have suddenly  taken over the Latin dating sites.

Could be me .....seeing how I never date women with children but I don't think I have come in contact with colombianas that would marry some one they didn't like just to get to the USA.

What has been your personal experience here.
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« Reply #37 on: April 16, 2020, 06:03:51 AM »
Could be me .....seeing how I never date women with children but I don't think I have come in contact with colombianas that would marry some one they didn't like just to get to the USA.

What has been your personal experience here.
Not counting the stories your taxi driver tells you

I dont meet women that are after a visa because I make it clear that I am living permanently in Colombia and dont want to return.

I dont think there are really that many women looking to get a green card in Colombia.

Though lets face it..the poorer or more isolated or autocratic a country is with less tourists ,the  more "hypergamous " and less picky they are.

Otherwise guys would be dating Latinas and Filipinas in the States wouldnt they?

And with the world going into a depression and people less willing to travel to out of the way locations the more so it will get...for quite a while.

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« Reply #38 on: April 16, 2020, 12:48:20 PM »
I dont meet women that are after a visa because I make it clear that I am living permanently in Colombia and dont want to return.

I dont think there are really that many women looking to get a green card in Colombia.

Though lets face it..the poorer or more isolated or autocratic a country is with less tourists ,the  more "hypergamous " and less picky they are.

Otherwise guys would be dating Latinas and Filipinas in the States wouldnt they?

And with the world going into a depression and people less willing to travel to out of the way locations the more so it will get...for quite a while.

Well guys are certainly dating Filipinas and Latinas in the USA....but no where near the scale that an average American can pull off for various reasons when he lives in Colombia

First time I have hear someone say that hypergamous women are less picky....the whole concept of hypergamy is of a women looking to move up. But I understand the confusion when the old gringo is considered the prize.

At any rate keep us informed on your theory that an economic depression will improve your dating life . Jajaja

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« Reply #39 on: April 16, 2020, 01:15:41 PM »
Well guys are certainly dating Filipinas and Latinas in the USA....but no where near the scale that an average American can pull off for various reasons when he lives in Colombia

First time I have hear someone say that hypergamous women are less picky....the whole concept of hypergamy is of a women looking to move up. But I understand the confusion when the old gringo is considered the prize.

At any rate keep us informed on your theory that an economic depression will improve your dating life . Jajaja


You always like to twist things around dont you..ja ja


Of courese old farts like me and you ..or any guy for that matter...are gonna have mor options  if we keep our assets and income at least partially in tact..Its the "ham Sandwich" syndrome..

Not that I am wishing for a depression..Too many people suffering..I would rather things were the way they were before..and I hope everything gets back to work soon. But not likely that will happen.


Personally from what I have ...there are a lot of people suffering now..and right up to the higher stratas as well..lots of debt in Colombia as anywhere....I just like helping people out with zero expectations.. there are are a lot of people really hurting in Colombia..they dont have government money dumped on them like in Europe or North America..any help given is really appreciated
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« Reply #40 on: April 22, 2020, 02:14:05 PM »
What experience...The experience of .....living with a woman that only knows what sex is like with you?

What is it like?

I was only with one virgin in my life and it was an experience I would have rather forgot.


If serious, imagine if you had a clean sheet of paper to write--or better said, a fresh new canvas to begin a Masterpiece on.


Would you walk away, if given a most promising subject to begin with?


Or would you prefer to add your addendum to someone else's work?


Yes by apology, my most promising subject was only a teenager when I met her and an independent college grad woman when we wed, but she's still a great learner. Since we started, she's brought so much to the art of love herself--new colors of passion and depth. We did our 'homework' together. As men go, I'm still second to God in her mind. That's fine by me.


But still fresh, going on 15 years later, after having known each other for almost twenty years. I was mid 40's, 6ft tall, 220 pounds, she was 5ft, 90 pounds. Today, it's 188 and 99 pounds, LOL--the curves, the butt on her tone body from that extra ten pounds--have only added to her raw appeal--to the painting, if you will.


