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Latin International Dating Forums => Latin -> General discussion => Topic started by: Elexpatriado on October 31, 2017, 05:30:47 PM
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I thought I might liven up this site a bit.
Beware of girls you meet on the internet.
They may have fotos in Cupid, Facebook or WhatsAPP that make them look sexy-
I dont know if they are old Fotos or Fotoshop or whatever..
But a lot of times you end up meeting the chica..and like Cat Stevens Said.. "She has a strange resemblance to a cat named Frankenstein"
Better to just to take them to an out of the way place for coffee the first date, if you meet them on the internet
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I thought I might liven up this site a bit.
Beware of girls you meet on the internet.
They may have fotos in Cupid, Facebook or WhatsAPP that make them look sexy-
I dont know if they are old Fotos or Fotoshop or whatever..
But a lot of times you end up meeting the chica..and like Cat Stevens Said.. "She has a strange resemblance to a cat named Frankenstein"
Better to just to take them to an out of the way place for coffee the first date, if you meet them on the internet
I hope you didn’t invite her over to your place for your first meet up.....that’s a no no for a lot of reasons jajajaja
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I hope you didn’t invite her over to your place for your first meet up.....that’s a no no for a lot of reasons jajajaja
Now why would I do something like that?
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I thought I might liven up this site a
Fake photos are as old as cameras themselves.
As to "liven up this place a bit"--I suggest that anybody who for whatever reason (not many, if any 'real friends' here, most guys are basically out for themselves) wants to stay in touch when this site suddenly disappears, that you exchange your email addresses.
To paraphrase an old quote....
'If people don't want to post here, nobody's gonna stop them.'
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Fake photos are as old as cameras themselves.
As to "liven up this place a bit"--I suggest that anybody who for whatever reason (not many, if any 'real friends' here, most guys are basically out for themselves) wants to stay in touch when this site suddenly disappears, that you exchange your email addresses.
To paraphrase an old quote....
'If people don't want to post here, nobody's gonna stop them.'
You think its gonna close?
People have been saying that for years...
You better watch who you exchange Emails with Robert, peoples characters on these sites arent usually the same as their real life identities..
I know several specific examples :D
On the other hand, you, not living "on the ground " in Colombia for the last 5 years and visiting frequently for the last 13, wouldn't be privilege to that information...
Not that it really matters one way or another.
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A girl from LatinAmerican Cupid named Karen, 20 contacted me and asked for my email- I gave it to her and she sent me five photos of her pussy and a few from further away allowing me to see that it was indeed the girl on LAC. I wrote back and said she was very photogenic (at leasst her pussy was) but darn I haven,t Heard another word. What a fun site that is.
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A girl from LatinAmerican Cupid named Karen, 20 contacted me and asked for my email- I gave it to her and she sent me five photos of her pussy and a few from further away allowing me to see that it was indeed the girl on LAC. I wrote back and said she was very photogenic (at leasst her pussy was) but darn I haven,t Heard another word. What a fun site that is.
I've had a few of those kinds of encounters on ColombianCupid.....they usually want to sell you a private pussy show or something....but once they realize you are in Colombia they know you aren't going to be interested....the only guys that pay for pussy that they can't have..... are guys living outside of Colombia.
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I've had a few of those kinds of encounters on ColombianCupid.....they usually want to sell you a private pussy show or something....but once they realize you are in Colombia they know you aren't going to be interested....the only guys that pay for pussy that they can't have..... are guys living outside of Colombia.
Then there are the guys that flash their chimbos to the girls on these sites..usually Mexicans, but could be any foreigner..
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Then there are the guys that flash their chimbos to the girls on these sites..usually Mexicans, but could be any foreigner..
Thank God I haven't had any of those experiences on a dating site.
How many Mexicans have flashed you compared to other nationalities?
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My experience on the Cupid sites has been that the photos are at least 5 years old, the women are usually heavier than they claim and they often make themselves an inch or two taller. They also state in their profile not to have children and this happened to me once, after I had made definite travel arrangements to Medellín she confessed at the last minute that she has a 7 year old boy, needless to say it was a deal breaker for me and to top it off I was accused of being heartless.
Also met a very attractive chick on Cupid from Peru, that alone should have sent off alarm bells, she insisted that I call her and she wanted me to send her money so she could buy suitcases to come and see me. I reported her as a scammer and they took her off Cupid.
After some trial and error I finally found a keeper after I had been living in Colombia for a number of years. She was overjoyed that she finally met a foreigner who actually lived in Colombia as she didn't want to leave her family and live outside the country.
