Younger latin prospects

[Kiltboy1]

I agree with Mudd

I have dateed a lot  of Latinas and the majority were Colombian women and save for maybe 1 or 2, every woman I dated under 25 were just all about going out with there group of friends. In Bogota you get a few more younger ones that might be a bit more mature because there are more job opportunities in Bogota and thus they can work and learn more about life in the real world. But outside of Bogota, a whole different story.I am like EP, I am very picky and I passed on some decent women because they just did not meet my every expectation. They call it " EXIGENTE"   in Spanish and I was extreamely picky until I met my Ecuadorina wofe who fills every expectation I was looking for. ate the younger ones  to get a feel for dating a latin women, but beware of them for Marriage material because in my experience the latin woman is just not as mature as an Maerican women at the youn ages. American women are more independant and have lived more of lif's experiences and that is why I feel that 26 and up is about the time a latin woman starts to understand that life is not about RUMBA, 3 HOUR LUNCH BREAKS AND THE REAL MEANING OF DEDICATION

KB

[EricandCaro]

...bros..i guess the bottom line is that we(men and women) all mature at different times in life...in general, it is clear the older  we are the mature we become and less time in the club and partying... Our priorities change..

...but..keep the partying and dancing spirit alive bros...keeps us young and having fun! That is the Latin FIRE! 





Enjoy!
--Eric

[rocky1359]

I been to 3 diferent latin countries colombia mostly. But the young girls between 20 and 27 are very plentiful. I met a girl in cali 20 years old that speaks inglish very good and is very responsible. I am 52. she had no problems with that. we had a great time together. and ahe was ready to get married . but I had to try to see older women. so I went to barranquilla and met a 40 year old.but she was very afraid of coming to the states and had 2 kids. it was going to be very difficult to sort out the details with her.
In my experience even at my age the young girls are very much ready to have a serios relasionship. especially if she has a child. They are fun loving, educated.sincere and they dont want money they just want a chance in life.so dificult to decide. Rocket.

[Soprano69]

Many of us have done the tours: been there, done that, seen it all.
         If anyone is into marketing a marriage or introduction agency and portraying Medellin as Paradise in Colombia, is a deception for those who havn't been there. You have to remember from the time you get off from the airplane in Rio Negro, the cons and kidnappers are out. The one hour travel to Medellin is no U.S. Route 69! There are and have been "gringo jackers" that will wait and carjack your cab if they see a white lamb sitting there. The nights you can be robbed even in Poblado unless you have more than one other alert buddy with you. Careful with the outskirts in certain areas outside of Medellin where the Farc or ELN could scoop you up.
          The ladies (paisas) are no easy catch, especially the good looking ones. They would rather have a Colombian boyfriend or husband as long as he is a little more faithful and willing to help support them, allow them to work and study. After all they are younger than most of us that go there. Most DO NOT want to leave Colombia because of their family ties; language barrier; culture and mainly few really love a gringo as much as a Colombiano. There are a few who will make the move to the U.S. but they will do it for economic reasons. They nearly all will call their moms and sister, brothers, every aunt, nephew, niece and most of all grandmothers 3-7 times a week. They will send your money or hers if she works as regular as sure as Monday is in every week. I failed to mention that if you marry her, you marry their families!
      I am not trying to discourage any man who has his hopes to find his "media naranja" (His other half) but to do his homework first; as allot of questions; don't believe everything or everyone you read or hear. There are really pretty, sincere and intelligent women there. But you have to have patience. Be willing to return more than once or twice to see if she is what she portrays herself. Is she writing you often? Is she really excited to hear your voice over the phone or say I can't talk too long or hardly ever answers her phone? Does she ask for money constantly? Suddenly her mother, grandmother or kid become very ill and in need of a quick operation? Does she have a lot of free time on her hands, little or no work but has designer shoe and clothes? Does she say; “Baby..Amor , I want a lipo and bigger 'tetas' so I can be sexy and pretty for you".
         Remember: If you met a gorgeous young hottie in an agency, you can be sure she met a few before you and as sure as the Pope is a Catholic, she will meet more gringos after you leave. Then dash back home and say she is going out with her girlfriends...eeeya...sure she will .
     