Going on two months together 24X7 (as she uprights my retirement as I know it) working from home during this virus, we're STILL adding new flourishes.


Some men drink their finest wine but once in a glass--maybe a bottle at best. Nowadays, I bathe in the finest wine everyday~in the form of a beautiful young woman.


In my time, I ravished vineyards worldwide, but I've surprisingly found an amazing vintage in her--one that goes well with everything!
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« Reply #41 on: April 23, 2020, 09:15:42 AM »

If serious, imagine if you had a clean sheet of paper to write--or better said, a fresh new canvas to begin a Masterpiece on.


Would you walk away, if given a most promising subject to begin with?


Or would you prefer to add your addendum to someone else's work?


So virgins can be molded into a more desirable wife. ....Because you don't have to paint over someone else's paint. Or more or less you don't have to deal with the impact other relations have made on your wife.

I think that philosophy gives a whole new spin on the term "objectifying women". Jajaja

In the Bible....woman was created from man.

Are you religious?

Personally I'm more interested in improving myself rather than focusing my attention on creating a master piece of a wife.

I think it is probably better to focus on one's self ......at least in my case....if I spent a great deal of time money and effort creating a master piece and she just left one day ....I think I might be the type to hit her in the head with an ax.

So in my case ....I think it is better that I found someone ready made that fits the bill.

Kids are a different matter altogether.....I do plan on giving my daughter everything she needs to make herself a success in life. And if she does become a masterpiece  ....I think I'll let her take the credit of her success.



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« Reply #42 on: April 23, 2020, 11:02:10 AM »
So virgins can be molded into a more desirable wife. ....Because you don't have to paint over someone else's paint. Or more or less you don't have to deal with the impact other relations have made on your wife.

I think that philosophy gives a whole new spin on the term "objectifying women". Jajaja

In the Bible....woman was created from man.

Are you religious?

Personally I'm more interested in improving myself rather than focusing my attention on creating a master piece of a wife.

I think it is probably better to focus on one's self ......at least in my case....if I spent a great deal of time money and effort creating a master piece and she just left one day ....I think I might be the type to hit her in the head with an ax.

So in my case ....I think it is better that I found someone ready made that fits the bill.

Kids are a different matter altogether.....I do plan on giving my daughter everything she needs to make herself a success in life. And if she does become a masterpiece  ....I think I'll let her take the credit of her success.

Spoken like a true, self absorbed caveman! Other than at birth, nobody is 'ready made.' We all are formed by interactions with others and for better or worse, as long as humans interact, things will change.

The most we can hope for is that the other person hasn't been beaten, (axed? LOL?)  bruised and damaged too much growing up, to the point where it's a post traumatic stress syndrome time bomb that is problematic later.

No, I'm not insinuating anyone is near "perfect" -- I couldn't deal with perfect for long--I couldn't come close to matching that for starters and it'd drive me nuts.

It's often adversity--life's experiences--the joys, the troubles and how we deal with (learn from) them, that make (and continue to make us all life long) who we are and what we become.

That's true of virgins as much as it is of whores.

I think I made it clear that my wife and I are on the same page, or 'painting'-- that we're doing this TOGETHER.

Very few living things (relationships) are static, fixed and/or 'ready made'. People, and the conditions, the temptations all around are constantly changing.

I've said many time here that "nothing lasts forever" and having been through divorce with children that I accept that this second time around, things could still go wrong.

You say:

"""">I think it is probably better to focus on one's self ......at least in my case....if I spent a great deal of time money and effort creating a master piece and she just left one day ....I think I might be the type to hit her in the head with an ax.<"""

Yeah, it'd about kill me, but I'd like to think I'd eventually recover and overall be thankful for all the great years we had and the positive influence she's had on the kids. I couldn't imagine hitting her head.

She often puts others before herself, but she's definitely not some simple, stupid submissive little lady. Be it white trash trailer park people or Harvard-Wharton types she works with, she can and occasionally does, call them out on their BS.

And while never in public, she lets me know when I've stepped over the line.