With Colombian men she was done after trying out a couple of them.
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I met a girl, a little mulata on cupido from Tuluá. She said she'd come to Cali to meet me but with a girlfriend . I said fine I'll send you a giro for round trip bus fare for both of you. They showed up and I took them to lunch. Not a problem. She told me she was in university but had to drop out temporarily for lack of funds. I asked her how much it was a semester. She said it was like $600.000. I said how many more semesters do you need to graduate? Four she said. So how much more do you need to pay off the whole program? She didn't know. I said well how much is 600x4? She couldn't calculate that. Later she whatsaped me and said well would I pay her school. I said sure, come back to Cali, we'll go to a place where we can be a solos (motel) and we'll discuss your tuition. Que???!!! she said, you won't just help me out with (pay or) my tuition? Mi amorcito I said, es que yo no manejo ninguna foundation de cariadad, si quieres un apoyo con mucho gusto y vamos a un motel. She feigned being scandalized of course. She said well maybe but send me a giro now for a hundred because I'm hungry and I don't have any food. I didn't mention that she was sort of a fatty and it was just as well but said amor...pobrecita te mandaré $20 mil pesos para tomes el bus para Cali y te compraré toda la comida qui quieres. She was outraged ha ha then I blocked her on whatsapp. I should be used to it after all these years but it still astounds me that these girls think American men are that stupid (albeit some are).
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Women (and men) lying about their age, height and weight probably predates calendars and scales.
My wife tends to roll UP her age five years because she still looks like a college coed. She weighs within a couple pounds of what she weighed 16 years ago, when we first met. How common is that?
But she's such a good Catholic, that she wouldn't roll it up TEN years. In fact last night, after we met another attractive Filipina about her age, whom said she looked like her daughter, she asked me if I wished she looked older, had a few lines, wrinkles, LOL.
Sh!t as long as she's all about US and makes sure we both take care of our skin, dress and eat well, I'm just fine with the deal. Hell, I'm trying to watch the Alabama - LSU football game and she's getting in my way, applying a four stage 'beauty' treatment (argan cleansing oil, hyaluronic acid hydrator, special cream for eye areas, diff. cream for face & neck), then she'll go to work on my finger and toenails. At least she gets to smack/pat my face a bit to set the cream in, as the experts do, rather than rubbing it in. I try to tell her: "Honey, NOBODY is gonna be looking at my toenails"----she replies: "I do."
Then, I have to get out of bed, as she handwashed the cotton bed linens in fragrant softner, ironed them and will remake the whole bed. Hopefully, she'll wait till halftime.
Thank God for TV remote controls.... ::)
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Thank God I haven't had any of those experiences on a dating site.
How many Mexicans have flashed you compared to other nationalities?
Ja ja ja Silly..they flash the girls..not me....the girls tell.me about it...
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Ja ja ja Silly..they flash the girls..not me....the girls tell.me about it...
Well thank God I’ve had a woman on any site tell me about all the penis photos she is getting
And if I ever do find one that brings up penis photos .... She is getting blocked
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Well thank God I’ve had a woman on any site tell me about all the penis photos she is getting
And if I ever do find one that brings up penis photos .... She is getting blocked
They just bring it up after seeing mine ..and gasping in awe..because they thought all gringos hsd tiny peckers
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Dumb and dumber :o
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They just bring it up after seeing mine ..and gasping in awe..because they thought all gringos hsd tiny peckers
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Really? Tje Colombianas i know have mentioned colombianos are smaller than gringos...
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Amazing. I just went through the same routine with another mulata from Tuluá, Margareth 21 on Latinamerican. She gave me her whatsapp, I said hello, she sent a voice message: estoy aburrida. Porque? Cosas de la universidad. Si? Cuales? Es que quiero matricularme y no puedo etc. etc. Cuanto? $450.000. Bueno si nos entablamos una relación depronto puedo ayudarte, debemos conocernos en persona. Pero amor las inscripciónes están ya. Muy rápido pero ok entonces vengas a Cali mañana, vamos donde podemos estar a solos un tiempo y en la tarde puedes volver a Tuluá con la inscripción. Hemmed and hawed for a long time and finally said no.
In her photos she's very fetching. I'm pretty sure she has experience receiving money from out of country gringos or other foreigners. In fact the "matricula" story could be one she uses all the time. I think guys in the US send money to girls they'll never know pretty often. I think she thought I'd be one of them even though I'm in Colombia...I'm a gringo after all. I think she was a little taken aback that she'd have to put out for the money. Who knows, I might hear rom her again...haven't blocked her yet.
