Medellin or Cali...??

[Alabamaboy!]

My opinion for looks:

1. Cali
2. BAQ/CTG/Santa Marta
3. Medellin/Bucaramanga
4. Bogota

For Personality:

1. BAQ/CTG/Santa Marta
2. Cali
3. Medellin/Bucaramanga
4. Bogota

Best Bet for Smooth Transition to US Lifestyle:

1. Bogota
2. Medellin
3. BAQ/CTG/Santa Marta
4. Cali

I definitely agree with the guys who say that they will pack on a couple lbs when they come to the States. So the curves may come with that. On the other hand if she is throwing down a lot of grub when you are with her in Colombia you might be in trouble when she comes to the States.

[mambocowboy]

My opinion for looks:

1. Cali
2. BAQ/CTG/Santa Marta
3. Medellin/Bucaramanga
4. Bogota

For Personality:

1. BAQ/CTG/Santa Marta
2. Cali
3. Medellin/Bucaramanga
4. Bogota

Best Bet for Smooth Transition to US Lifestyle:

1. Bogota
2. Medellin
3. BAQ/CTG/Santa Marta
4. Cali

I definitely agree with the guys who say that they will pack on a couple lbs when they come to the States. So the curves may come with that. On the other hand if she is throwing down a lot of grub when you are with her in Colombia you might be in trouble when she comes to the States.

First time i have seen it broken down like that. My list would look the same, but obviously some guys prefer the Paisa look or the Bogota look....i will say now that i'm in BAQ staying with my in laws in a estrato 1 neighborhood, the culture is night and day from San Diego. There is no such thing as privacy here. I was joking with my wife that the only thing these people do alone is go to the bathroom, and she admitted that's accurate ...

[Hector_Lavoe]

A week is a short time to attract a lady for serious relationship. But, I don't necessarily think one city really has that much of an advantage over the other if you are looking for a serious relationship.

But with such a short trip I think you might have more fun in Cali than Medellin....just because from my experience Calenas are more inclined to sleep with you sooner than the average Paisa. I think Calenas tend to use sex to build interest in a relationship more than Paisas when you first start dating....assuming they are interested in a serious relationship with you.

Ok, thanks for the perspective.

[Hector_Lavoe]

Once again: Thanks for ALL the replies! The collective experience in Colombia is very deep on this board. So I appreciate it.

One more tech related question: I can't seem to delete this lady's photo from the thread?

I used photobucket once before to share a photo on P.L. and as soon as I deleted the photo on that site..it was deleted on P.L.

I deleted this one on photobucket but it still shows up in this thread. I think I should have posted it as a link...not a direct image.

Is Shadow_Mas still the moderator for this site? I might ask him/her to remove it. Thanks in advance.

[Hector_Lavoe]

One more tech related question: I can't seem to delete this lady's photo from the thread?

Actually, never mind. Looks like it actually worked.

[buencamino3]

Hector I have both but I much prefer Flicker over Photobucket as with the latter images seem to lose quality especially sharpness when linked. Links from Flicker stay truer to the original image. That's my impression anyway.

[Hector_Lavoe]

^B.C. Ok, good to know.

[robert angel]

Most important test for women..see if they can suck a ping pong ball through a garden hose..

And you're still looking for a wife and potential Mother for your child after all these years??

Wonder why no luck?

[SkyNorth]

RA...com'on don't be judgmental.  I believe EP's point is that in a post-Apocalyptic world his wife and mother of kids would be an asset when it comes to collecting gasoline.  Like "Mad Max" style.

[mudd]

My opinion for looks:

1. Cali
2. BAQ/CTG/Santa Marta
3. Medellin/Bucaramanga
4. Bogota

For Personality:

1. BAQ/CTG/Santa Marta
2. Cali
3. Medellin/Bucaramanga
4. Bogota

Best Bet for Smooth Transition to US Lifestyle:

1. Bogota
2. Medellin
3. BAQ/CTG/Santa Marta
4. Cali

I definitely agree with the guys who say that they will pack on a couple lbs when they come to the States. So the curves may come with that. On the other hand if she is throwing down a lot of grub when you are with her in Colombia you might be in trouble when she comes to the States.

nice comparison, but would include pereira/ armenia/manizales into the group someplace, since all three cities are pretty close to each other and could hit all three very easily/

[Elexpatriado]

RA...com'on don't be judgmental.  I believe EP's point is that in a post-Apocalyptic world his wife and mother of kids would be an asset when it comes to collecting gasoline.  Like "Mad Max" style.