I suppose she'll always be an angel in my mind, but as personal growth as individuals and importantly as a couple, is an ongoing process, it's really impossible for me to 'objectify' something, certainly someONE as fluid as a healthy, vibrant human being she is.

This isn't 'Stepford Wives' I'm talking about...

It's two sensitive, relatively complicated people who typically still find new ways to amaze, or at least surprise, each other everyday. I guess some people would call that: "working on your marriage" but most days it doesn't seem like work to me.

If I didn't know better, I'd say your post reflects a tinge of jealousy.

Maybe you're getting a bit antsy, stir crazy, with this quarantine squeeze going on--it is quite the ongoing test!!
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« Reply #43 on: April 23, 2020, 12:05:16 PM »
Spoken like a true, self absorbed caveman! Other than at birth, nobody is 'ready made.' We all are formed by interactions with others and for better or worse, as long as humans interact, things will change.

The most we can hope for is that the other person hasn't been beaten, (axed? LOL?)  bruised and damaged too much growing up, to the point where it's a post traumatic stress syndrome time bomb that is problematic later.

No, I'm not insinuating anyone is near "perfect" -- I couldn't deal with perfect for long--I couldn't come close to matching that for starters and it'd drive me nuts.

It's often adversity--life's experiences--the joys, the troubles and how we deal with (learn from) them, that make (and continue to make us all life long) who we are and what we become.

That's true of virgins as much as it is of whores.

I think I made it clear that my wife and I are on the same page, or 'painting'-- that we're doing this TOGETHER.

Very few living things (relationships) are static, fixed and/or 'ready made'. People, and the conditions, the temptations all around are constantly changing.

I've said many time here that "nothing lasts forever" and having been through divorce with children that I accept that this second time around, things could still go wrong.

You say:

"""">I think it is probably better to focus on one's self ......at least in my case....if I spent a great deal of time money and effort creating a master piece and she just left one day ....I think I might be the type to hit her in the head with an ax.<"""

Yeah, it'd about kill me, but I'd like to think I'd eventually recover and overall be thankful for all the great years we had and the positive influence she's had on the kids. I couldn't imagine hitting her head.

She often puts others before herself, but she's definitely not some simple, stupid submissive little lady. Be it white trash trailer park people or Harvard-Wharton types she works with, she can and occasionally does, call them out on their BS.

And while never in public, she lets me know when I've stepped over the line.

I suppose she'll always be an angel in my mind, but as personal growth as individuals and importantly as a couple, is an ongoing process, it's really impossible for me to 'objectify' something, certainly someONE as fluid as a healthy, vibrant human being she is.

This isn't 'Stepford Wives' I'm talking about...

It's two sensitive, relatively complicated people who typically still find new ways to amaze, or at least surprise, each other everyday. I guess some people would call that: "working on your marriage" but most days it doesn't seem like work to me.

If I didn't know better, I'd say your post reflects a tinge of jealousy.

Maybe you're getting a bit antsy, stir crazy, with this quarantine squeeze going on--it is quite the ongoing test!!

So what you are saying is you never fantasize about sleeping with other women?

Self absorbed caveman arent really capable of jealousy.

Truth is I could move on pretty easily if me and my wife separated wouldn't even be married if it wasn't for my baby.

Marriage is for procreation ....no kids no marriage




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« Reply #44 on: April 23, 2020, 02:45:35 PM »
So what you are saying is you never fantasize about sleeping with other women?

Self absorbed caveman arent really capable of jealousy.

Truth is I could move on pretty easily if me and my wife separated wouldn't even be married if it wasn't for my baby.

Marriage is for procreation ....no kids no marriage

I am an incorrigible flirt. Very verbal. My wife knows not only that I have a roving eye, but exactly which 'look' and type of women attract me. She knew it from the git go.

She's suspicious and jealous in a healthy way about it. But she's a sport as long as I keep my pants up. In fact if I miss noticing some ultra fine sexy, svelte female form when we're out walking and holding hands, she'll squeeze my hand to alert me. Sometimes I'll say "Oh, I really didn't notice" and she'll say "Sure you did---you think I don't know your type? "

But in the same realms, when a woman and I hit it off verbally while flirting, especially if she's hot, my wife will sometimes later say, in an oddly proud kind of way: "I think she really liked you." Like "Baby--you still got it." But no touch, no harm, no foul.