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Amazing. I just went through the same routine with another mulata from Tuluá, Margareth 21 on Latinamerican. She gave me her whatsapp, I said hello, she sent a voice message: estoy aburrida. Porque? Cosas de la universidad. Si? Cuales? Es que quiero matricularme y no puedo etc. etc. Cuanto? $450.000. Bueno si nos entablamos una relación depronto puedo ayudarte, debemos conocernos en persona. Pero amor las inscripciónes están ya. Muy rápido pero ok entonces vengas a Cali mañana, vamos donde podemos estar a solos un tiempo y en la tarde puedes volver a Tuluá con la inscripción. Hemmed and hawed for a long time and finally said no.
In her photos she's very fetching. I'm pretty sure she has experience receiving money from out of country gringos or other foreigners. In fact the "matricula" story could be one she uses all the time. I think guys in the US send money to girls they'll never know pretty often. I think she thought I'd be one of them even though I'm in Colombia...I'm a gringo after all. I think she was a little taken aback that she'd have to put out for the money. Who knows, I might hear rom her again...haven't blocked her yet.
Why don´t you play the old Western Union trick..
Say you are gonna send money for WU. Give her the number, with one wrong digit, when she comes back sorry- wrong number disculpa..same thing again..ohh sorry how could I twice, third time give her the right number, she goes and collects 5 mil pesos (she thinks its 500000 COP). You say "sorry I get confused with these big numbers. I thought you meant 5 mil COP. Thatas all I can afford.
Why do some guys play these juvenile games??
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I cant remember how many times that I would get a message and photo. Reverse search it using tineye and poof, sure enough she's someone famous talking to little ol me. It's fine to mess with them at that point. They don't even wait more than a day before they are asking for cash. Might as well work on obtaining some "Beaver Hunt" submission photos or tell them I'm a Nigerian prince and for just..." I was messing with one once and the Filipina turned out to be some Aussie dude that finally came clean and was a good sport about it because I had him rolling over some of the questions I was asking back.
As someone mentioned about being careful with ex pats you meet outside the states. Many may be retirees, work international firms etc. While others may be running from the law, con men or straight up psycho.
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Oh almost forgot. Some of the photos are old as hell. Latin Life Mates is one of those that I see women that have been on that site that i recognize from 2005.
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What I don't understand is why they are able to get away with this? Ask them to chat live with cam and they are busted. Even back in 2003 I was able to see my wife on her web cam.
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What I don't understand is why they are able to get away with this? Ask them to chat live with cam and they are busted. Even back in 2003 I was able to see my wife on her web cam.
A good tranny might fool a lot of guys, even in person.The thing is -check the Adams Apple. Real women dont have Adams apple.
Cant fake that.
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A good tranny might fool a lot of guys, even in person.The thing is -check the Adams Apple. Real women dont have Adams apple.
Cant fake that.
That's a common misconception. Both men AND women can have Adam's Apples. The difference is they usually show up much more prominently in men...but even that's not always the case. There are areas in Subsaharan Africa for example, where women naturally have much longer, thinner necks and you can see a very prominent Adam's Apple on almost all of them.
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That's a common misconception. Both men AND women can have Adam's Apples. The difference is they usually show up much more prominently in men...but even that's not always the case. There are areas in Subsaharan Africa for example, where women naturally have much longer, thinner necks and you can see a very prominent Adam's Apple on almost all of them.
I was about to say that but you beat me to it. Just google women with Adam's Apple and you will see plenty of them. There is really only one real test but with a post op even that won't work. But what's the point? Most women in the US don't look like real women!
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What I don't understand is why they are able to get away with this? Ask them to chat live with cam and they are busted. Even back in 2003 I was able to see my wife on her web cam.
Chatting via webcam is a great way to weed out women and at the same time increase the odds that she will show up for the first date. But it is time consuming and relatively costly to take women on a date one at a time.
Much better approach is to get them on facebook where you can see dozens of photos of them and then just invite 2 or 3 of them out at a time when you are with a group of your friends.
Your buddies split the cost of the bottle with you while you get the chick you click with best and leave the rest for you friends.
Sometimes your friends will invite chicks and or the girls will bring a friend and it turns out to be quite the party. At any rate it sure beats a one on one date.