Too old for kids..what a joke...and the Ops window is closing fast...especially if he keeps being so superficial

[benjio]

nice comparison, but would include pereira/ armenia/manizales into the group someplace, since all three cities are pretty close to each other and could hit all three very easily/

Agreed.

[buencamino3]

"Too old to have kids..."


What with sildenifil/viagra there's really no limit unless you have prostate procedures which many older guys have to deal with. Even then sperm can be extracted from urine to produce fertilization. An age limit for having kids is more of a sociological issue rather than physiological. If you are seventy years old and manage to get a Colombian chica with child just leave her a lot of money and she will be 99% better off than all of her comadres who have fatherless children.

[benjio]

"Too old to have kids..."


What with sildenifil/viagra there's really no limit unless you have prostate procedures which many older guys have to deal with. Even then sperm can be extracted from urine to produce fertilization. An age limit for having kids is more of a sociological issue rather than physiological. If you are seventy years old and manage to get a Colombian chica with child just leave her a lot of money and she will be 99% better off than all of her comadres who have fatherless children.

My father is 66. I have an 18 month old half sister. Buencamino is right.

[Elexpatriado]

"Too old to have kids..."


What with sildenifil/viagra there's really no limit unless you have prostate procedures which many older guys have to deal with. Even then sperm can be extracted from urine to produce fertilization. An age limit for having kids is more of a sociological issue rather than physiological. If you are seventy years old and manage to get a Colombian chica with child just leave her a lot of money and she will be 99% better off than all of her comadres who have fatherless children.
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Yeah..true love.. Sr. Cajero. I know many old farts who use the women as a rent a womb , and the women who get impregnated for  a pension.


Then when the old guy croaks head off with the Barrio Boy.


Just for the point of getting "immortality" or whatever... Really not sure if I want a kid...too many people in the world. Nothing wrong with a women who already have kids..though some will put a stigma on it..

[buencamino3]

"Too many people in the world"


A ringing understatement that:


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Soylant Green was a prescient film.

[Calipro]

Just for the point of getting "immortality" or whatever... Really not sure if I want a kid..

About as good an argument for extinction as I have heard. jajaja


But if you really don't want a child of your own then why even consider raising someone else's?
What's the argument for that and how does it help lower the world population problem?


The way I look at it...the more beta males out there that will support another man's children the more women will get pregnant by alpha males that will not care for their offspring.


Do your part to stop women from having children with losers....don't marry or cohabitate with any women that has another guys children.
You could probably cut the divorce rate in half by doing this also.

I can't think of a bigger red flag than marrying a woman that does not want to have your children.


Take the red pill
https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-65432.html

[robert angel]

"Too many people in the world"


A ringing understatement that:


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Soylant Green was a prescient film.

Undeniably the figures above, namely world over population,  are disturbing. But life spans have grown much longer, as illnesses and diseases that killed millions are no longer as much of a factor as before.

But third world nations that might not even have such advances, still tend to have much larger and impoverished, hungry families.

Although climate change may mitigate it, advances in agriculture, with seeds that are more blight/disease resistant and produce much higher yields, are available.

Controversial yes, but genetic modification of crops, fish and livestock are going to be increasingly  necessary to feed the planet. Again with climate change, they need to be drought and flood resistant.

They do things today like insert genes from freeze resistant artic fish like a cod, into tomatoes to make them frost resistant, put genes from pigs into other non pork animals, to make them grow bigger and faster. Farm animals use more antibiotics and hormones today than people do.

If you're a vegetarian, that tomato might not seem appealing. If Muslim or Jewish, a cow with a pig gene in it might not seem too good...

We see people increasingly dying from infections that resist all antibiotics. Nobody likes to talk about that, but when a widespread, highly contagious infection spreads and there's finally no effective antibiotic, it'll make the "black"---the bubonic plague, that once reduced the entire planet's population, look like like an outbreak of sniffles.

We consume a lot of products--milk in particular, that are so full of hormones that it's no surprise that 3rd grade girls often have to wear bras nowadays. 4th grade boys with mustaches...

Meanwhile in the USA, our "enriched" and "refined" grocery store staples, loaded with empty calories and ineffective vitamin 'supplements' along with ingredients that have names even I can't pronounce, run thru our bodies like gruel thru a sieve, leaving us fat from calories, but leaving less nutrition in our bodies. We're fat, unhealthy, more prone to heart disease,  diabetes and cancer.

