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Asian International Dating Forums => Asian -> Introductions and Ice-Breakers => Topic started by: amandarighetti on October 06, 2013, 11:57:25 AM
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Hi to all members on this community i am thanks to the administrator of this forum for approve my account i am sure here i got better knowledge thanks again.
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Hi Amanda
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welcome to P-L. How is Pakistan? What interested you about this forum? Thanks
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Pakistan? ??? .. not again,,went through this once on PBH...
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Pakistan? ??? .. not again,,went through this once on PBH...
You might be right, but you never know--take away our respective govts, and there are some really nice people from Pakistan and the USA.
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Pakistan? ??? .. not again,,went through this once on PBH...
Usually, those that join from Pakistan are posting spam links on their next post.
I come from the sister sight Russian Women Discussion. Russian wife, married
8 years, yada, yada
Udachi! (means good luck in Russian).
Bill
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I'm glad your luck is holding. There are some wonderful women from Russia, Eastern Europe, etc. I almost ended up with a half Asian, half Russian lady from Almaty, Kazakhstan--she really had her act together, to the point where her having a child already was not an obstacle to me. I sometimes wonder--hope she found a great guy, but I had to throw away pictures.
There are scammers everywhere. Before internet cafes became passe' I could watch beautiful young ladies deal with as many as 4 'suitors' at one time, all these guys on screen at once and her keeping a Mona Lisa like smile, careful not to laugh or show too much emotion and off putting someone. Sometimes another person would handle keyboard/replies--keeping the suckers and girl 'engaged'--a coach.
Whether it was the the Mama Sitas and I think we called the Russian handlers 'Fat Yuris? -- most nations seemed to have some kind of umm 'enterprise' going. Sometimes a woman's desperation--poverty was sadly evident. I recall one woman who in a few moment's time, told me she would be my "slave"--not the gal I wanted to bring home to meet my young sons, then or now.
But it was always interesting, usually fun and getting on the plane was totally worth it. I made several overseas trips (with little vacay days or money to spare) and success took a while--my hopes where dashed more than once.
Ironically, I ended up with a woman who I met in the earliest days of my search. I had told myself "Too young, too beautiful, too well educated--great family--out of my league." Years went by, and we stayed in touch, meanwhile with other people in mind, only to see ea other's 'relationships' crash and burn. Commiserating, we finally said "Why not us?" after all. Had I known better and acted, we'd be looking at twenty years together.
But it all--the travel adventures, the laughter, the tears--has again been worth it.
What are y'all looking at--or for, out there?
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What are y'all looking at--or for, out there?
I'm 6'7" and the 5ft tall girls don't really fit well, for a man
my size.
My wife Angel Eyes (5' 7") was an electrical engineer who built
nuclear power plants around the FSU. I always wanted the
smart, educated girl with the heart of gold, so that's the type
that I pursued.
Once I found her, I visited her 4 times in a year and then she
visited me twice. I knew she was what I always wanted so on
her second trip to see me, I drove her to Las Vegas and married
her, applied for an adjustment of status, because there was no way
that I was going to take her to the airport again to watch her
fly back to Russia.
She occasionally flies back to visit Mamma, family and friends, but
I know she has the return ticket in her hands before she leaves.
Udachi!
Bill
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Awesome! Sounds like the perfect balance of deliberation, action and decisiveness.
I was so mentally beat up after my divorce, that I dragged my feet for far too long. "Once bit, twice shy." I had two young sons and only a couple weeks vacay a year, but I should've acted much faster.
It's also easy to waste time enjoying the online attention of so many intriguing women from the comfort of home after work etc, to the point where you never "get on the plane" and invariably the best ones get away.
Disclaimer: My own experience was very unusual and nobody should expect another person to literally wait years for the other to commit.
In such situations, absence of commitment, support-- of showing up IN PERSON--well boys, absence typically makes the heart go wander...
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2013 - I get the feeling Amanda is not coming back.