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Well thank God I’ve had a woman on any site tell me about all the penis photos she is getting
And if I ever do find one that brings up penis photos .... She is getting blocked
If you're wise and live long enough, you learn to never say:
"I've seen it all"
And if online enough, you're gonna run into women who are sexually aggressive, women of all ages who DO want to see what you have and are actively 'parts shopping'. And some of them are very hot looking indeed----built for speed and ready to run the full circuit.
But never forget, 'screen shot' software has been around a while, is easily gotten and for free these days, so if you've always wanted to be a famous, public figure, this is 'prime time' for you, nowadays.
Or if you're just plain stupid, just send texts w photos over the phone. Just ask Anthony Weiner, LOL.
Hell, they can 'lift' profile photos from sites, be it match making, FB, Linkdin etc, photo shop them and even put you into various scenarios.
But a long time ago, before that kind of screenshot software became common and the internet was really catching fire with a lot of 'give and take', and Yahoo had 100's of 'rooms', it was wild indeed...
A guy's gotta be mighty careful where he goes poking around these days....
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Chatting via webcam is a great way to weed out women and at the same time increase the odds that she will show up for the first date. But it is time consuming and relatively costly to take women on a date one at a time.
Much better approach is to get them on facebook where you can see dozens of photos of them and then just invite 2 or 3 of them out at a time when you are with a group of your friends.
Your buddies split the cost of the bottle with you while you get the chick you click with best and leave the rest for you friends.
Sometimes your friends will invite chicks and or the girls will bring a friend and it turns out to be quite the party. At any rate it sure beats a one on one date.
What if you like one who is a teetotaler
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What if you like one who is a teetotaler
Sounds like an uphill battle that I wouldn't probably be willing to climb.
Nothing works like music, liquor, dancing and singing.... coupled with physical escalation. Along with good timing....seems like the sweet spot is between 2:30 and 3:30 am to pull them back to your place.
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A good tranny might fool a lot of guys, even in person.The thing is -check the Adams Apple. Real women dont have Adams apple.
Cant fake that.
I've read somewhere there is a surgical procedure now to remove the adams apple. What I am always leery off are very tall women.
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I've read somewhere there is a surgical procedure now to remove the adams apple. What I am always leery off are very tall women.
Hell, that's old---surgically shaving the Adams apple is small potatoes. It even used to be the hands that gave them away as 'guys trying to look like women', but they can even 'Doctor' them up now, hIding their true sexuality. Reshape the chin, raise the cheekbones, remove a rib bone for a more hour glass figure (although men and women are born w/same # of ribs), insert butt implants, add a lot of hormones to change the voice....
For most wealthy hollywood female stars, the face might look young and tight, but most can't get the hands and neck done right---it gives them, actually their true 'age,' away.
Best 'staying in gender' work you'll ever see was done on 71 year old actress Susan Sarandon, who on this season's Showtime series "Ray Donovan" looks great. Look at that chest and face,--no 'wind tunnel' look--whoever said: 'gravity sucks' didn't get a load of her.
https://www.google.com/search?q=susan+sarandon+ray+donovan&client=tablet-android-samsung&prmd=niv&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjWuMu03LLXAhUG5CYKHe4EDkEQ_AUIEygC&biw=1280&bih=800
But as this article, from the University of Michigan, no less explains, how it's quite possible, if you're a wealthy 'male' who wants to go transgender, that they can even make you your very own vagina. Get a vaginoplasty. Who'd have thunk?
http://ai.eecs.umich.edu/people/conway/TS/SRSlink.html
That's why my wife says a lot of women in Asia say that the hottest looking women in Asia are actually men. Here's just one example: https://www.google.com/search?client=tablet-android-samsung&biw=1280&bih=800&tbm=isch&sa=1&ei=p_UEWp2TJouSmQH6xICoBw&q=nong+poy%2C+hot&oq=nong+poy%2C+hot&gs_l=mobile-gws-img.3...5280.6675.0.8013.6.6.0.0.0.0.212.724.2j2j1.5.0....0...1.1j4.64.mobile-gws-img..1.2.358...0j0i67k1.220.brFwOyc1MJ0
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That's why my wife says a lot of women in Asia say that the hottest looking women in Asia are actually men. Here's just one example: https://www.google.com/search?client=tablet-android-samsung&biw=1280&bih=800&tbm=isch&sa=1&ei=p_UEWp2TJouSmQH6xICoBw&q=nong+poy%2C+hot&oq=nong+poy%2C+hot&gs_l=mobile-gws-img.3...5280.6675.0.8013.6.6.0.0.0.0.212.724.2j2j1.5.0....0...1.1j4.64.mobile-gws-img..1.2.358...0j0i67k1.220.brFwOyc1MJ0 (https://www.google.com/search?client=tablet-android-samsung&biw=1280&bih=800&tbm=isch&sa=1&ei=p_UEWp2TJouSmQH6xICoBw&q=nong+poy%2C+hot&oq=nong+poy%2C+hot&gs_l=mobile-gws-img.3...5280.6675.0.8013.6.6.0.0.0.0.212.724.2j2j1.5.0....0...1.1j4.64.mobile-gws-img..1.2.358...0j0i67k1.220.brFwOyc1MJ0)
I would rather be with a hot ladyboy from Thailand than one of those creatures I have seen the few times that I have been in a Wal-Mart. After having seen the women in other countries, American women have to be some of the least attractive on the planet.