We need more food world wide, but need to be wiser about what we're producing or else it's just a matter of time before the trend towards longer life spans reverses.

[Hector_Lavoe]

How about the climate: Medellin vs. Cali...?

My general perception from visiting each city once was Medellin wins by a large margin.

Then I looked up each climate and saw that the actual temperature difference between the two is not that great. Plus, LESS rain and smog in Cali.

Daytime: Cali feels a lot more hot and humid.

Nighttime: Medellin is a little on the cool side. Cali gets those winds which make the evenings and early mornings more pleasant.

[Elexpatriado]

About as good an argument for extinction as I have heard. jajaja


But if you really don't want a child of your own then why even consider raising someone else's?
What's the argument for that and how does it help lower the world population problem?


The way I look at it...the more beta males out there that will support another man's children the more women will get pregnant by alpha males that will not care for their offspring.


Do your part to stop women from having children with losers....don't marry or cohabitate with any women that has another guys children.
You could probably cut the divorce rate in half by doing this also.

I can't think of a bigger red flag than marrying a woman that does not want to have your children.


Take the red pill
https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-65432.html

Everyone has their point of view

Tell you dont have a pension and dont have any money or property and dont want to.move back to the US and see how many women 20 to 40 years younger have an interest. So much for "love" LOL.

Lot of women I know with kids are financially independent, and the fathers contribute financially and emotionally to the kids well being.

[Calipro]

Everyone has their point of view

Tell you dont have a pension and dont have any money or property and dont want to.move back to the US and see how many women 20 to 40 years younger have an interest. So much for "love" LOL.

Lot of women I know with kids are financially independent, and the fathers contribute financially and emotionally to the kids well being.

I personally have never seen more single mothers that get next to nothing from their deadbeat Colombian boyfriends than in Medellin. From my anecdotal observations I would say for every Colombiano that contributes to the financial well being of their children born out of wedlock....there are 4 that don't.


I'll get a pension....but what does that have to do with anything. Any woman I'm with won't get a penny of it unless I marry them before I retire and they won't ever get a visa unless I marry them......just say NO to marriage....problem solved.


I have never promised any woman I would marry her and or bring her to the states before getting involved with them.


I probably will marry the one that is going to have my baby and bring her to the states before I turn 62 so she can collect child in care benefits from social security. But I haven't told her that.


Seems to me that if you are having to promise a pension or a visa to get women interested in you...then maybe you should just start paying them upfront....just seems more honest and open.

[Calipro]

How about the climate: Medellin vs. Cali...?

My general perception from visiting each city once was Medellin wins by a large margin.

Then I looked up each climate and saw that the actual temperature difference between the two is not that great. Plus, LESS rain and smog in Cali.

Daytime: Cali feels a lot more hot and humid.

Nighttime: Medellin is a little on the cool side. Cali gets those winds which make the evenings and early mornings more pleasant.

Certainly less rain in Cali but the smog depends on where you are staying in either city.
Seems to me that the South of Cali actually gets a bit hotter than the north part of the city.

[mudd]

The way I look at it...the more beta males out there that will support another man's children the more women will get pregnant by alpha males that will not care for their offspring.

I personally have never seen more single mothers that get next to nothing from their deadbeat Colombian boyfriends than in Medellin. From my anecdotal observations I would say for every Colombiano that contributes to the financial well being of their children born out of wedlock....there are 4 that don't.

true on both parts, prob its more higher. i know many single mothers in medellin with no support from the fathers for  their child, but still.....they keep getting pregnant from the loser guys. they  see it in their barrios, other girls or cousins with babies and dead beat fathers and still,,,,,dont learn from it,

[utopiacowboy]

I have to laugh reading these posts. I am probably the only guy here who supported another man's children and all three of them have graduated from college and are working with good professional jobs. I recently helped one of them buy his first house, something I did for my four biological children as well. Alpha male, beta male, whatever!

[buencamino3]

The reality of the culture in Colombia is that when those barrio girls get knocked up by some barrio chico who doesn't have two pesos to rub together and wouldn't share them with her if he did is that they aren't horrified by the prospect at all like a US chica might be. The reason is that kid is her life insurance policy. He or she will take care of her when she gets old since it's extremely unlikely a man will be in her life at that point to do it. If she has a boy she'd probably better have another as barrio boys tend to get shot before making it to adult hood. I've known and stayed friends with a number of choices who were childless when I met them but got with child by some irresponsible a bit later on. It really doesn't bother them and is just a normal part of the cycle of life...at least in Cali.