"""Truth is I could move on pretty easily if me and my wife separated wouldn't even be married if it wasn't for my baby.

Marriage is for procreation ....no kids no marriage""""

That's one helluva a paradox. On the one hand, you seem to buy into the traditional mindset that marriage and babies are basically 'the way.'

But while I'd go so far as to say that's a noble (if antiquated) sentiment, if you think the two--"marriage & procreation"are THAT intrinsically intertwined, it's very strange to me that you could "move on pretty easily" if that world, that synergy, fell apart.

My parents went their separate ways when I needed them together the most. The same thing happened to my sons. It did real, hard emotional damage. That bad energy, those fecking ghosts, are STILL real.

It would've been far better somehow if someway only of one us had the boys from birth, that they'd  never known a Mom and Dad unit. When we split,  the whole world as they knew it was ripped apart, with post divorce still awkward at best, it's still awful. Really.

If you're gonna get married and have kids, I think you need to stay committed for 18 years, not be cavalier, as you sound like.

Best if the parent who has the most family support gets the baby exclusively from day one. Don't create a whole new world for innocents, then destroy it.

We're about the same age and I don't like it one bit, but I don't think at my age--and I'm in pretty good physical/financial condition overall, that I'd do better.  And if I was, as is my style is more 'looking for a steady relationship' and not just all 'hit and runs', it'd take years, and that's with a big IF--IF I could find a female anywhere nearly as desirable across all fronts.

I love ACDC's seminal jam "All night long" (You shook me..) but metaphorically speaking, it'd be awfully hard getting off the floor to say: " Now I'm back in the ring --to take another swing" after having it this good, then losing it--it'd be a real (ACDC again)  "A long way (back) to the top"--she sets the bar mighty high....

We've had great adventures and have many more planned. That said, a lot of our best times have been unplanned.

And the whole world could flush tomorrow.

Your statement:

So what you are saying is you never fantasize about sleeping with other women?

I was going to say: "Only when I'm awake" But then I remembered I also dream about women and sex.

My wife and I discuss our dreams and fantasies and I'm glad that her 'crush'--Leonardo Decaprio, is finally getting married!!

Most wives are no strangers to their husband's internet history either.

We already know each others quirks and what works, but we're still exploring each other.

And we're both fully aware (her in more detail) that probably at least half the Filipinas in our area are having extramarital affairs.

Gotta keep that dialogue open....
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« Reply #45 on: April 23, 2020, 03:10:00 PM »
I am an incorrigible flirt. Very verbal. My wife knows not only that I have a roving eye, but exactly which 'look' and type of women attract me. She knew it from the git go.

She's suspicious and jealous in a healthy way about it. But she's a sport as long as I keep my pants up. In fact if I miss noticing some ultra fine sexy, svelte female form when we're out walking and holding hands, she'll squeeze my hand to alert me. Sometimes I'll say "Oh, I really didn't notice" and she'll say "Sure you did---you think I don't know your type? "

But in the same realms, when a woman and I hit it off verbally while flirting, especially if she's hot, my wife will sometimes later say, in an oddly proud kind of way: "I think she really liked you." Like "Baby--you still got it." But no touch, no harm, no foul.

"""Truth is I could move on pretty easily if me and my wife separated wouldn't even be married if it wasn't for my baby.

Marriage is for procreation ....no kids no marriage""""

That's one helluva a paradox. On the one hand, you seem to buy into the traditional mindset that marriage and babies are basically 'the way.'

But while I'd go so far as to say that's a noble (if antiquated) sentiment, if you think the two--"marriage & procreation"are THAT intrinsically intertwined, it's very strange to me that you could "move on pretty easily" if that world, that synergy, fell apart.

My parents went their separate ways when I needed them together the most. The same thing happened to my sons. It did real, hard emotional damage. That bad energy, those fecking ghosts, are STILL real.