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I would rather be with a hot ladyboy from Thailand than one of those creatures I have seen the few times that I have been in a Wal-Mart. After having seen the women in other countries, American women have to be some of the least attractive on the planet.
Plenty of attractive American women. Problem is few know how to treat a man. Unfortunately empowering women also involves emasculating men....
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Plenty of attractive American women. Problem is few know how to treat a man. Unfortunately empowering women also involves emasculating men....
American Men have allowed themselves to be placed in that position. When push comes to shove and shove comes to death match, physical force is the ultimate deciding factor for which gender is dominant regardless of the species. I'm not advocating violence against women, but what I'm trying to say is there's a natural order to things and subconsciously no woman wants a man that's weaker than her. Most women just want to feel like there's some level of equality. The problem is equal doesn't necessarily mean "the same" and this feminism movement BS went so far most women are miserable with the results. Especially because of what it's transformed a lot of American Men into. I personally blame this epidemic of single mom's that are babying their sons all the way up into their college years.
The biggest mistake I made with my first Colombian Girlfriend I met at Jamie's was not having a set of balls. I was just so happy to have a young, beautiful Colombiana on my arm I pretty much never told her "no." Even when I knew better. I'm convinced that's why it didn't work out. Too much of a friend, not enough of a partner. I don't care which country you're talking about or how hot the woman is. If she tests you (and they always do) and you give her the impression she's in complete control at any moment. Her kooter is losing a moisture level each time. When it finally completely dries up, you're fooked. And that's only if she didn't find another guy to re-moisturize it in the mean time.
I'm not trying to sound like Billy Bad A$$ here because as you can probably figure out from another recent thread, my girlfriend does a lot of what she wants. Many things that I don't necessarily agree with and we have to compromise. But if I had ever let her run me over she'd have never been mine in the first place.
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Plenty of attractive American women. Problem is few know how to treat a man. Unfortunately empowering women also involves emasculating men....
They're not all 'that' bad. Here's an example of an old American girlfriend of mine, getting along just great with my wife.
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They're not all 'that' bad. Here's an example of an old American girlfriend of mine, getting along just great with my wife.
Good one Rob
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American Men have allowed themselves to be placed in that position. When push comes to shove and shove comes to death match, physical force is the ultimate deciding factor for which gender is dominant regardless of the species. I'm not advocating violence against women, but what I'm trying to say is there's a natural order to things and subconsciously no woman wants a man that's weaker than her. Most women just want to feel like there's some level of equality. The problem is equal doesn't necessarily mean "the same" and this feminism movement BS went so far most women are miserable with the results. Especially because of what it's transformed a lot of American Men into. I personally blame this epidemic of single mom's that are babying their sons all the way up into their college years.
The biggest mistake I made with my first Colombian Girlfriend I met at Jamie's was not having a set of balls. I was just so happy to have a young, beautiful Colombiana on my arm I pretty much never told her "no." Even when I knew better. I'm convinced that's why it didn't work out. Too much of a friend, not enough of a partner. I don't care which country you're talking about or how hot the woman is. If she tests you (and they always do) and you give her the impression she's in complete control at any moment. Her kooter is losing a moisture level each time. When it finally completely dries up, you're fooked. And that's only if she didn't find another guy to re-moisturize it in the mean time.
I'm not trying to sound like Billy Bad A$$ here because as you can probably figure out from another recent thread, my girlfriend does a lot of what she wants. Many things that I don't necessarily agree with and we have to compromise. But if I had ever let her run me over she'd have never been mine in the first place.
Oh you are so right about American men being the biggest wimps and it is getting worst by the day.
I see so many guys that are in shape and still go for the lowest hanging fruit they can find. They go after mid 30's to 40's women that have other guys children and then pay to play Dad. It is really really sad.
