Sorry, Brazilophile, but this topic has been moved to
Latin -> Flame Room.
What started as a valid concern (in a nutshell, does your spouse feel like they are experiencing any public animosity because of perceived bigotry or experiences of actual racism) eventually devolved into a flame fest with the usual ad hominem attacks and hyperbole that just drag down the quality of the forum. So this is being moved out of the general public's eye where it can continue just among us members.
http://www.planet-love.com/index.php?topic=7038.0