It would've been far better somehow if someway only of one us had the boys from birth, that they'd  never known a Mom and Dad unit. When we split,  the whole world as they knew it was ripped apart, with post divorce still awkward at best, it's still awful. Really.

If you're gonna get married and have kids, I think you need to stay committed for 18 years, not be cavalier, as you sound like.

Best if the parent who has the most family support gets the baby exclusively from day one. Don't create a whole new world for innocents, then destroy it.

We're about the same age and I don't like it one bit, but I don't think at my age--and I'm in pretty good physical/financial condition overall, that I'd do better.  And if I was, as is my style is more 'looking for a steady relationship' and not just all 'hit and runs', it'd take years, and that's with a big IF--IF I could find a female anywhere nearly as desirable across all fronts.

I love ACDC's seminal jam "All night long" (You shook me..) but metaphorically speaking, it'd be awfully hard getting off the floor to say: " Now I'm back in the ring --to take another swing" after having it this good, then losing it--it'd be a real (ACDC again)  "A long way (back) to the top"--she sets the bar mighty high....

We've had great adventures and have many more planned. That said, a lot of our best times have been unplanned.

And the whole world could flush tomorrow.

Your statement:

So what you are saying is you never fantasize about sleeping with other women?

I was going to say: "Only when I'm awake" But then I remembered I also dream about women and sex.

My wife and I discuss our dreams and fantasies and I'm glad that her 'crush'--Leonardo Decaprio, is finally getting married!!

Most wives are no strangers to their husband's internet history either.

We already know each others quirks and what works, but we're still exploring each other.

And we're both fully aware (her in more detail) that probably at least half the Filipinas in our area are having extramarital affairs.

Gotta keep that dialogue open....

But does your wife know that  you think about being with other women?

And does your wife wonder what sex would be like with another man?

Pretty easy for me to leave a wife but impossible for me to leave my kid.

Here in Colombia it is posible to have your cake and eat it too.

Even if we separated there would be very little chance to some guy moving in with my ex and cohabitating with my child .....most guys here are not interested in living with a woman that has someone else's kids ....and as long as the father takes care of their children financially there is very little motivation for a single mother to seek out a live in relationship knowing that the father of her children would most likely cut her off.

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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #46 on: April 23, 2020, 04:43:08 PM »
But does your wife know that  you think about being with other women?

And does your wife wonder what sex would be like with another man?

Pretty easy for me to leave a wife but impossible for me to leave my kid.

Here in Colombia it is posible to have your cake and eat it too.

Even if we separated there would be very little chance to some guy moving in with my ex and cohabitating with my child .....most guys here are not interested in living with a woman that has someone else's kids ....and as long as the father takes care of their children financially there is very little motivation for a single mother to seek out a live in relationship knowing that the father of her children would most likely cut her off.

My wife grew up with 4 brothers. She knows guys, she knows there's women I'd LOVE to have sex with, but that I don't. She knows there's women that would love to have sex with me. She watches out for certain ones in fact.

To be 100% honest, I don't know if beyond a few entertainment 'matinee' stars, if she wonders in the bigger, more realistic world, what sex with another man would be like. I think that'd if that's the case, it's actually relatively normal-- we all have urges, 'types.'

She's definitely not into threesomes or group action.

You don't think your wife doesn't occasionally see some totally over the top hunk and doesn't think: "I bet he's good in bed"?? -- or is she THAT Catholic? LOL...

I think for here and now that if/when her mind drifts that way, that she redirects herself from the source.

"Lead us not into temptation and deliver us from evil..." Is rarely far from her mind.

But as we're not getting any younger, the question is increasingly pertinent to an intelligent male living in the USA.

And the competition's always getting younger.

But even in Colombia, the fact is that you're probably within a few years of age of some slightly older guys here who often seem disgruntled with the women and ways there. Don't be so sure life doesn't find you in a similar boat one day, child or no child. If I recall correctly, you once said you'd kill yourself at age 80, as you loathe the idea of being an old man.