     If you are a 30 sum-good-looking guy with designer clothes, choppy haircuts, with a fairly good education, good profession, money to splurge: many young 17 + chicas are willing to give you the time of your life and maybe even dump their boyfriends (until you leave or give them a fiancée visa).
     
     If you are 40 and up, in-shape, hair, nice clothes, profesional with $$ to splurge: many young chicas 19 up will be happy to help you spend your time and money in shear pleasure.
     
     If you’re over 40 and up, balding, over weight and dress with clothes from Wal-Mart: your matches are less attractive, not so young and most likely have kids.     
     
     If you are 50 plus, good looking, nice clothes, hair and money: 25 and up, with maybe one kid, but most likely won't be a 9-10.

     If you are 50 plus, overweight, bad teeth, eBay clothes on a fixed income: your in the also ran’s and attract 35 year + old divorcees with mostly kids from the suburbs.
     
     If you are 60 - 70: don't even think about a 19 year old unless she works for one hour and 20 minutes.
     
     Above 70: Just expect to deplete your retirement and social security on dinners, Viagra and movies with the average 45 year old.

For everyone: Learn spanish and don't get intimidated! 

[Patrick]

Crashfire we are very close in age. I've met some very immature ladies that were 25 and up and then a few really mature ones who were younger than 25. It all depends on the girl ...

So do not discount the younger ones simply on their age.

Thats the answer I was looking for and all good points.
I'm surprised to hear that quite a few of you have been dating/looking for several years now. Is it that hard to find a good Latina? No offense.

I remember when I was helping my wife with her intro agency.  I used to caution guys all the time.  Incredibly, I was at times arguing with potential clients whether marrying the younger women was a good idea for long term prospects.   Wasn't I suppose to be the one "selling" the idea?   I learned why the hype I read on some of the web sites worked as a sales tool.  People really want to believe they can get rich quick with little effort.  They want to believe they can marry a really young extremely attractive woman and be happy the rest of their life.  They want to believe creams and pills can make their penis bigger.

Believe what you wish crash.

By the way, it's not at all hard to go to Colombia and get married quickly.  You might even accomplish it with one trip with a little luck.  As you progress on to your 2nd and 3rd marriages, you'll probably get better at it and won't have any problems at all finding wives.

[rpcv]

I remember when I was helping my wife with her intro agency.  I used to caution guys all the time.  Incredibly, I was at times arguing with potential clients whether marrying the younger women was a good idea for long term prospects.    By the way, it's not at all hard to go to Colombia and get married quickly.  You might even accomplish it with one trip with a little luck.  

You are correct about getting engaged/married in one trip. On my last visit, I actually met a guy that was doing exactly what you described. It was his first visit to Colombia, he didn't speak all but a few words of Spanish, and was preparing to marry a woman who already had a small child. I think everyone (including his future wife) was somewhat stunned but he was determined to go thru with it..

Anyway to me, that is different than marrying a younger lady after you have spent time getting to know her, her family, etc. Especially if you have a fairly good grasp of Spanish/ and or she has of English. One of my good buddies married a 19 year old when he was almost 40 and they have been together now over 10+ years with a 3 year old son. Now that might be an exception but I still have met some mature 21/22/23 year olds.

[Patrick]

RP,

There are exceptions as you point out.  I think a lot of newbies, especially those who don't find sites like this one, tend to believe the hype though.  I think one's chances of a lasting marriage are much lower if you go too far outside your league, especially in terms of age.

I can understand the men who want to date the young women.  It's only natural.   But to want to get married to one of them seems like a poor bet to me.

[crashfirepm53]

By the way, it's not at all hard to go to Colombia and get married quickly.  You might even accomplish it with one trip with a little luck.  As you progress on to your 2nd and 3rd marriages, you'll probably get better at it and won't have any problems at all finding wives.

My point that the Latin women are supposed to be more sincere. Obviously most men could meet and marry a woman on thier 1st trip if they really wanted to but I'm smart enough to know that this would be a short term marriage.

I just think that if you are looking for a wife, know what you want and don't want, that within a year or a couple of successful trips you could find the one.

On the other hand, how long would you expect your Latin girlfriend that is 1500 miles away to wait around on you while you are figuring out if she is the one for you??

[william3rd]

My favorite scumbag agency claims that they have an 80% success rate, that the younger women are dying to meet older men with large age differences, and that most of their marriages are successful. Actually, the opposite is true EXCEPT green card girls don't care about age difference since they are not staying around anyway.