I can't even stand to see magazines with Jamie Fox and Cathy Homes together.....I mean the guy has millions and if Cathy Homes asked my broke ass out for a date....I'd ask her "how much are you payin" LOL
And this fool Jamie Fox is making it seem like it's just great to be hooking up with Tom Cruses ex with Siri telling him you ain't my Daddy. LOL
American guys could learn a lot from Colombianos.....mainly never ever cohabitate with a woman that has another guys kids.....I'm not saying not to sleep with them if you want ....but just don't live with them.
You could cut divorce and child abuse in half if American guys would wake up and stop letting women divorce and actually move up by finding another chump to help pay for her kids. Plus most child abuse is perpetrated by men other than the father living in the home with children that are not his own.
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I'm definitely not a lady's man like you, Calipro and I'm not ugly, overweight, short or bald either, even know a good amount of Spanish besides being fluent in two other languages and appear young for my age apart from the wrinkles, but game I have none and forget cold approaches.
Out of the three colombianas I've met on Cupid during the last 12 years, the first had a grown son who refused to finish law school and she had a 15 year old daughter who was as lazy as the day was long and barely made it through colegio, even though both parents where accomplished professionals. She was very elegant and high maintenance and I soon had spent the best part of my savings on her, finally saw the light and broke up with her after 5 years.
Number two was 33 and childless and for six years I had to listen to her that she wanted a child which for me was out of the question because of my advanced age and already having grown children anyway. After we broke up she got herself pregnant by some dude her own age who was married and didn't have a job in years, lost the baby of 3 months and wrote recently that she needed a hysterectomy. She doesn't like to work even though she has a degree in preschool teaching because she claims she has a nervous condition, so a baby would have been an additional burden for her anyway. But try to tell a single colombiana that she really can't afford a baby if she thinks it is her God-given right to have one without the baby's dad being in her or the kid’s life.
Gf number three of nearly two years, my morena and half my age, comes from a very poor but very honest and decent family. She is a hard working beautician, is in the process of getting her diploma by the end of the year and actually made her bachillerato on the internet last year, behind my back to my big surprise. Been helping her aging parent’s parents survive who have absolutely no income, even paid most of her dad’s open heart surgery (their free gov. insurance refused him because of his age of 83) but keeping her on a strict work schedule which involves most weekends and any unexpected funds she needs from me, like when they robbed her at gunpoint of her cellphone she is paying back. Not that I'm a cheapskate but I'm not exactly wealthy either.
So I am running a tight ship – sort off.
She has a 10 year old daughter who is very good in school but loves to eat. That caused some frictions between the three of us and just recently I was able to convince mom that the kid has to go on a diet by taking some measurements and demonstrating on a few charts from the internet that she is on the borderline of being obese. So far so good.
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Oh you are so right about American men being the biggest wimps and it is getting worst by the day.
I see so many guys that are in shape and still go for the lowest hanging fruit they can find. They go after mid 30's to 40's women that have other guys children and then pay to play Dad. It is really really sad.
I can't even stand to see magazines with Jamie Fox and Cathy Homes together.....I mean the guy has millions and if Cathy Homes asked my broke ass out for a date....I'd ask her "how much are you payin" LOL
And this fool Jamie Fox is making it seem like it's just great to be hooking up with Tom Cruses ex with Siri telling him you ain't my Daddy. LOL
American guys could learn a lot from Colombianos.....mainly never ever cohabitate with a woman that has another guys kids.....I'm not saying not to sleep with them if you want ....but just don't live with them.
You could cut divorce and child abuse in half if American guys would wake up and stop letting women divorce and actually move up by finding another chump to help pay for her kids. Plus most child abuse is perpetrated by men other than the father living in the home with children that are not his own.
Good insight Calipro but we all know american men are on a downward spiral that won't stop any time soon....
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I'm definitely not a lady's man like you, Calipro and I'm not ugly, overweight, short or bald either, even know a good amount of Spanish besides being fluent in two other languages and appear young for my age apart from the wrinkles, but game I have none and forget cold approaches.
Out of the three colombianas I've met on Cupid during the last 12 years, the first had a grown son who refused to finish law school and she had a 15 year old daughter who was as lazy as the day was long and barely made it through colegio, even though both parents where accomplished professionals. She was very elegant and high maintenance and I soon had spent the best part of my savings on her, finally saw the light and broke up with her after 5 years.