We all have a 'shelf life'. Yours just lasts a little longer down there. But it'll probably take more time, effort and money to score a super fine hot thirtysome years young chica than it did, than it would've set you back five years ago.

Sorry, but sixty is NOT the "New fifty", no matter how badly one wants to imagine it is.

But the way I see it is you don't seem to value/prize your marriage/relationship a great deal, as you sound like you could quite casually walk away from it--from your marriage for casual sex, as the number of available women is so great there that it's like picking grapes.

If that's the the gist of your situation and you, as seems the case, are man enough to support and be involved in your child's
life, I don't know why you even got into (yet another) essentially disposable marriage. It just doesn't add up.
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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #47 on: April 23, 2020, 08:39:26 PM »
My wife grew up with 4 brothers. She knows guys, she knows there's women I'd LOVE to have sex with, but that I don't. She knows there's women that would love to have sex with me. She watches out for certain ones in fact.

To be 100% honest, I don't know if beyond a few entertainment 'matinee' stars, if she wonders in the bigger, more realistic world, what sex with another man would be like. I think that'd if that's the case, it's actually relatively normal-- we all have urges, 'types.'

She's definitely not into threesomes or group action.

You don't think your wife doesn't occasionally see some totally over the top hunk and doesn't think: "I bet he's good in bed"?? -- or is she THAT Catholic? LOL...

I think for here and now that if/when her mind drifts that way, that she redirects herself from the source.

"Lead us not into temptation and deliver us from evil..." Is rarely far from her mind.

But as we're not getting any younger, the question is increasingly pertinent to an intelligent male living in the USA.

And the competition's always getting younger.

But even in Colombia, the fact is that you're probably within a few years of age of some slightly older guys here who often seem disgruntled with the women and ways there. Don't be so sure life doesn't find you in a similar boat one day, child or no child. If I recall correctly, you once said you'd kill yourself at age 80, as you loathe the idea of being an old man.

We all have a 'shelf life'. Yours just lasts a little longer down there. But it'll probably take more time, effort and money to score a super fine hot thirtysome years young chica than it did, than it would've set you back five years ago.

Sorry, but sixty is NOT the "New fifty", no matter how badly one wants to imagine it is.

But the way I see it is you don't seem to value/prize your marriage/relationship a great deal, as you sound like you could quite casually walk away from it--from your marriage for casual sex, as the number of available women is so great there that it's like picking grapes.

If that's the the gist of your situation and you, as seems the case, are man enough to support and be involved in your child's
life, I don't know why you even got into (yet another) essentially disposable marriage. It just doesn't add up.

I enjoy my wife's company but being married is a much better trade off for me when I have a child with my wife....if it wasn't for my daughter being married would be at best a toss up between being single. Obviously I value my marriage and family life more than being single.


But still ....the opportunity costs of being married are very high here in Colombia.

Could be that one day I will be stuck in the States writing on the board everyday about how lucky I am to have such a young beautiful wife that puts out everyday.....but when you are living here in Colombia those points are irrelevant.

And as far as guys older than me complaining about the women here ....well they are very spoiled.....just plain stupid or lying...take your pick

I still haven't figured out their motivations for complaining...seeing how there is no way in hell they will ever leave Colombia.
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Re: 14 prepagos busted in poblado for violating lockdown
« Reply #48 on: April 24, 2020, 01:07:25 PM »
I enjoy my wife's company but being married is a much better trade off for me when I have a child with my wife....if it wasn't for my daughter being married would be at best a toss up between being single. Obviously I value my marriage and family life more than being single.


But still ....the opportunity costs of being married are very high here in Colombia.

Could be that one day I will be stuck in the States writing on the board everyday about how lucky I am to have such a young beautiful wife that puts out everyday.....but when you are living here in Colombia those points are irrelevant.

And as far as guys older than me complaining about the women here ....well they are very spoiled.....just plain stupid or lying...take your pick

I still haven't figured out their motivations for complaining...seeing how there is no way in hell they will ever leave Colombia.


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