[blockbuster]

My favorite scumbag agency claims that they have an 80% success rate, that the younger women are dying to meet older men with large age differences, and that most of their marriages are successful. Actually, the opposite is true EXCEPT green card girls dont care about age difference since tehy are not staying around anyway.

 William3rd,

 I highly agree. Any young and beautiful woman who says she does not care about looks or age is highly suspect to me as EVERYONE has preferences. If that is really so then there are hundreds of guys who fit that criteria and would be as easy for her to find as shooting fish in a barell even if there was a male shortage.  Even ugly girls have preferences. they just can't afford to be too picky.

[crashfirepm53]

Kinda makes you wonder what all the hoopla is about. Yeh sure they are damn sexy but I get the feeling that If I want a good latina wife, my luck in Miami is about just as good without the immigration hassles.

appears to be more gold diggers in Colombia than sincere ones so far.Granted if you get lucky  you'll have a great wife.

[Researcher]

Kinda makes you wonder what all the hoopla is about. Yeh sure they are damn sexy but I get the feeling that If I want a good latina wife, my luck in Miami is about just as good without the immigration hassles.

appears to be more gold diggers in Colombia than sincere ones so far.Granted if you get lucky  you'll have a great wife.

Where in Colombia have you looked?

[crashfirepm53]

I haven't looked anywhere yet. But listening to the trip reports and stories, there seems to be alot more negative than positive stories. It does seem that sticking to it most are very happy with  the woman that they found but they have looked thru alot of women to find her.
It just appears to have alot more stories of gold diggers, two timers and such than the genuine women.
 I'm not trying to be negative and I still plan on looking in south america. The agencies make it out to be like shooting fish in a barrel. I know that that is not realistic but it sure doesn't appear to be that easy.
I'm sure that I will be mesmerized by the Latina women when I start looking down there and it is hard to not get caught up in the looks department. I'm just not wanting to make a trip and meet a bunch of women looking for some "Gringo dollars" thats all and I know and expect to meet some like that. It does appear like everyone has definantly met thier share od dollar hunters, insincerity and women showing up wayy late which are all signs to "look on" for a different woman.

[EricandCaro]

At what age would most of you consider a Latin woman is serious about an relationship/ marriage? I have a hard time considering an 18-20 y/o women as being really "ready" for a lifetime. Personally, I'm in the 25 and up range. I'm currently 36.

My friend. Latin women, are women..Does not matter that they are Latin.  There are so many variables that it is impossible to determine when one is ready to settle down. My wife is Colombian and she tells me most 18-20 living in Bogotá are not thinking of settling down at such young age..She was not and most men are not either. Just like in the states, you find some men and women that marry very very young and those that wait. Those that go on the college track  or are focused on their careers usually marry later.

I'm 38 and my wife is 28.  I would say the 25 and up is safe but I have met some 22s that were ripe and ready so take each one on a case by case basis and enjoy!

[Researcher]

          I see your point.For me, Bogota, Colombia was the best choice and yes, I met alot of women in Bogota and Cali....but that was my goal.I had so many options there that I really thought about what I wanted in a woman and was able to be very selective.I met several women that I liked and I enjoyed the trips I made there and if I did meet one that I thought was a gold digger, I didn't hesitate to move on to another.All in all it was a positive experience and now that I am married to the woman of my dreams I couldn't be happier.I definitely would do it all again, I mean, going somewhere that has alot of beautiful women who want to meet me???now that was a vacation.....

[fathertime]

I haven't looked anywhere yet. But listening to the trip reports and stories, there seems to be alot more negative than positive stories. It does seem that sticking to it most are very happy with  the woman that they found but they have looked thru alot of women to find her.
It just appears to have alot more stories of gold diggers, two timers and such than the genuine women.
 

You must go as soon as possible, then you will understand and will likely not look back

Fathertime!

[crashfirepm53]

Your right. i'm pretty sure after landing somewhere in South America ans stepping out of the plane I will have no regrets whatsoever.
Latin women are by far the most beautiful women on this planet to me. But hey, I live in South Florida for a reason right?

[Frank Rizzo]

Jesus...just go....the women are basically there for the taking....good luck in your hunt..