Number two was 33 and childless and for six years I had to listen to her that she wanted a child which for me was out of the question because of my advanced age and already having grown children anyway. After we broke up she got herself pregnant by some dude her own age who was married and didn't have a job in years, lost the baby of 3 months and wrote recently that she needed a hysterectomy. She doesn't like to work even though she has a degree in preschool teaching because she claims she has a nervous condition, so a baby would have been an additional burden for her anyway. But try to tell a single colombiana that she really can't afford a baby if she thinks it is her God-given right to have one without the baby's dad being in her or the kid’s life.
Gf number three of nearly two years, my morena and half my age, comes from a very poor but very honest and decent family. She is a hard working beautician, is in the process of getting her diploma by the end of the year and actually made her bachillerato on the internet last year, behind my back to my big surprise. Been helping her aging parent’s parents survive who have absolutely no income, even paid most of her dad’s open heart surgery (their free gov. insurance refused him because of his age of 83) but keeping her on a strict work schedule which involves most weekends and any unexpected funds she needs from me, like when they robbed her at gunpoint of her cellphone she is paying back. Not that I'm a cheapskate but I'm not exactly wealthy either.
So I am running a tight ship – sort off.
She has a 10 year old daughter who is very good in school but loves to eat. That caused some frictions between the three of us and just recently I was able to convince mom that the kid has to go on a diet by taking some measurements and demonstrating on a few charts from the internet that she is on the borderline of being obese. So far so good.
Well I do believe it is a woman’s god given right to have a child if she wants one
And I don’t think it is a deal breaker for an older guy to hook up with a younger hotter woman that has a child
Especially if he has children of his own
But to watch younger American guys forgo having their own children to take care of some old seahags kids is quite another story
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In the USA, also probably the same in pretty much every nation & culture, marrying, or even cohabitation with a woman with kids from a previous relationship, is an invitation to HELL. Not gonna say it will be like that for everyone, but I think the vast majority of such scenarios have more than their share of rough patches. My older son gave my wife and I HELL.
It's 98% all good now, but it took a long time and not just because my boys 'came around' but at least as much because my wife never 'rose to the wicked bait' they set out, maintaining her composure and respecting their natural mother's role. Not to say that in the privacy of our bedroom, that I didn't get some very succinct advice on how to deal with them when they were in 'little monster' mode. I still do, but now, it's when they're in 'adult monster mode' occasionally LOL...
I can think of only one regular poster here who largely can talk about how positive it worked out after
marrying a woman with kids---UC. And she was widowed and they weren't teenagers, which adds a little buffer to some of the more typical issues down the line. Others have posted about the 'possible' issues and I bet a lot more just don't want to admit that it has caused unexpected misery.
That's problem here, I think. Too few people have the balls to admit and share when things get rough and most guys who's marriages fall apart don't post a word-- they simply disappear from here.
And those are the posts that could help people the most. But as most guys here, to put it nicely, are 'different'--they will go places and take chances where most guys wouldn't dream, but they're also to an extent, narcissistic 'lone wolves' -- perhaps here for comparing hunting notes. More into themselves and their own situations than here for altruistic reasons.
Thousands of members have tapped into resources here, got what they want and disappeared forever, leaving no idea if anything ever panned out.
And I'll admit that I come off a bit narcissistic myself at times, but the good stuff that God's granted us, has been --'is' good and true. And I for sure have shared in great depth my 14 year long train wreck of my first marriage, to a foreign woman in the past--being taken for a green card ride and a whole lot more. And yet, I know it --the 98% great last twelve years and the four more years I knew her before marrying my wonderful 2ND wife, could all disappear tomorrow. Maybe I just need to draw more of a line between coming off as boastful, bragging and be more 'matter of fact'.
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Thanks for the shout out, Robert. Yes, I get a lot of satisfaction and affection from my stepkids.
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Thanks for the shout out, Robert. Yes, I get a lot of satisfaction and affection from my stepkids.
For what it is worth UC.....I do know one guy that actually likes his step son more than he likes his wife and would have probably have left the relationship long ago if he didn't love his step son as much as he does.
But for everyone of these cases.....there are probably nine where the guy just doesn't even seem to consider the huge trade off he is making when he marries a woman with another guys children.
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For what it is worth UC.....I do know one guy that actually likes his step son more than he likes his wife and would have probably have left the relationship long ago if he didn't love his step son as much as he does.
But for everyone of these cases.....there are probably nine where the guy just doesn't even seem to consider the huge trade off he is making when he marries a woman with another guys children.
I am sure that you are right. I just lucked out.
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American guys could learn a lot from Colombianos.....mainly never ever cohabitate with a woman that has another guys kids.....I'm not saying not to sleep with them if you want ....but just don't live with them.
You could cut divorce and child abuse in half if American guys would wake up and stop letting women divorce and actually move up by finding another chump to help pay for her kids. Plus most child abuse is perpetrated by men other than the father living in the home with children that are not his own.
You mean it's not just the 'red headed step child' that attracts trouble?
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Oh almost forgot. Some of the photos are old as hell. Latin Life Mates is one of those that I see women that have been on that site that i recognize from 2005.
Same as in ACG (All Colombian Girls) - same photos since I last visited and that was 10 years ago!!!
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Same as in ACG (All Colombian Girls) - same photos since I last visited and that was 10 years ago!!!
Maybe they've just aged very well, LOL....
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Same as in ACG (All Colombian Girls) - same photos since I last visited and that was 10 years ago!!!
Who the hell would even look at marriage agency websites for 10 years. LOL
Most guys after spending a few weeks in country figure out that there is a lot better quality women outside of marriage agencies than in them..... and never look back.
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Even though I have used Cupid in the past, I only looked for a serious relationship in Colombia and I live here, except the first time in 2005 when my contact ended in a 5 year exclusive relationship with a colombiana which I pursued from California and I moved to Colombia three months later to be with her all year round.
By now Cupid is full of scammers like the rest of them, unattractive women, attractive ones with lots of baggage, greencard sharks or women who are only interested in milking a gringo during a long distance relationship while enjoying their familiar lifestyle at a much higher status which more often than not includes a previous bf.
If you only want to have fun and understand that you're not the only one it's an other story, you have nothing to lose if you refrain from becoming a steady Western Union customer afterwards.
A colombiana acquaintance once told me, she doesn't take any long distance relationship serious unless the gringo either lives with her in Colombia or with her in his native country. And I think she spoke for the great majority.
Also remember they put their best foot forward, are usually a little heavier as their pictures show and they need help with their parents, mostly it involves their mom only or their siblings. It's not written in stone like in South-East Asia that you help the family, but when you see that she works long hours and struggles to support her mom, how can you not step in to help.
Just read in a European newspaper that only 6% of long distance relationships actually work out. The others end in disappointment or a serious blow to ones ego.
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Even though I have used Cupid in the past, I only looked for a serious relationship in Colombia and I live here, except the first time in 2005 when my contact ended in a 5 year exclusive relationship with a colombiana which I pursued from California and I moved to Colombia three months later to be with her all year round.
By now Cupid is full of scammers like the rest of them, unattractive women, attractive ones with lots of baggage, greencard sharks or women who are only interested in milking a gringo during a long distance relationship while enjoying their familiar lifestyle at a much higher status which more often than not includes a previous bf.
If you only want to have fun and understand that you're not the only one it's an other story, you have nothing to lose if you refrain from becoming a steady Western Union customer afterwards.
A colombiana acquaintance once told me, she doesn't take any long distance relationship serious unless the gringo either lives with her in Colombia or with her in his native country. And I think she spoke for the great majority.
Also remember they put their best foot forward, are usually a little heavier as their pictures show and they need help with their parents, mostly it involves their mom only or their siblings. It's not written in stone like in South-East Asia that you help the family, but when you see that she works long hours and struggles to support her mom, how can you not step in to help.
Just read in a European newspaper that only 6% of long distance relationships actually work out. The others end in disappointment or a serious blow to ones ego.
Very true. Best way is to live in country.
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And then there's guys that pretend to be women online.
Just to get their rocks off.
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And then there's guys that pretend to be women online.
Just to get their rocks off.
Ja Ja Ja..
Hes back..
I remember that.. very cruel..very , very cruel..but heelarious...funniest thing I have ever seen on this site..
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Ja Ja Ja..
Hes back..
I remember that.. very cruel..very , very cruel..but heelarious...funniest thing I have ever seen on this site..
Yeah, When he started talking about heart palpitations, I split.
BTW, he's doing okay now.
Got him a legit woman in Lima.
https://twitter.com/philipcbrown1
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Yeah, When he started talking about heart palpitations, I split.
BTW, he's doing okay now.
Got him a legit woman in Lima.
https://twitter.com/philipcbrown1
The guy should be arrested by Interpol just for wearing that shirt---it'd be grounds for divorce in our house...
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The guy should be arrested by Interpol just for wearing that shirt---it'd be grounds for divorce in our house...
Really. I've noticed those hideous things are standard uniform with the senior set.